₦airaland Forum

Ngozey, you did not do well at all. Your mother is dead. You have an elderly father that does not care about you in the village.

Your elder sister who is married with a child and living in Lagos knew that suffering in the village might make you to be impregnated by any riff-raff in the village. She was very concerned because you were a minor that was under 16 years by then.

She wanted you to succeed in life.So, she brought you to Lagos to live with her and her family members so that you can go to school and be useful to yourself in future.She also had a plan to relocate her family and you to Canada as soon as possible.

But, you were not interested in having a bright future.You preferred to be having regular sex with a younger boy who is the brother of your sister's husband. Eventually you got pregnant. You went for abortion but did not have enough money to do it till your sister discovered the pregnancy.

Your sister loves you and also honours God. Hence, she did not want abortion for you because you might die or you might not have another pregnancy in life if it is only one child that God wants you to have in life. Also, she knew that abortion was a sin.

So, your sister took good care of you till you delivered safely- antenatal and postnatal. After weaning the baby, she sent you back to the village..This is to prevent you from getting another pregnancy because you preferred having sex to building your future. You can only help someone who has a mindset of quitting poverty and suffering unfortunately you are not in that category.

The money and care your sister wanted to give you was diverted to your daughter. So ,your daughter was taken lto Canada when her family was relocating there. Your daughter will have access to qualitative education, perfect health services, quality life as well as Canadian accent when speaking.The father of your baby was also sent back to the village for his lackadaisical attitude and embarrassing his brother (your sister's husband).

To be Frank, l do not know how your life can improve in the village because learning a trade or fashion design in a village is only good if you want to work in a village. Such skills are not useful in advanced societies or cities except you relearn it again there.

I am surprised that some kids on Nairaland asked you to use a lawyer to get the custody of the child. Of course, your sister would have released her to you in Nigeria if you found means to do that. The implication is that the baby will lack care, be hungry and have a bleak future like you

Instead of worrying about her in Canada with a secured future, have another child if that is your priority and multiply your suffering.

Pray to God for forgiveness. Pray everyday,that God will touch your sister's heart to forgive you and contact you one day But start adding values to your life everyday. Later, God will direct you on what to do. SHALOM.

IO.P.Maureensylvia is very correct. Unfortunately. mot Nairalanders are indomitable children, hence they won't understand

The summary is that traditional marriage is meant to protect the interests of men ( husbands) and to make wives to be submissive to their husbands. If the wife feels cheated like when her husband commits adultery or marry more wives she cannot challenge him and get any compensation. The only option she has is to divorce him. Even then she has to refund the dowry the man paid on him. The man can also take custody of the children if he wants to do that.. Nothing favours a woman in traditional marriage.Her only gain is the title 'MRS' .

Ordinance or Court marriage was introduced by our colonial masters ( British). This type of marriage is meant to protect wives from the excesses of their husbands. For example, if a wife sues her husband to court pon account of infidelity, especially in developed countries like U.K., U.S.A. etc the wife will be given the custody of the children,. the man's property including his house will be given to the wife. Also the husband must must ay for the children monthly upkeep and school fees.. That is why some Nigerians murder their wives abroad. You can Google it.

Whereas in Nigeria, a woman married under traditional marriage will be sent out of her husband's house after his death if he bears no child for the man.

You inherited them from your father or mother or both families genes. Some of your children will also inherit these big breasts from you except may be you marry a man that his paternal and maternal families have small breasts.

It is not only love and promising future that should be considered when choosing a life partner. Make sure you visit or know the parents of your potential partner lf you don't like their stature then move on. For example, if you marry a fat man you children will be very faaaat because you are fat too.

I don't support breast surgery. Anything may happen during or after the operation. Google how Obasanjo Stella, first lady of former President Obasanjo died abroad during surgery to remove fat from her tummy so that she would look like a pretty young lady. Although Obasanjo pursued the case of negligence by the consultant, he won and was compensated with a huge sum of money which he gave to the only child (son) of the marriage..

