₦airaland Forum

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

Bros, you acted wrongly intoto!
You could have remained calm, pick the list, do the ones you can do and leave the rest.
They will bury their father!

Afobear:
This guy is a fraud.star and would take your money for vanishing

I have bought two laptops from him.
He even has my advance payment of 50k.
I'm getting third one from him too
He is trustworthy, we haven't met face to face before.

Fleeing Ronu man you mean.
That's their lifestyle

zmanto:
This is called hunger 101
Remember we just started the course and our lecturer is mr president

Rest in peace to the dead

Duration of the course is 4yrs, it can be extended to 8yrs if we no grab anything taught by the lecturer who is Mr T-pain

Ara21:
Exactly, by the time T.pain is done, it will be 5M per person.

Aswear

Wastage of tax payers money.
This is our sweat, they are playing with it

Zonefree:
Make they drop aza make I begin dey pay my own small small. No time.

T-pain never borrow finish.
Be calming down fess

T-pain, what we got from you is enough already.
Make Israel no reason your matter.
On behalf 🙏 of ordinary Nigerians like me, I apologize to Israel.
Na joke he did, make una no vex, abeg.

They will still play away match?
This is barbaric!

Obi is more valuable than T-pain

JikSneh:
This is Peter Obi handwork.

Peter Obi will never be president.
All ipobidients, Fulani/Hausa and other small small bitter tribes in Nigeria wo are all losers should understand that it's the turn of the yorubas, we will rule all of you till till 2031.
If you don't like it, kindly relocate to Burundi or Malawi, thanks

Get well soon.
Quick recovery

CJStarz:
Mumu

Giving out ur details on a general platform all unto wetin?
As onye Abia, ikwesiri ima ihe

Why the insults?
Have you validated the accuracy of the information he provided?
What if those data are wrong?
Easy your pressure Nwanne!

Mom007:
If you monetize the gas you just used to make this ern, you will not try it again. Besides, I highly doubt the flakes in d pic and that one in the oven are the same thing. In fact I put it to you Sir, that the meal in d bowl is real store bought cornflakes not the results of your experiment.

Osukwala gi now.

Flangelo12:
I don't think a cleaner in a poor society can buy a bag of rice monthly, anywhere in the world.

You sounded delusional, hope you are fine?

A minimum wage that can't buy a bag of rice, is that a minimum wage.

Congratulations ma'am.
NOI to the world
WTO

No be by land mass, population or oil.
The smallest is the richest!

God is using VDM more than papa J.
Hit like if you agree 👍

God is using VDM more than the prophet.
Hit like if you agree👍

Money na your mate?

Disappointing salary killed him

Túfiakwa! Ndi religion of piss

YES!
Without fear or favour a true son and daughter of Igboland will ask for the unconditional release of MNK.

bentenny:
Since u don spew the remaining English way u learn u decide to add ur local dialect!
Don't worry....just go night school okay?

Quick recovery.
Get well soon 🙏

anifranklyn67:
Kuwait dinar!!!

Make dey no dey preach rubbish.
What is the essence of the post?

bentenny:
Guy Park well if u cannot comprehend my opinion!
No be here or from me u wan learn comprehension!

Legwe gi lee comprehension.
Taa púó dia.
Na ignorance dey maneuver you.

bentenny:
The fact that another party instead of LP won shows the election was not rigged or manipulated to favour the ruling party which is a plus to the governor!
The narrative that the ruling party in the state must sweep all the LGA chairmanship seat should be discouraged and the people should be free to elect their leaders even if they are from different parties!
Common sense is not common!

Shift, you don't know what happened.

Buhari did his own.
T-pain is raising the bar.
When another is doing, make una no cry.
Much reason to show that we don't deserve each other in this country

Show us the country with the most worthy currency in the world too.

GGMU.
Win/draw for us.
We are united

bentenny:
😊
This is how politics should be played!
Not a situation where the governor of the ruling party in the state will do everything possible to ensure his party sweeps all the LGAs!

Interestingly,if LP had won all the LGAs,apc urchins will still complain but if it happens in APC dominated states,they will claim it's due to popularity!

Ask questions first.
Even osisioma and Ugwunagbo is in control of the Governor.

Some people won't understand.
ZLP is the arrangement.
Osisioma and Ugwunagbo had little issues.
Otti nor Obi failed.
Planned game!
But sabotage from the enemy was avoided