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MrBrownJay1:
This statement is such an insult to all the good men out there that don't cheat, but also an indication that you have something really foul about YOU if all the men you dated cheated on you.

You better check yourself sista!

are u really a better man? cos I sense non

there is this saying that goes thus;

a girl that left her relationship cos of her guy cheats is like leaving her country cos of rain...

even the plate number kk 666 is scaring 666

RoyalBlak007:
[color=#F535AA] Christian Marriages are actually the ones with the most marriage disputes...But they keep it to themselves[/color]

but is scares...cos they don't apply the biblical version of marriage

According to Esp. 5vs22-25 most marriages nowadays truly lack these principles and law, true or false
Some women don't regards their husbands, same to men.
That is one of the reasons, marriages crumbles....learn to submit n love each other

A Facebook user solicit for help for his friend who is battling his life with cancer and how other Facebook users responded provoke someone. see the pix below and is just the truth

I have always been asking where is the mind located, some touches the chest, some touches the head even some touches the hand...so pls where exactly is the mind located?

After walking under the sun, these masquarede were seen buying ice cream to cool down their brains

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Allure of the Seas is a few inches longer than her older sister-ship Oasis of the Seas, and so technically holds the crown as the largest cruise ship ever built, measuring in at 225,282 gross tons and carrying a remarkable 5,400 guests at double occupancy, plus nearly 3,000 crewmembers.
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Allure of the Seas is a few inches longer than her older sister-ship Oasis of the Seas, and so technically holds the crown as the largest cruise ship ever built, measuring in at 225,282 gross tons and carrying a remarkable 5,400 guests at double occupancy, plus nearly 3,000 crewmembers.

Nigerian Idol is the local version of the Idol series franchise. It is the second Idol franchise for the country as it was already part of Idols West Africa which was also shot and produced in Nigeria.

atleast i ve made dumbs like me to react to dumb issue...

then y not supporting the PDP Gov forum

The Gov of River State gave up his seat of power to the BOT Chairman of PDP while he seat on an ordinary seat, that shows PDP are controlling the politics of Nigeria and i believe one day The BOT chairman will seat on Jonathan seat to speak. Gosh

Bayern Munich made history in Germany on Saturday when Bastian Schweinsteiger’s backheel flick off a crossing pass from Philipp Lahm gave the club from Bavaria its 23rd title with six games left in the season.

It is the earliest any club has won the Bundesliga title in the league’s 50-year history and ended Borussia Dortmund’s two-year run as league champions. Schweinsteiger scored the only goal of the game and it was enough for the victory at Eintracht Frankfurt.

“It is a fantastic moment, and I am winning a league title after 23 years again,” Coach Jupp Heynckes, who guided Munich to the championship in 1989 and 1990 during his first stint as coach, told Reuters. “My players are now harvesting all the work they put in throughout the year. They put into action exactly what I told them.”

In a strange twist, Heynckes will be replaced at the end of the season by the former coach of Barcelona, Pep Guardiola.

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OVER the years, marriages have been contracted without recourse to ascertaining the genotype of intending couples. Hence, many families have given birth to children and the children die in their face. Let examine the implication of entering a union without recourse to ascertaining the genotype of both parties.

Until the recent times when the grave consequences attending the total neglect of genotype started taking a worrisome dimension, true love, which is considered by all as a rare and only God- given virtue, would have been all that is required for a couple to walk down the aisle to tie the nuptial nut. While love stands as a pivotal constituent in seeking future life partners, the onus lies on Christian organizations to verify the compatibility of the intending couples before proclaiming them husbands and wives. This is so because as soon as the proclamation is made, the spiritual law of what God has joined together, let no man put asunder takes immediate effect.

But with the high rate of awareness regarding the social implication and the attendant trauma of a church wedding incompatible couples, there seems to be a great contention between love and the role of genotype in marriage. Prior to this era which is witnessing numerous breakthroughs in medical science, many sickle cell related diseases were being interpreted as spiritual manipulations. This was in the days when civilization was yet to kick humanity in the face. Marriages were being contracted merely on erotic love and most times with parental recommendations without recourse to ascertaining the genotype content of both couples.