One lady had very big breasts and was ashamed of them. One rich dude married her. He encouraged her to own a website where people subscribed monthly/annually with money to view her wearing different clothes daily at home , shopping, travelling, doing picnic etc. Today she is a rich lady - Millionaire through the website. Pls. Google it.So make use of your God's gift. TURN YOUR LEMON TO LEMONADE and thank me later.

A person will see a cup as half empty while another person sees it as half full.The choice is yours. SHALOM.

Outdated publication. Also, you need to let your readers know that you will receive affiliate commission if they purchase the publication and money paid is nonrefundable whether you are satisfied or otherwise. That's how to do a clean affiliate marketing business . SHALOM.

So, you just left for Abidjan without any contact/ link there. Did you think Abidjan is like Lagos?
Approach a church for help.

If haemorrhoid is in stage four, you cannot cure it by herbs except by surgery. So, do not deceive people in order to make money out of their problem.

If you are credible, mention your name address etc to verify your claim.

If you are sure of your claim, volunteer to cure free of charge one Nairalander whose pile is in stage four . This will bring you patientst numerous than your expectations.

O.p. why are you having more than one moniker?. You are also kingsamson777 or are you a scammer?

This story cannot be true. How did the husband persuade the Pastor to do DNA test

You said it is free but you are demanding for 5,,000 naira. Don't you know the meaning of free?

They have come again.

You claimed that you can pay 50% interest on money invested for 28 days. If it is so, why not borrow money from a micro finance bank or friends and double the money in two months. 😁

The company simply tricks gullible readers to visit its cryptocurrency trading website. Hmmm.

Oluwagbemiga01:
Please I am also in need of someone to buy me brand new keke for higher purchase, guarantor is available. I live in Lagos.
Thanks

How much can you deliver per week or per month? Provide this information to enable me know whether l can be of help.

O.P. pls. Do not commit suicide.

Read the story of Colonel Sanders .Just Google the name Colonel Sanders. He was an American that wanted to commit suicide at the age of 65 years because he was a failure But he had a rethink , started life all over again and became a BILLIONAIRE (in U.S. dolllars) at the age of 88 years.

Visit steemit.com/ colonel sanders

Biden and Trump became the President of USA at the age of 70+ while Obama became the President at the age of 40+ lt remained few days for Obasanjo. to be killed in the prison when he was released and encouraged to contest as the President of Nigeria which he won and served for eight years.

Do not compare yourself with others, wait for your turn. Dangote owes billions of naira as debt on his refinery which started production around 2023 instead of around 2017 projected, yet life continues


What you need is just a change of mindset. See you on the other side.

However, if my advice is not acceptable to you, then , please, visit the I inpatients wards of any University Teaching hospital to see patients in pathetic health conditions and who are in debt as a result of their illness but yet are still hopeful.

Why not go to seek divorce in court claiming that you are no longer interested in the marriage again because you are no longer in love with the man.But you will be the custodian of the children because they are still underage.

1 CFA Franc of Togo is equal to 2.68 Naira.

For example, 1 000 cfa franc = #2,680

How much per kg?

Many people don't know that NAFDAC job is just to test any product to ensure that it is not harmful to man when used. Its ability to cure any disease I'is not NAFDAC 's responsibility.
All products approved by NAFDAC have
NAFDAC numbers and that make them legal to be used in Nigeria.

Do your research well before deciding to relocate to Canada. You need a minimum of thirty million NAIRA.

Remedyalagbo, you cannot be trusted. The leaf you showed was not fresh hence we did not see it well. Also you refused to mention its name.

Read your caption/ headline again.Stop deceiving people.

Answer the other question :

What is your occupation?

Are you the owner of the land or you are an agent?

So, you want to employ oyinbo to work in Nigeria; that is why oyinbo photographs are in the second website.

Hmmm.

Well done

What is the business model?

O.P. you are a confused man.Why mixing discussion on cassava with inspiration? Nigeria economic downtown is affecting you.

O.P. what is their WhatsApp number?

That's too bad.