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RomanceRe: I Am So Tired by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 10:21am On Dec 14, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Focus on your academics! This is disappointing to read 🤦‍♂️. I’m certain you just entered the dating market. If you don’t change this your approach, you’ll be worse than Will Smith. You really need to up your game. Just keep dating maybe experience will teach you better because if I keep typing with how deep you’ve gone in simping, it will be a total waste of time.
Well I am not new in dating… I am 29BTW
RomanceRe: I Am So Tired by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 7:06am On Dec 14, 2025
T0BY:
Instead of you to focus on your life and continue building yourself, you're troubled and worrying about someone that's probably sleeping around and collecting different gbola. Leave the 0losh0, she's for the street

Honestly, I don tire to advise people like you

In few days, we will launch into 2026. If you know what is good and will help your life, better do it. Nobody go do am for you.
She is a Christian actually
RomanceRe: I Am So Tired by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 6:48am On Dec 14, 2025
Though I initiated the break up because I was pressured by her. But then I realized I made a mistake. Tho I have begged her but the vehemently refused to comeback.Reminding of what I said.

It’s 6months now
My heart is breaking everyday when I realize she is with someone else. And myself I have been single and no one seem forthcoming
RomanceI Am So Tired by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 6:34am On Dec 14, 2025
This 2025 my plan was to set out to achieve some personal stuff academically and develop myself.
Unfortunately early this year I had to make some payments and pay some debt I had borrowed for some mistakes and unfortunate things that happened the tail end of 2024.

Even after making this payment. A girl I had once asked out and she refused called me that will I be interested in a relationship.i had told her I am no financially strong for that now. But I changed my mind when I realized I really like the girl
Long story short we broke in just 2month.due to financial reasons.
Now the girl is with someone else and I rueing my mistakes and my life,

Even though I have been able to achieve some personal things

My heart is totally ripped off by that girl.

Now there is one I can approach
RomanceFinding True Love!!! by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 6:27am On Aug 06, 2025
Finding true love in the world/economy is one of the most difficult things ever.

Every woman is after who's gonna take care of her with money. Men are after pre marital sex.
Those of you that ended up marrying those you love and they actually love you back. Don't know what God did for you.
I have seen people in genuine relationships that's last long 30years plus in which both love each so much.
For me so far I have only been meeting those I love. And they don't love me as much as I do love them.
RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 9:52pm On Mar 19, 2025
Beloved4heart:
I myself created a thread similar to yours few minutes ago, although I've not gotten any advice yet,but what I see that's of great importance is "TO WORK ON YOURSELF"...


I'VE NEVER SEEN A BIG MAN HAVING PROBLEM WITH WOMEN, TAKE FOR INSTANCE NED NWOKO,THAT GUY ALWAYS BAFFLES ME
Kindly share the link
RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 9:10pm On Mar 17, 2025
Beloved4heart:
OP to be honest your own dey learn,I now refer to all ladies as my sister now 😇😇😇😇😇, for my peace of mind,I don't think I'll ever get married,but I can't do without children,I know one day I'll make this money, but I have to spread love out, hence the reason for an adoption maybe 3 to 5 children,I love children.....
Hmm
RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 6:31pm On Mar 16, 2025
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RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 8:52pm On Mar 12, 2025
Helpout12345:
Move on. She had a better offer by the time you found another job and asked her out.

Your new job and financial strength is below the man f.uccking her now.

You have to go and understand how women view emotional and sexual relationships with men, to understand what I just dropped up there.
We actually work in same place
RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 9:54pm On Mar 11, 2025
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RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 4:43pm On Mar 09, 2025
Goodmarlian:
She is not into you,I wonder how una take dey feel this love thing e no dey reach my side,I am too hard hearted.
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RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 2:31pm On Mar 09, 2025
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RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 11:06pm On Mar 05, 2025
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RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 8:06pm On Mar 03, 2025
helinues:
As long as you are not a tree, move bro
Ok
RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 10:33pm On Mar 02, 2025
obinna58:
U men wey dey carry love for head needs to be unalived, you’re destroying humanity and it’s existence
If you have seen a man carrying 4 innocent looking women for his pleasure, or have seen the babe you die for being rammed by a poor hopeless tout, you’ll be disgusted with love

A woman who moved on long time ago and may have been run through by many different sizes of dck is what you can’t stop thinking about, so disgustingly disgusting 🤢

Even if you have no shame at least be brave enough to tell your heart and mind that it’s not the right thing to be thinking about I mean you have success waiting for you yet to be achieved, instead of wasting your time thinking about love you can think about plans on how to make life better
This sound harsh.
But it's cool
RomanceRe: A Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 5:47pm On Mar 02, 2025
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RomanceA Lingering Heartbreak by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 12:33pm On Mar 02, 2025
I met a lady in December 2019, and we showed mutual interest. However, I hesitated to take our relationship to the next level due to a previous heartbreak. Shortly after, I lost my job and had to relocate.

