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Kentursky:
My favourite perfume is Grey Flannel by Geoffrey Beene

It is a good one. And it has been around for a while.

sassysure:
There is this Tere Hermes for men, the smell is horrible.

Smells like that thing northerners usually spray.

This perf reminds me of everything bad in a perfume even though men are crazy for it.

There is a very high possibility you bought fake. It is not anywhere near that your description. It is a woody perfume not incense based (the notherners perfume you described). You also mentioned that a lot of people love it, because a lot of people demand for it all over the world.

emmaodet:
But you know it can go the other way round too.
The wife calls or chat her ex up and he supports the woman with money.
How will the man feel too? Will he eat the said food?
Abeni lori o le gba ki ida koja lori e - A killer will not allow others to kill him with his own weapon.

Let me translate the Yoruba .

"The person that beheads people cannot allow a sword pass anywhere near his head"

We should avoid generalization when looking at marriages. That is a recipe for unhappiness. In some situations the man might insist that the money be handed to his wife and in others they might decide to share or spend jointly on an existing projects. And they can all be right, depending on what works for them. People should do what works for them to attain success without seeing things only from one angle.

Let me share an experience for people to learn to be cautious.

As an undergraduate, I was in my room (a girls hostel), just had my bath and I was changing. A female friend was around and we were gisting. She was kinda focused on her phone screen. I angrily snatched to see what she was doing. She was actually recording me dressing up. I did not hand back her phone till I had deleted the video.

Sometimes you need to protect your privacy even with people of the same sex

thorpido:
Freeda08,it is almost impossible for a man with your husband's character to hide it while you were dating except it was a long distance relationship.
I partly blame you for accepting to marry him.You mean you didn't spend time in his house to see him do his own cleaning?You didn't visit his parent's house to have an idea how they were raised(with his siblings)?You didn't study his parents?
When you have conversations,you didn't notice his pride?

I'm afaid you have to cope with your husband except you want to leave the marriage.He really won't change.

I concur on the assessment part. My advice is for single people. Any single lady or man planning to get married should do a proper assessment. That is the place of courtship. Don't let love blind you to the important things. You also need to know yourself and the values you hold dear before engaging a partner. That way you know what you are looking for.