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ileobatojo: Good job! Keep the dream alive.

Wait.. You mad bro?

You seem mad.

Yeah, you mad!

jidegirl12: Why now? What the heck? She doesn't ( or anybody else) have to agree with you now abi?? You seem to do that a lot , it's just a discussion .

Leave him alone, it's like no one else can have an opinion different to his.

ileobatojo: My dear, flunking out after the first year doesn't make it your profession, mkay? Don't worry you can attend some senior education classes ehn. It's not too late for you.

LMAO you're actually making my night

Yes o, I'll take my classes on Monday right after holding a group activity class for people with eating disorders.
I'll let you know after I've enrolled on the class.


Just because I don't agree 100% with your point of view don't mean you should start throwing tantrums. You don't need to cry

From MY experiences, her case does not fit in with the norm. I'm not disputing her been ràped or what not, but a girl of her age still staying in that violating situation makes me wonder.

In reply to what you've asked me about why I needed to know her family situation, it's because I want to get an idea why someone will want to stay with an abuser for 4 years.

Was she ràped?.. I don't know. Little information to give a definite answer, but something just don't add up.

Now leave me alone!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Huh? I am innocent of all charges.

Been a long time, hope you are good. I was up to watch a game and now, its over.

Bed time,
Replace the shades on that emoticon with a face mask[/quote]I've got church tomorrow. I only have about 4 hrs to sleep

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]If I am not mistaken (and please feel free to correct me if things have changed and the new text books say differently) there isn't a one size fits all for molesters. Some like girls, some like boys, some like blonds, some like red haired girls who look like boys, some like them as babies, some like them more mature.

Don't the textbooks actually classify them. . .I tell ya, I have a vague memory of terms like Situational and Preferential or some other terms I can't remember. . .has that changed? Do they now lump them all together now?[/quote]Notice I said "child" molesters. You need to be a certain age to qualify as a child. Okay!

Jheeze! What is your issue?

Were you abused as a kid?

ileobatojo: This one's not very bright is she? Sampling people in my region gives me a wider perspective? Dear God please don't deliver us into the hands of these caliber of 'scientists'. Did you have a reference in psychology school? Several perhaps?

Haahhaha if you're planning on counting the number of escapes in all regions, you will need to include yours to get a wider sample that will be more representative and more generalisable. Abi na lie?

Please stop disturbing me, I'm off to church tomorrow. I can see that you're hurting over my profession. Pele. E go better

[quote author=Mynd_44]Too bad I can't. My browser has an child view setting done my mum which grantees that I can't view sites like that.

Help me upload it [/quote]So I can get blocked for posting indecent videos?

ileobatojo: You tell us, you're the psychologist. Tell us the psychology of people who are molested by authority figures especially when they live under them in their homes. How many of them escape right away?

I can't keep repeating myself to you, so go and read my previous posts. (Hint- age of the victim).

You might want to start doing a head count, start from people in your region so as to get a wider perspective of how many people were able to escape right away.

Agiliti: as soon as you place a fresh order for batteries
even energizer bunny go don vex for you

Opinion ignored. Argument over.

[quote author=Mynd_44]If you really have it, post it. And the only "you know what" that belongs to me and I "play" with is my girl (or ex to be honest).

But this video you claim to have, lets see it. I think its one of Killz playing with his third leg[/quote]Abeg don't bring that yeye killz to this situation. Check on pörnhub, you'll find your video there.

Agiliti: i could say the same to you,
but that'll just be stating the obvious

What a good insult. When are you going back to the factory?

[quote author=Mynd_44]Huh? Just say you don't wanna give it out jorh.

Wetin sef? [/quote]Give what out? The video of you playing with your you know what?

I'll post it if you want me to

Agiliti: they're asking how you'll look and you're saying what you'll do...
if konji is blocking your brain, better handle yourself

What is that?...

Go fûck yourself!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Do you happen to have any videos of you and em toys? I am kinda bored here[/quote]You and who? You dey craze small small abi?

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]How come he wasn't molesting her when she was 14, 15, 16?

Hmmm, now that is a hard and certainly not obvious answer type question right there and only a very very smart person can obviously answer it but lemme try (not that I am claiming to be smart mind you). If I were to guess, I'd say because she is 17 and probably more mature body-wise than she was 14, 15 and 16.

But like I said, that's a very very veeeeery hard question so. . .I could be wrong.[/quote]So you haven't seen 14, 15 yrs old of nowadays? Mtcheew!

I didn't know that one has to wait until one is 17 before ones boôbs or vàgina develop.

KMT!

Shollypopz: Her body became fully or noticeably developed at 17.
Things were going bad sexxually with his wife and he was sexxually frustrated. My sister different reasons dey.
If I hadn't shown my pictures on NL, I would hv told u something that happened to me or almost happened to me.

