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Mtn is soooo fake...the 1.5gb is just about 300mb and the 3.5 is about 1.5gb same with airtel but I think glo gives the exact GB but their network is soooo bad!

adimsmt:
What are you afraid of, women? Sir afraid of equal rights and opportunities, being fair and impartial to your wife? what is it that men in our country are bashing their heads and fighting tooth and nail just hearing the word EQUALITY?

Lol you still don't get the point and you seem to soon. All I need tell you is, if equality is the case then there should be no buts, its should be the whole package(the good the bad the ugly and the very ugly). And also two kings won't rule u know? They wont always have the same decisions over things and that would constantly cause quarrel even tho you might suggest dialogue but dialogue won't always work on so many things. But what if the man has a view and the woman suggests other ways(knowing he still has the decisions in his hands), they can compare and contrast and see possible outcomes...its the duty of a man to listen. #notogenderequality we were not meant to be.

adimsmt:
It is obvious now that this gender equality bill failed because of marriage equality, Good marriages are as a result of hard work, what you put in is what you get out. What this bill are trying to do are enhancing and protecting the right of your partner nothing less. This bill is about you and your wife equally making decisions regarding your family. This bill is about your wife being protected from those wolfs who hides in the name of culture and traditions to reap where they did not sow. This bill give your wife the right to make decisions about what you and your wife has labored for years for your children. This bill is about allowing your wife reach her potential without hindrance. This is about your wife not being a slave. All and all this bill is all about respect of human beings.

You need to know the difference between equality and equity and also research on common characteristics of the male and female gender.

2dugged:
you have spoken well,but I grew up in naija and because it didn't happen to you doesn't mean it's not happening else where, I for one know why until now, a woman is not completely settled in her matrimonial home until she has a male child, my tribe and some tribes I know still practice it,infact my grandfather once said a female child is the responsibility of the mother, all my aunties were not sponsored beyond primary 6,and even when he died,they never got any single property even if there where enough lands to go round, I know if my dad should die today, only my brothers will get access to my dad's things.There are so many tradition that seems to limit the female gender that's my concern,some traditions forbid their daughters from leaving their matrimonial home even if they are battered by their husbands, I know a neighbor who died because of the so called tradition.I for one don't intend to compete with my future husband, all I am interested in is to know that my rights as a human being is protected and not treated lesser because the tradition says so

That's the point 'respects and rights' not equality.

Philpham:
If all these u mentioned is what is a burden to men I can tell you women if given the opportunity will do it even better in a bigger style and still not complain.
This is to show how irresponsible men are becoming these days.

I never said its a burden, but a responsibility on a males path and if gender equality is the case, the responsibility must be share and not based on a dependent party.

God doesn't know our next actions. If he did then It just wouldn't make any sense, we would be like robots programmed to do his will. If he did, he wouldnt have told Adam not to eat that fruit, it would've been a complete waste of time.
The truth is God doesn't know our plans, he only knows the outcome of all our plans.

adimsmt:
This is to tell me you still lack the knowledge what this bill is all about, please if you can go back study what gender equality is all about it will really do you good. Its really disappointing that so many of our people are still ignorant about the real meaning of gender equality and its really sad.

Please explain

Even the bible warns against it....'wives submit yourselves to your husbands, husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church'.
Gender equality should not be allow, all voices must be heard, yes and all women must be treated with respect and care, not as slaves but gender equality? Nahh

If gender equality must be upheld, then
*we both have to pay for our meals at a date
*buy our cars with our earnings
*share the fees of our children and other expenses at home
*both pay our prices (bride and groom prices)
*do tedious jobs like truck drivers, electricians and mechanics
* etc

And they were even charging phone beside