We lost touch for a while, but she reached out after being involved in a minor accident. She offered to help me find a job at her workplace, and although I didn't succeed, her kindness,prayers and encouragement meant a lot. I began to develop strong feelings for her.
So November 2021, I asked if she'd consider dating me , she said she'd think about it.
So I eventually found a new job, so I asked again if she'd consider dating me. To my surprise, she declined this time. She said she can't date me. I was confused and hurt, so I distanced myself.

Despite her lack of romantic interest, she continued to initiate contact and long conversations. I had to set boundaries, informing her that I couldn't maintain a close relationship if she wasn't interested in dating.

It's been over five years since we met, and I've struggled to find someone else. No one seems attractive to me, and her memory lingers daily. I'm exhausted from carrying this torch.
RomanceRe: Please Help!!!! How Do I Overcome Boredom by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 9:42am On Jul 15, 2023
Yea someone raised online betting here.

That's of my very great threat to...

I actually wasn't a gambler... Boredom has recalibrated this
RomancePlease Help!!!! How Do I Overcome Boredom by Adekunlegold9ja(op): 2:25am On Jul 15, 2023
Ah swear I need help.

I don't have any friends male or female. Infact I have had sex before I my life.

Please I need advice before I die from boredom
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Adekunlegold9ja:
Good evening everyone.

I once posted here that I was jobless. Fortunately for me, I have gotten a new job.
But it's in Lagos .
But the cost of transportation this days is so really frustrating.
I move for abule egba side to marina daily. I haven't been paid yet. I have borrowed too much already from friends and family and also loan apps.

Sometimes I trek long distance when I close to ensure I manage my money.

But now money don finish I need help. Abeg.



Please can anyone assist me with any amount to support me please
RomanceRe: MEN!! This Is Why You Should STOP Taking Women On DATES!! (Photo) by Adekunlegold9ja: 4:46pm On Jan 15, 2023
TheGidRedpiller:
TRP IS GOLDEN!!
Boss I never hear from you. Sir
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Adekunlegold9ja: 2:08pm On Dec 28, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
I just saved this...

Just Incase you and spare cash appear the same time in my head.

Stay strong, never succumb to this point of your life, you can make it out!!
I know you can.

TRP IS GOLDEN!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: Send A Shoutout To Nairalanders That Made You Smile This Year by Adekunlegold9ja: 5:02pm On Dec 25, 2022
Shout out to sulmeza. May God bless him
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Adekunlegold9ja:
Labadi69:
Lazy youth like you dey here dey demand money when your mates dey streets dey hustle. You should be ashamed of yourself. If you need money go to construction site to carry block and cement. Nobody owes you a fukking dime in life. Know this and no leave before yamayama nack that your bald head for there angry
Tho there's no dignity in begging.

You know how bad the country is and how dificult it is to get what you just suggested.

Basically I know that all I need empowerment and to get a job.and to hustle But it's kinda hard to get in my particular location.
If you can introduce to your genuine hustles I will be glad and grab the opportunity with my both my hands

Money is the sole of anything good. You can't just keep talking down at people that genuinely need help and expect that the country will be safe from crime and all vices...

You don't know what I have done to survive and to keep going and all are legal and moral means of surviving.

Lack of money is a big cause of depression this days.
I am not proud that I am begging but I am wey proud that I ain't into crime. I know this is just a phase that will pass.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Adekunlegold9ja: 10:02pm On Dec 20, 2022
[quote author=sulmeza post=119162686]There is no dignity in begging, but I could understand how frustrated you are from your write-up. Please don't ever give up....keep striving!! I wish you well, good luck.

Send in your account details please... [/quote

Thank you sir for you kind assistance really appreciate it.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Adekunlegold9ja: 7:09am On Dec 18, 2022
IwasNeverGone:
u don't deserve any assistance, clown
What made you say so
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Adekunlegold9ja: 4:41pm On Dec 17, 2022
Meedon:
How much you need?
Any amount
RomanceRe: I Want To Bless 10 People That Needs 5k Genuinely by Adekunlegold9ja:
Please oo I genuinely need money. I am broke and I am in a lot of debt

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