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Good morning everyone.


This is Gold.

Kindly assist to guide me in making an informed decision here.

There's this girl I met at the tail end of December 2019. She's a beautiful nice girl. And somewhat a virgin and a Christian. She is a shy girl and very reserved.she is from a rich background (she did graduate from a private school)
She has a job that pays her a certain small amount. Monthly even with the fact that she closes daily at 9pm.
And she has always been telling of how frustrating the job is and the need of she getting a new job or proceed for her masters. Which unfortunately she applied to my undergraduate school oau and couldn't get admitted.
Ever since I have met her she's been a very nice person to me. For example when I just got my apartment she gave me some kitchen utensils and when I did celebrate my birthday earlier in the year she got me a cloth. And i have heard stories from her of how she assisted a colleague(who is married btw) of mine to pay a certain expense when he was after her to chop and clean mouth which she was aware of.

Here's the thing I like this girl and she knows I do. But she doesn't want people to think we are dating. I don't understand why this is.

There a was time I didn't contact for 3 straight days she was claiming I have changed. And asking questions like why I have stopped talking to her.

I work with a big company in Lagos vi as an analyst. Perhaps what she wants is to connect with me to get to this place.

Anytime I am discussing with her on my family issues or things about myself she looks/get uninterested. It's then she feels she wants to sleep if we are on call or said she's leaving etc.

I know she's a good girl and I can vouch for her. My question is. Is it a bad idea if I stopped contacting her and snub her? Knowing all this


Apologies for the long post and errors if any

Kobicove:
We are very lucky people have not started dropping like flies in this country cos a lot of people are already infected... no point in deceiving ourselves!

What's ur proof