₦airaland Forum

franchasng:
Romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody.

The most important things you must consider before you marry anyone as a man (I am speaking from a man's angle) are:

1.) The person has to be physically appealing to you to start with, she mustn't be too beautiful or sexy or a killer beauty.


2.) She must be financially productive; meaning she must have a sellable handwork, craft, trade, business, job or career.

Don't ever marry an idle, jobless woman today if not you will regret, unless you are very financially buoyant enough to be the sole family breadwinner without complain.


3.) Before you marry any girl please do a family background check. Don't marry anyhow. Find out the family and community she comes from and know if they have any spiritual or traditional baggage that may affect the family you want to start and if you can carry the problems.


4.) You must be ready to help your wife in some domestic chores, it's not a taboo even if you are the breadwinner except you are ready to hire at least 2 domestic staffs to assist your wife. Even at my small level I still carry my kids, I dress them up, I personally do their shopping, I even clean them up when they poopoo and also change diapers. I use to assist in bathing my son during our first issue and I still bath him today whenever it's necessary or whenever he insists that it's me that he wants to bath him.


So be ready to assist your wife domestically and you will enjoy a happy home.


6.) If you must cheat as a man, please cheat with utmost wisdom and discretion. Keep it far away from your wife oh. Cheat responsibly and respectfully bearing in mind that you are someone's husband


Don't throw your cheating in the face of your wife just because you think you are rich or the breadwinner.



7.) Expect less from your wife when it comes to financial contributions even if she is working, this will keep your home healthy and happy. Just ignore what outsiders may say, assume she is broke and earns nothing and try to be in charge of your family's financial provision.


8.) Avoid your wife's phone, it's her privacy, if she decides to cheat, checking her phone cannot help you to stop her. Women are the boss in keeping secret and operating under the radar, so don't stress yourself on that, just treat her nicely, be a worthy husband and trust me, she won't see any need to cheat.


9.) Make your family peaceful by avoiding arguments with your wife. You are man my brother, you don't need to argue with your wife to establish that you are the man of the house. Overlook things and cast and bind the spirit of violence and verbal abuse or exchange. Talk less and your wife will respect you a lot.


10.) If child bearing delays, don't blame your wife and don't get tired of the marriage, just trust and look up to God and if you can afford it, go for IVF or even surrogacy or adoption depending on your financial capacity, they are all your legal kids once you do it legally.


11.) Plan your retirement. Remember kids will always show more pity towards their mother as you guys grow older, don't be jealous about that, that's why you must bear this in mind now that you are young and start early to plan your retirement without depending on your kids

so you are cheating ? I will report you to Asa Odogwu your wife

Nlfpmod come and see o abi my eyes dey deceive me ni ? No be half naked Muslim woman wey their papa and nairaland supporters dey always shout cover up be this ?

Tinubu the terrible. Nigeria's biggest one chance president

o nna anyi sacrifice, I jump am pass biko

Wish him birthday greetings for what exactly ? For taking us 1000 years backwards ? For high cost of living , for insecurity or for what exactly ? Abeg make una go and sleep jor.

Mynd44, push this to front page. Insecurity should be top notch on this forum. We all should do all we can to stop it and proffer solution

Parachoko:
No part of the South South will ever b part of the South East

the same way they placed it in South south is the same way they are returning it to the rightful owners - the South East

Another boko haram bandit on the throne of kwara state again? Come , don't put my kwara people in trouble if you don't want us to rain curses on you. Are you not tired of the suffering and death in kwara state? Let kwarans breath

Dalohad:
Everybody is I'm support of Seyi Ojukwu Tinubu and his Lolo from Anambra State, to contest as Gomina of Eko State.

Where did you get the idea that anyone is against him?

Seyi is eminently qualified to rule Lagos.. and we will all support him..Insha Allah..

E ti ri nkan kan

this Seyi resembles Ojukwu true true o

franchasofficia:
Iran is winning the war via AI videos and contents. This is the latest way to win war in the Islamic terrorists world

Ikegwulu

proxillin:
if he plays his card well

na so 🤣🤣🤣

Righteousness2:

Thus shall all your enemies perish, O Israel. 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱

Amen o

The way they are killing soldiers in North East , you will think that mobile police are not deployed to that place. I spoke with some mobile police that recently came back from Borno and they told me that you can hardly hear or see them do cho cho cho and that they are very secretive and the terrorists fear them more than soldiers

Daddy , idi too much , Daddy I say we love you , daddy na father you be. Daddy ibu godu pan Africa . Daddy , the African continent loves you. Yes , God bless my darling Daddy , Peter Obi

Chelsea ogini kwa biko nu ? Na wah o.

couragekebs:
I just need to know if there's anything like "precision tracking"

Or what you guys can recommend to use to track this last lifeline left for us

So we don't screw things up completely

go to SCID Awka or sars Awkwuzu they will help you track him even if na kafanchan or Benin Republic. No be by cho cho cho, scid Awka is small but mighty. They have helped us track kidnapped kids to jigawa and they personally travelled there and got the kids for us

ecolime:
RIP in advance Ayatollah Arafi 🕯

I hear say dem don kpai am today

Where is Almighty China in all of these ? Anyone trusting that country is like putting your trust on the promises a man made on top of a woman in the heat of passion. China can only help you if it will benefit from you , if not , sorry is your name

This year's Ramadan is really very interesting

Those yeye people are very selfish. They are pure paper tigers. Don't expect them to join you in a war they stand to gain nothing. Chinese can only be your friend when it comes to business. China will rather support Igbo business men than join Iran in a war they gain nothing only losses. Know this and know peace

kingbee90:
Oga rest in Jesus name.

