Tell her "Am tired of you"

Be honest she will be vex you might even get a slap or 2 but she will get it!

And she will appreciate your honesty later on in life.

As in?

lots of love @ Fallback! True.

Ok! a not so close friend of mine or should i say someone i know,  Is that better? @google or do you have any other suggestion?

Do you think this is true?

My friend's boy friend's friend came from Nigeria 8 months ago and he said Naija babes in Nigeria are money grabbers you need money to get with a hot chic but he notices hot naija babes abroad just want all your time, marriage proposals and are very clingy.


I believe Nairaland has members all over the world. How true is this?

@ Fallback am not sure of the majority of girls turning bad due to this thread but i can only write from what i have seen and felt, but if you are a good guy, sincere and you have the right women you should be fine!

@ Ujujoan i see where you are coming from.

Why cant some men be straight forward? Life will be so much easier if some men were honest. If they like you for intimacy they should tell you. If they like you cos your just a pretty face they should say. If they like you cos you cook well they should tell you or for what ever reasons.

Some men can never be satisfied hence why some marry 3-4 wifes or have a wife and mistresses.

What some men fail to realize is when a woman likes you and you tell what your intentions are, she may be vex but their is a high possibilty she might still kick it with you.

Atleast no one gets hurt in the process.

Ladies will you back me up on this or am i talking for myself?

Basically what it seems like is, a man can never be satisfied no matter what you do! so just do you and dont give 100% until you know full well what your getting yourself into!

@Madukaele does it matter if i was or wasnt? that is not the whole exercise of this thread! Stop thinking with your willy wonker You will not understand this thread hence the reason i titled it "To All My Good Girls That Aint Turned Bad: Yet!"

O boy it seems like your infatuated by this new girl, soon the novelty will wear out, soon she will become old and you will start noticing her bad sides.

So if i was you i will think very carefully

You should never do that! It is wrong.

Face reality tell her you are not interested and let her move.

Be a man. Be strong. Face the truth.

My friends and i were having this conversation the other day. It got me thinking so i will like to share it with you.

So many stories of heart break. Some ladies stay with broke men for love sake and spend so much time and effort even money and get nothing but heart break from the relationship whilst others will break up and get 5 gucci bags, cars and lots of treats.

Now that got me thinking i spent almost 3 yrs with a guy got nothing out of it but a heart break. I cant help but to envy some girls who can get everything they want from guys. Will you call them Gold digger or were they just like me before they realize giving your love and sacrificing your time is all a waste of time, because at the end a guy will do what he wants to do.

What are your views and do you know any good girl turned bad? This thread is only for good girls the sincere girls in relationships.

I told him to change his flight if its that serious he said he will see, haha!

Amigoz thanks i took ur advice. Am still here! He said he is not letting me go. (now am scared, where do nigerian guys get their lyrics) Its terrible.

i don tire sef!

He lives in Nigeria but come here on holidays! Its getting late, Confused dot com

He is now saying he wants to surpise me, some part of me feels as if we've know each other for a while cos we got on so well. Then am thinking his a complete stranger what am i doing?

Recently single. I met a guy at the train station today we chatted till I got to my destination, he was good looking and the conversation was great. He wants to meet tonight his flight to Nigeria is tomorrow? Will I look too desperate if I said yes? What will you do?

Every disappointed is a blessing. I broke up from my ex 3 yrs ago to move on with someone else as I was not in love with him, he was sooo kind to me and loved me so much. I fell for someone else and he broke up with me after some years finding old argument as excuses and refusing to rekindle our relationship. I heard my ex is happily married with twins and am lonely and sad but I recently phoned him to apologise and asked him to forgive me for the pain I caused him and told him I was happy for him.  

Karma is real. Do not deceive anyone in a relationship and don’t lead anyone on if you know deep down inside it does not feel right (you will be punished) I felt his pain, now I look back and I understand why everything is the way it is and I look for forward to my new love. I learnt a horrible lesson. But I did love whole heartedly thinking nothing will go wrong. I got the shock of my life when he announced our break up. It felt like something stabbed me in the heart. Look forward to your new love I hope it will be better than the last. Pray for your ex as karma does have a way of creeping up unexpectedly.

IT WILL NOT BE EASY CRY IF YOU MUST AND FOCUS ON YOUR SINGLE SELF AGAIN. IT IS IMPORTANT NOT TO FORCE LOVE ON SOMEONE.

Hope this helps