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Odingo1:
Thanks for your advice, well noted, I doubt if she can change because if she mellow down at any other provocation she can attack, that is my headache now, I have forgiven her but how can someone hold lighter in her hand threatening to light someone up with fuel over disagreement.

give her space like I said earlier , send no money during this time and watch her reaction. What you see or notice during this period will automatically give you the push or stop button. You will not lose your life for trying to be a good husband

Mikedel80:
Thanks so much. I appreciate your advice

yes darling, don't just forget to grab her by the waist and give her a hot kiss when she wants to start another round of cho cho cho and that will end it. Good luck darling

TONYE001:
Actually, a single penetrative, unprotected vaginal intercourse with an infected female can do the job.

Doc, happy new year to you. Pls is it true that there is a particular type of blood that fights off hiv and can hardly get infected ? How true is this

Odingo1:
I need an opinion, I live in 1 bedroom room flat, room and parlour with dining of 800k per year, the landlord recently increased it to 1m but my wife insisted that we move to another room and parlour that is smaller and far from town only that the house have POP design at 1.6 million. I told her that the place we are staying is better and we can save 600k then unprovoked she said she have finished making arrangements with the other house that I must pay the money that day. To my greatest surprise she started physically pushing me around, bring out our wedding pictures and throw on it the bed and went to kitchen looking for kitchen knife. She was looking for kitchen knife but couldn’t take it finally but went for a lighter and threatened to use fuel and lit 🔥 the house. She bring out all my bag and ask me leave the house or she will smash all my belongings including labtops and phone. Is a shock to me, yet to recover. Note I am a sole provider in the union, she contribute nothing, I gave her monthly upkeep of 120k, I take care of every Damm expenses in the house. I started a lab business for her with 3 m. The marriage is about 10 months, no kid yet. We have not have major issues except minor issues which we resolve.
I haven’t involved families yet, I want see opinions first, mod pls front page.

my dear, say no more.

Follow my advise, leave the house and do it urgently.

Don't say a single word to her. Before you leave, try and record some of her actions and even say how she threatened you with arson. Now leave the house and move to a close friend or better still an hotel, block her line and make sure she is not allowed in your office.

Let her take care of herself for two weeks , watch and see if her brain will reset within this two weeks, if she is remorseful, forgive her , warn her sternly , limit some things and move on but if she is not , guy you are on your own. You never marry me that.

I love marriages but not to the extent of you losing your life to one crazy woman. What is now the essence of that marriage ?

Mikedel80:
Please my people help judge this family matter.
The truth of the matter is that I have not had sex with my wife for one year now and we live in the same house. The problem is that she killed the chemistry. My dick no longer stands for her. I'm not moved at all even if she is naked. I've lost the attraction and hence the erection for her. The reason is because she became stubborn, disrespectful and not submissive. She argues too much and ready to be combative. She no longer stays in her feminine state. As a result I lost the sexual urge I use to have for her. So I don't touch her It's more than a year we made love and we no longer talk to each other. I don't even know if I can ever have erection for her again. I used to like her when we newly got married. But I no longer like her again. My thing stands very well outside but can't stand for her. I'm tired of the marriage. My not having erection for her is natural. She caused it. I'm not the cause.
What do you think I should do guys cos we have a son together and we're legally married.

Dear Op, I think you should consider taking your wife out and talking about it. You know, sometimes women sabi do cho cho cho, they say things they don't really meant and if you take their matter to heart, you no go fit marry any woman at all.

Women loves petting. Have you even try looking beyond what she is saying to what might actually caused it. They will not want to tell you that they want your love and assurance and they will be doing cho cho cho up and down.

My point is, no better woman outside. That woman outside you think is better, wait until you bring her home and you will know you just married the secretary general of the poisonous snake kingdom. No human is perfect including you that's why you should try talking to her and if all options have been exhausted, then maybe it's time to involve family members.

I love marriages and I pray your own works and mine in the nearest future will work too in Jesus name, Amen.

Mine was in at Balogun hospital Ilorin
I had an accident and was rushed to the theatre, I passed out and it was all emptiness. After like what felt like forever I slowly drifted back into consciousness, it was crazy. I was mumbling incoherently , I couldn't recollect things . By the time I came to, I saw my mom crying and praying profusely by my bed side. Till date, I still pray never to have such encounter again and God has been faithful.

davis51:
Facts about men who don't womanize

they are the best and ladies that wants peace of mind should go for them . My dad is one and he is still alive, a born again Christian , Today he is reaping the benefit as we are all taking good care of him..

Says the chief praise singer of world worst president _ Tinubu the terrible

christejames:
I thinks it's gradually coming down south from the north where it originats...

I honestly pray so

Hhh4444:
I hope so too...are you sister fire?do you know sister fire?

No dear, I am not. I don't know her but I once used to see her posts here on religion section. I hope she is fine too

oh oh we don hear . You mean we should vote for the emergency patient of France ? ,

I trust ndi igbo my people, na one small boy go tell you for your face that you have only one vote and even among your family members, obidients full there, so do your one vote , make we do our own too.