That bandit is dead & his chapter is closed.

supleme leader otilo. Wahala be like wetin again I. Donald Trump don confirm am.

China and Russia are big paper tigers especially China. I pity those trusting china. China no dey enter any thing wey no be business. Dem no dey fight war they won't gain anything except losses

Lucifyre:
See how this one is just ridiculing and disgracing the law profession and his alma matter. Dude should return his certificate. Goes to show how education can't always rescue an enslaved and indoctrinated mind.

abeg go and sit down. That guy knows what he is saying. Go to court and see things for yourself. If you are not spiritually fortified as a lawyer in this country, you are sitting on a keg of gunpowder. I have seen a lawyer in a court room arguing his matter and suddenly his mouth started twitching and he started mumbling incoherently. So you want him to pretend like nothing is happening ?

Finally, the supreme reader is gone. Otilor,he don kpai .

Ofodirinwa:
The people of Plateau chose their fate and today they are angry were are not dying with them. I even remember ESN offering to protect Benue communities from Fulani and these people actually rejected it more than the herdsmen. Today, SE is the only place in Nigeria fulani herdsmen don't play their games because of ESN, and Platue Benue and co are colonies of Gambia.

but you're correct, the war is the past. Posting Ojukwu's village and Gowon's village should not be seen as an attack unless the person is offended by the progress of Ojukwu's village.

no not because of ESN. We igbos have been known to detest the Fulanis and come vehemently against them even before Nnamdi Kanu. There was no ESN when Omor people dealt with them , there was no ESN when oka boys went to defend Nimbo. Abeg quit the ESN story jor, na big lie.

chiagozien:
You are now enjoying fruits of ipob work in US

which ipob ? So the Onitsha screwdriver seller is now ipob in USA ?

Ourtruth247:
The difference between me and you

The difference between me and you is that I've seen your god while you haven't. I've seen your god in my astral travels and I've seen them on DMT trips.

Lots of spiritually aware people have seen your god, and it's never a positive experience. Your God has the face of a crocodile and has a tail. Looks like a muscular crocodile with hands and feet and walks upright. The highest class even have wings. The general term for them is Alpha Draconians or Dracos

The Jehovah and Satan described in your Bible are one and the same. Again it's not a single person, but a group of malevolent beings

If I asked you to describe the appearance of the god you worship, you can't. Every information you have about your god is gotten from the same book the controllers of the world edited and gave you

Your God is a bunch of narcissistic psychopaths obsessed with reverence because they believe that this physical world is theirs are you are beneath them and you are a slave and hence you need to worship them. It's that simple

You are food for your god and you will remain food for him for eternity. When you die your god will wipe all your memories and send you back here to repeat the cycle and over and over

I honestly don't care if you believe me. I'm just a messenger and I'll delete my posts after a few days

now , I know you are mentally sick, imagine a butterfly thinking himself a bird. Before any Christian should believe this rubbish , pls go and look for the book ' iyke Nathan uzoma, former occult grand master now in Christ '. You will understand all this and even more. As for you, you are a baby mystic and the earlier you repent , the better for you

Kingosytex:
Not all Igbos are biased and sentimental. I'm glad the short man is being cut to size because he thinks he owns Nigeria and that everything should revolve around him. He is a megalomaniac and an extremist.
He shot himself in the foot with that admission, he goofed. I'm sure he will be regretting his actions right now.
I'm just glad that the power he helped enthrone is dealing with him.

His greatest undoing is thinking that same format he used to oust GEJ will work on Tinubu. I'm just glad that Tinubu will teach him and others how the game is being played. Tinubu will keep him and Malami busy with the courts and before the realise what's happening, 2027 would be long gone

Who would have thought that same El rufai who went to Chatham House to answer questions and defend Tinubu would be at the receiving end while Reno who was protesting outside the arena would be an ambassador

irony of life. Uwa n'eme ntughari !

SisterAnn:
He's also importing or has imported some lethal substances recently. To poison the king since the coup failed.

is it not clear now that elrufai was the same guy that tapped Peter obi's phone call that year

Ourtruth247:
I deleted all my threads to protect myself, but I have all my deleted posts in multiple duplicated Microsoft documents

the thing full internet. Many more people that have the same opinion like you are springing up. I don't think anyone is coming after you

It's not six, I heard they beheaded close to thirty people in that attack