However, with the advent of science and the continuous quest for knowledge and the cause and effect of certain ailments, people and religious leaders are gradually becoming aware and some are putting stringent laws to verify the genotype content of intending couples before walking them down the aisle and making the pronouncement “I do”. Although the final say rests squarely on the intending couples, most Christian organizations have continuously advised incompatible couples against tying the nuptial nut.

The advice has become necessary considering the trauma most families have found themselves as a result of ignorance or neglect of the life time consequence of the importance of ascertaining genotype before proclaiming “I do”. With the knowledge of this, most churches have made it compulsory for all intending couples to go for medical test, to ascertain their compatibility before taking them to the altar.

In sharp contrast to what obtained in the early times of Christianity where many place less emphasis on medical issues in terms of marriage, many married out of love and faith without recourse to medical checkup. But it began to dawn on them when they began bearing children who are sicklers, which resulted to them wasting huge amount of money on drugs and other medications to keep those children alive.

This is even more painful where in some communities, instead of tracing the cause of the children’s death to medical grounds and their genotype, many pour venom on relations, describing them as witches and the cause of their children’s death. In some societies, husbands and wives have continued to trade blame on each other as the cause of their children’s death. In most occasions, the wives usually bear the brunt and the consequence is usually devastating.

Today, the tide has changed, going by the experience of others as well as close relations, the fear of bearing a sickler and living in perpetual torture has become the beginning of wisdom. However, while many are getting aware of the importance of ascertaining genotype before proceeding in the marriage process, many intending Christian couples have continued to ask this heart searching question: what takes pre-eminence, is it love, the leading of the Holy Spirit or genotype?

While these questions cannot be explicitly answered without the input of the intending couples, the fact remains that God is not the author of confusion. This is so as God cannot allow his children to marry and bear children that would give them sorrow and die when they are mostly needed. This is true as most SS children die most times between the age of 20 and 30. This is when they must have graduated from the higher institutions and set to fend for their parents. Even before getting to this age, a lot of money must have been spent on drugs to prolong their lives.

While some Christian organisations are opposed to joining couples who are not compatible genotype wise, others merely give advice and abandon the intending couples to state their ground and when they decide to go ahead either relegating the role of genotype to the background or that a miracle would happen, the church goes ahead and joins them as husband and wife.

For Rev Dickson Ozah, General Overseer of Faith Foundation, Obiaruku in Delta State, the contraction of any marriage union should be based on the conviction of the intending couples. Ozah explained that although sickle cell disease is a reality, some churches only give advice to those who are not compatible but cannot prevent them from getting married. “What most ministries with a few exceptions do is to sensitize such couples on the looming consequences that might surface if they go on with the marriage, if they decide to go on it is their choice.’ he said.

For some, what is most important in marriage is love. This school of thought is of the view that love supersedes genotype tracing their argument to the Bible reference which says “many waters cannot quench love”. To them, when the heart has been linked together and the emotions are connected, it will be too impossible to separate as a result of genotype incompatibility. As such many are of the view that it would rather be too costly to forgo love, not even in the instance of genotype incompatibility.

A civil servant who does not want his name in print is of the opinion that what really matters in marriage is love and not genotype. To her, love rules the heart and takes precedence in the decision of who to marry. She maintained that when the love is high and the affections are intact, genotype cannot be an excuse to stop them from marrying.

In Christendom where faith is one of the determining virtues for good Christian practice and life style, some believe that irrespective of genotype incompatibility, one has to take a step of faith. Pastor John Efajemue of Christian Assembly, Kwale, Ndokwa West Local Government Area of Delta State, said over the years as a marriage counselor, the issue of genotype incompatibility had not surfaced in his ministry. He, however, added that faith, love and divine direction should be the main determinant of marriage.

According to him, “many of us did not go through any genotype test, we depended on faith and the leading of the Holy Spirit. These days, my fear is that many are walking according to the dictates of their flesh and so it is very difficult to determine how many are very sure of God’s leading.’’

Amidst the argument of marrying undermining the place of genotype in the marriage, it is important to note that marriage between two carriers of the sickle trait (As, As) could only be described as an irrational plunge into life traumas.