No follow your mate defect to ADC, the moving train, stay there make wrapper dey wear you.

I support the vice president on this.

Wike should go and rest. His time is gone. He should let Fubara breath! Otilor is his name. We warned him , he never listened.

Wike should do his best to enjoy 2026 because 2027 will end his career permanently and even he will taste prison.

Congratulations to you both sir. You can still help her, bring her to Anambra eye clinic where God uses good men from ugwu to restore the blind.

Election is not war but because of election, you attacked and demolished my people's businesses and shops in Lagos.

Thank God, man no be God. It's amazing that those that hate us have suddenly gone quite and mute. Baba God na your mate ?

I will advise obidients and all that want to see the country work again to just relax and watch as the drama unfolds.

Wike should go and rest biko!

Why is he so afraid of his own shadow? Why is he running helter skelter?

What he did to others is actually haunting him and I don't see him coming out of it so soon.

When we say karma na follow follow, una no dey gree. E go dey follow you till e catch you

I truly hope ourtruth247 is alive and well. I don't understand this deleting of post, I hope he is not under duress or any form of pressure. I truly hope he is alive and well

God pls remember us in Anambra and the entire South East, Amen

To be honest, it's really scary how a whole president was captured like a mere rabbit. It's not funny and no matter what, I don't think it's right but that's just my personal opinion.

Tinubu should just do the right thing come 2027. He should hand over power if he loses the election and he should not try to rig the election in any way.

His leadership is a blatant failure. Nigerians are dying in their thousands daily and he is doing nothing about it. Never have we witnessed killings of civilians in this magnitude before.

As for those supporting this government, pls pray that these unwarranted killings and kidnappings will not get to you or any member of your family. Just pray!

Baba Tinubu , pls resign. You know nothing about governance . All you know is money and power and nothing more. The nation suffers when evil men are ruling. I feel for the family of the captives

I weep for Nigeria. Baba Tinubu , pls resign
This is pure wickedness. All baba Tinubu knows is just money money and more money , he is totally clueless about governance. He should pls resign biko

Christistruth00:
Trump wants Venezuela Oil for himself

Just like Ahab and Jezebel wanted Naboth's vineyard for themselves in the Bible and so framed up Naboth to murder him and seize his vineyard

but I thought America have oil

sweerychick:
Narcotics, ran a dangerous cartel that smuggled drugs into the US and central America, funded many dangerous Latino gangs in the US that were responsible for gang related deaths in the US. ran a brutal regime, that killed a lot of his citizens. It's like saying Pablo Escobar is the president. That's why Trump called it drug Terrorism

oh my God! This is truly terrible , thanks darling for enlightening me.

franchasofficia:
Even Tinubu has endorsed Peter Obi to replace him, I was shocked to find out.


That's the heart of a true sportsmanship from Tinubu for endorsing Peter Obi to succeed him in 2027


Finally I see Nigeria uniting for greatness.

One love Igbo
One love Yoruba
One love Hausa

And I am from Venezuela, money na water

ikwuru eziokwu??

mohbadliveson:
This is the time to demonsrate patriotism as Nigerians. President Bola Tinubu's reforms are already yielding positive results and we can't allow any foreign intervention now that will set us years back like Libya and Afghanistan.

If change is going to come, let it come through the ballot in a free, fair and credible election in 2027, not through invasion of a sovereign country as done in Venezuela by Donald Trump. I reject President Nicholas Maduro's removal
#istandwithtinubu

ylYou know you should forward this message to those near him, his close friends and family members . They should ask him to start doing the right thing.

If he start dishing out favourable policies , creating employments , giving us good roads , reducing taxes unfairly imposed on us, fighting crime and terrorism , we will all rally round him and support him but for now, on your own is his name.

How do we support someone that disdain and hates us, someone that wants to see us suffer and is even weaponizing poverty and terrorism?

Let him do the right thing and see us rally round him with all our strength

Uzodinma have forgotten that in igboland , man is equal to man. The same way I view my elder brother is the same way I view Hope , Okrocha and even that Igbo roadside mechanic . No one will push us around in igboland. We will all come out en masse to vote out Tinubu. Imagine hope coming out to tell us what to do. Even hope knows that he will not do wuruwuru this time around coz he will be met with stiff resistance.

Oga seun biko, make una know the type of poll una go dey present for here before some cho cho cho nsiralanders go begin dey disappear one by one. Trump no be una mate

It will worsen. Be kind to people and be humble. Walk in the power of God and he will see you through and might even bless you..

I see lots of women going and I see lots of accidents both air, land and water! I am not a prophet of doom , I am not even a prophetess..I am just a small girl that God blessed with gifts.

Men pls pray for your wives and daughters. May God bless Nigeria and may the accidents and crashes locate the bandits and terrorists

ambale:
Narcotics dealings ooo, and he's been indicted since 2020 sef

oh ! Thanks jare!

Can someone pls educate me. What was the crime committed by Maduro?

Tinubu, I kneel down dey take God dey beg you, Pls resign. Tinubu biko resign , you are clueless sir, pls resign haba!