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Family / Re: Earn 40,000 Monthly Can I Get Married. by Abugani: 10:40pm On Jan 09, 2011
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Family / Re: Isn't Marriage One Big Stress? by Abugani: 8:32pm On Jan 09, 2011
Marriage is just not fair to the woman. You put up with the husband,you take care of the kids,the in-laws,the family friends, and it goes on. And as much as you try,no one sees that,even the husband doesn't see it. Rather,he thinks you're lazy when you say you're tired or doesnt understand but gets angry when you say ''not tonight'' cos you're exhausted and want to sleep. OMG,it just seems like you're not important. Then he conveniently goes off and cheats and presents the situation to be all your fault. It just so convenient for the men. And then the woman looks at the kids and chooses to stay in spite of the wrong done to her and so she's taken for granted and it goes on. Whicheva way you go,the marriage is unfair. I pray and hope that one day,men will realize that we are not superhuman,we try to do the best we can and when our weaknesses set it,they should be there to support us not side with their families or stab us in the back.
Romance / Re: Help! We Are Crazy About Each Other But She Is 12 Years Older by Abugani: 3:35pm On Jan 08, 2011
I agree with eku_bear. What would it be like when you both grow old,she 62 and you 50. I'm a woman and personally,i dont like the idea of of having a younger guy as a boyfriend talk more of marriage. From what you've said though,you both are kinda head over heels for each other. But lets face it,lets face reailty,they'll be too many compatibility issues,submission issues,you know and without true love and willingness to sacrifice,the whole thing will come crashing down right before your eyes and then it'll be a mess. Don't get me wrong,even with a younger girl,it's not perfect but it's ideal. But in this case its not. Forget age being nothing but a number, thats just a way people like to decieve themselves.you're 25 and she 37, Hw does that look? Its so wide,you're not even peers. Honestly i think that r/ship is like a time bomb that will explode soon enough. Think hard and goodluck.
Phones / Re: Migg33; The Mobile Chatting Community. by Abugani: 2:50pm On Jan 08, 2011
Hi please does anyone know if the nokia c2 dual sim is available in abuja phone shops? Pls respond. Thank youuuuu.
Family / Re: Is It Right For A Dad To Go Through His Daughter's Phone? Could He Be Any More Overbearing? by Abugani: 2:29pm On Jan 08, 2011
No not at all. Its not right for a parent to go that far. Most times,it backfires on the parents as the daughter could end up hating them. I wouldn't do that. Best bet, if you suspect anything, sit down and talk and specifically for a daughter, dads, pls not you. Let the mums do it! Lol. wink

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