Child molestèrs don't wait until a certain age or development before ruining lives of children, and most of them continue until the child (who is now an adult) escape from the home or tell someone.


Yeah there are different reasons that's why no one will really know what went on with her and the uncle apart from them 2 and God.



I still wanna know even though I've seen your pic!!

ileobatojo: I fail to see how the answers to these questions will help you determine whether she was r.aped that night.

But it will help me determine how messed up she is

Let's assume she was raped that night, please explain to me what happened those other nights in that 4 years period.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I was also not serious with that na.

Why do people take me so serious sef?[/quote]The way you took me serious na

Agiliti: you would look like you ràped all the men ?
you dont need to be a queen to get there

Huh?

ItsModella: exactly, abiL doesn't do men, she does $ex toys.

Yay pa! The way this girl is spreading my dirty linen in public.. Let me catch you o!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Even when you were 15? Please there is a higher Chance of me believing i had sèx last night than me believing that[/quote]It was a joke. Not a statement based on my sèx life. At 15 I had a bf but all we did was kiss and hold hands

My one and only is the guy that I'm dating, and have been for the past 3 years.

Shollypopz: But she lived with the uncle at the age of 13 and he was solely responsible for her upkeep.

It's clear she was abused and later started enjoying it. LMAO!! The chic will need a psychology, her mind has been tampered with.

She didn't know how to say NO, the man used her naivety and the help he rendered her as a means to get into her panties.

I have a lil personal story that's slightly similar to this. It's just that me I be sharp girl!!

How come he wasn't molèsting her at 13, 14 or even 15. Why wait until she was 17?
Has the uncle been trying before, until she finally gave in?

I know you can't answer the questions, but just thought I'd type it out in the open lol

I really want to ask this girl some questions.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Räpe all the boys will ne more appropriate.[/quote]I only do men


Who wants unripe bananas

ileobatojo: Was she r.aped that night or not?

• I'm not psychic so I'll wait for the OP to come and answer some questions. But in my opinion do I think she was ràped.. Probably, probably not. I don't know.

But what baffles me isn't that night, but the several nights in that 4 years period that she allowed to happen.

From what I can recall from when I was 16, no one can make me do what I don't want to do. I do put into consideration that she might not have no one to turn to, but still... So I'll wait for the OP to come and clarify some issues, then I can give my final say on the issue.

I need to know what her family situation is like.
What she's like as a person
Why she was living with her uncle in the first place
Etc.

Shollypopz: Do I really have to?? Gimme d brief gist

Coogar might be the best person to explain it to you.

Some girl got "abused" from when she was 17 and for 4 years after that by her uncle.
She met a girl (the OP) who she confided in blah blah blah.

But her story just doesn't add up if I'm honest.

coogar: that was according to her
what won't she say to absolve herself - nigeria is a "pass the blame" society........if i earn one zimbabwean dollar for each time a naija babe has told me they were "forced" the first time, i would be a billionaire in british pounds....

The girl must have been extremely tolerant to be able to put up with the abuse for 4 years

What was the final straw? ...Hmmm


Fish, fish, fishy

Shollypopz: I always arrive late but I feel this story is incomplete.

Did the uncle rape her initially?? Was it a voluntary thing??

Has she always had the option of cutting the sinful act?? Why didn't she stop earlier??

Is she psychologically okay, (in regards to her sex life)?? How has this sexual act affect her craving for sex, how she views sex, what type of men she's attracted to, and her urge for sex??

Have u read the whole posts.. Well the first 3 pages?

[quote author=Mynd_44]When you were 15, how will you look if they made you queen and ruler of your village?[/quote]I will ràpe all the men

ileobatojo: Did you read this?


So you believe she consented that night? And you claim to be a psychologist? At least, I now know that every 'psychology fact' that comes out of your mouth at this point is to be taken with a pinch of salt. Thank you for clarifying.

No I didn't read it. I licked it. KMT!

I don't claim to be, I am one!

Stop bringing up one night like the incident was a one off thing. Wake up mr man, it happened over a period of 4 yrs... Or did u forget to read that too? Did you forget to also read her age?


Don't doubt my profession. I get paid for that shït bîtch

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Bwahahahahaha!!!

The People who are seriously projecting and adding their own jara to the story. . . "Oh she must have done this, she must have done that" are the same people asking "Where you there? Are you her uncle"

Choi! I love it when irony rears it's ugly head.

Dead!! [/quote]Because there's a difference between speculating and him saying that it was ràpe like he was there.

Next time don't rephrase my post, just quote me so I know how to reply you accordingly

He looks so bored in the first pic.