According to Gregor Mendel, the scientist who did research on genotype and principles of inheritance, such couple risks the danger of producing one sickle cell patient in every of four children they bear. But as the principles of Mendel are based on probability, there is the likelihood that the couple could produce all children as sickle cell patients.

Sickle cell anemia is a genetic disorder that cuts across all races and as of today, it ranks amongst the topmost challenges of modern medicine because there is yet no clear remedy to menace. It is a problem inherent within the blood system, the basis and features of which cannot be expounded within the context of this report. The fact that the victims of this genetic disorder suffer as a result of the ignorance or selfishness of their parents makes it quite pathetic.

Anyone who has ever been a witness to the great anguish that a sickler goes through during the period of crisis will definitely not need the eloquence of a preacher before reconsidering the decision of going into marriage if both partners are incompatible. The fact remains that many have diverse views over this issue, Christians should remember that love, faith and the leading of the Holy Spirit are essential in marriage, but sickle cell anemia is bitter experience that has plagued many families and led to the death of many innocent but promising children.

HIV may complicate how you feel about relationships, whether you are alone, dating, or in a long-term couple. You may date men or women, but HIV doesn’t mean you have to say goodbye to getting (or staying) together.

HIV diagnosis can bring up mixed feelings about getting involved with anyone. “I thought my love life died the day I was diagnosed, but I was wrong,” said Sidney. She navigated the online dating scene and ended up meeting a great partner.

Having HIV can change how you date. How and when do you disclose? How do you negotiate safer sex? These are the important things to consider. Then there’s the kind of person you would like to be with.

You may see yourself with a partner with HIV or as part of a magnetic couple (when one has HIV and the other doesn’t). Just like life before HIV, you’ll meet people in different ways. Some women connect with people online and end up with friends, dates, even long-term partners. If you do go online, it’s a good idea to remember that people can say they are anyone or anything, so protect your privacy with Sidney’s online dating tips.

When you are dating, disclosure will be one of the first things to consider if you figure you’re going to have sex. If you end up in a relationship, intimacy will help keep your connection strong and healthy. You may want to talk with a Positive Women’s Network support worker if you’re not sure about how or when to disclose, or have other concerns.

Don’t feel pressure to date if it doesn’t feel right. Regardless of HIV status, dating isn’t for everyone. But if you want to date, don’t let HIV stop you.


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If you want to avoid major drama in your relationship, resist the seven habits below that are known to ruin otherwise healthy relationships.

1. Criticizing his/her family: No matter how you feel about your boyfriend/girlfriend's family, making it known to him/her just how much they drive you crazy is bound to drive an irreparable wedge into your relationship. So it's best to hold your tongue when the subject of his family comes up.

2. Spying: You may think you're doing yourself a favor by keeping up constant surveillance your boyfriend/girlfriend's blog, Facebook and Twitter habits; however by being aware of the minutiae of his/her whereabouts and thoughts, you're more likely to do your relationship more harm than good.

3. Fighting in Public: It is natural for couples to have the occasional argument, especially after being together for any significant amount of time; however, fights that become so uncontrollable that they regularly spill out into the open, damage your relationship!

4. Letting yourself go: Not only is it bad for your health and overall well-being, but letting yourself go -- whether that means gaining weight or not caring about your appearance -- after settling into a relationship is one habit that sends a bad message to your partner: if you stop caring about yourself, he may assume that you've stopped caring about him too.

5.Trying to improve him: Many women think they are helping the men that they're with by trying to make them over, however, by doing so; they only end up causing more problems for the relationship.

6. Allowing problems to fester: Everyone would like to think that they have the perfect relationship; however, if in your quest to avoid creating drama in your relationship, you frequently allow things that upset you to go unsaid; you are doing yourself and your partner a great disservice. Good communication is the cornerstone of any happy, long-term coupling.

7. Lying: Lying to your boyfriend/girlfriend for any reason does not bode well for a successful future together. Just don't do it!!

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As the opening game where not shown on local TVs and the govt or NNF has not paid the viewing fee, is that not shame