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honeric01: No one is saying you should not pray, but i am just trying to point out to you that religion is really not what should dictate to us who to marry, rather we should seek what gives us peace, some of us are the reason why another person is likely going to see the light but when you restrict yourself from those you should show the light, then how do you expect them to see the light?

Religion in Nigeria is a barrier to good things (FACT) and please there's a BIG difference between being religious (pray, go to church, bear christian/muslim names, own a bible/koran, stay around people with same belief), and be spiritual (working with God, being a reflection of what you truly practice to the fullest in act and in kind).

Nyc rght up.
Am a muslim married to a jehova witness. My dear it will suprise ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ dat  still do my prayers read my quran evry blessed mornin .

 dnt tink we youths of nao adaz shld allow somtins to hinda our happiness.

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]Good! Now, to that effect, delete his number, his text messages, the texts you sent to him, delete him from facebook, untag him from your pics on Facebook, delete all his picture in your possession, Burn the physical ones. . . Unfriend his closest friends. The idea is for you to return yourself to how you were before he came into your life. . .

Omo mehn, NO TIME to sit and brood over something that can never be. . . something you have no power over. I'd rather you take control of your life, and be responsible for putting the pieces of your heart back. Let bygones be bygones! [/color][/quote]Guy ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ wicked oooo. Haba so ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ jst wnt dis babe to throw all 3yrs jst lyk dat into gutter .

190: No they cant
ive said it when its time 4 me 2 get married

imma pack my 2009 camry @ home and trek the whole streets of abuja on FOOT lookin for TRUE LOVE~
wearing nuffin but boxerzz

Lols pple will actually tink ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ don kolo b dat. Find anoda way abeg

Johndoe100: He is a big boy!! Don't mess with them.

He his a big boi my foot.wat ar ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ tolkin about sef. So ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ tink if he mistakinly does wiv somone dat is as well connected lyk he his d person would b scared to drp charges abegy.
Stop tolkin about connection or big boy tingy here. His a big boy yet he doesn't know his way to all dis rich men's gay club. Dere ar lots he can join. Av fun nd still live his lyf .

bleedingheart: hmmm just that she is not taking good care of the kids, always on the phone and wont let me know who is calling.... she wont answer some calls that come in when am around....

Guy ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ ar jst tolkin . D truth is dis babe still enjoys other f**ks asyds yours.to tell d truth d only tin she's afraid of is , wen she finally get married to ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ , obviously she wuld b movin in wiv ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ ,her waka about wuld b monitored nd stuffs, d xtra f**ks wnt b comin lyk b4 .


Cai ii too lyk dat babe she too smart. She already analysed it . Dis 1 no b matter of dliverance ooooooo.she's neatly gettin somtin more dan usual outsyd d race

[quote author=Efemena_xy]This really is a tough one and a sad story too.

I'm not even sure what the best advice to give you in this situation might be especially as it involves a married woman here.

You really need to put yourself in the husband's situation - he's lost not only his wife but his newborn baby - a double blow. If he has no awareness that his wife borrowed such a huge some of money, then this could prove really tricky for you. He might want to know why the secrecy in the first place? How long has this been going on behind his back and like someone already pointed out, he might even suspect you of being his wife's "lover". If it turns out this way, then your might as well kiss that money goodbye - as this would really embitter him.

If on the other hand he is aware that his wife borrowed such sums from you before she passed away, then you might be in for a bit of luck. Not easy though but a bit better than the first scenario. In this case, you'd still have to be extremely cautious on how you approach the matter. If you transferred this sum of money from your bank account to hers, then your bank statements should prove this. As you both work in the bank, you should also be able to provide evidence that this electronic transfer did take place, coupled with the postdated check given to you. Has the post dated cheque got her signature? and was it written in your name?

But I do wonder, what would you do if the husband in question says she did pay you the full amount (in cash) and that you want to use this sad occasion to "pull a fast one" or "scam" the family?

You might need to employ the services of a good lawyer to help you fight this out legally. Additionally, you might need to get some elderly married people (males) to help you fight your corner.

Sorry to paint such a bleak picture but this does not really look good for you. Lending a married woman such huge sums without any 3rd parties / witnesses / IOU's.

May the poor lady's soul and that of her newborn child rest in peace.[/quote]Nyc right upp. Its really a sad 1 for him .

Do really tink ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ can get dat money out eva again ? Cos if she's actually married nd yet boRrows frm ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ to pay rent dat means dis couple might b goin tru finacial issues . Now she's dead , ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ wnt ur money back. Do ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ tink d dat dat culdnt afford to pay rent while d wife was alive wuld b able to pay wen she's dead.
My dear am nt sayin ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ shldnt try bt pls let me knw wateva responds dis man gives .

Well @ d bgining myn was interestin bt later after som months babes gettin money was bcomin an issue . Xpecially wen am almst due 4 dlivery. @ tyms ii wuld sit up @ late night nd cry my eye out to GOD dat ii really dnt wnt dis kinda marriage bt later ii gathered courage to calll him nd tolk to him about it . Trust me tins av really changed. Jst lyk somone said . My husband said ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ ar jst gettin to knw me . :DWell @ d bgining myn was interestin bt later after som months babes gettin money was bcomin an issue . Xpecially wen am almst due 4 dlivery. @ tyms ii wuld sit up @ late night nd cry my eye out to GOD dat ii really dnt wnt dis kinda marriage bt later ii gathered courage to calll him nd tolk to him about it . Trust me tins av really changed. Jst lyk somone said . My husband said ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ ar jst gettin to knw me .

Juton: It was hell, the only good thing was my girls nd my head that came out of it. I also appreciate others wonderful experience nd i expect to have a blissfull one in my next marriage ( if there wud be any)

Babes what would av really gone wrong 4 ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ to right somtin lyk dis . Pls love to knw .
 kisss

Hmmmmm ii agree wiv ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ dat all nigerian guls ar gold diggas bt do ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ realise dat even our mothers ar nt xcluded lols Hmmmmm ii agree wiv ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ dat all nigerian guls ar gold diggas bt do ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ realise dat even our mothers ar nt xcluded lols

Well konji don kill d guy b dat. Bt blive me once his got wat he wants anoda tori go start :DWell konji don kill d guy b dat. Bt blive me once his got wat he wants anoda tori go start

happy new yr peeps more food to go wiv dis yr

thanks uuuu wats ur plann

[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=451442.msg7351388#msg7351388 date=1292540140]Hey Wendy, welcome back.

Ladies and Gentlemen,
Are you ready? Are your aprons ready? Christmas cooking begins soon.
Meanwhile, I'll go shopping for foodstuffs tomorrow or next.

Husbands, please I need money as soon as possible. Thanks!
Signed,
Wife![/quote]can i com wit u plsssss

cool babe enjoy ur day