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This is impressive,..

Keep it up,...

It feels very sad to read this,..may your soul rest in peace,,..Amen...

Beey:
You can't understand because you haven't been there.

....http://www.pamf.org/youngadults/sex/pregnancy/preg-stats.html
.....http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-21297404.....http://theappalachianonline.com/2016/03/31/anti-abortion-display-sparks-controversy-amongst-students/.....what do u think is responsible for all these...

freshvine:
You're just bitter don't know why. It's all written in your negative rebuttal.

Bro, they're recording device as little as a ball point pen and it'll take her ages to find it before I get there

...truth is bitter,...u will learn someday...thought I could help buh....

donifez:
I have shared a space with some girls, some even come to my room to sleep then. Nothing sexual happened. We are still good friends, call , hang-out and all. They even have boyfriends. Everything can't be sex, sex, sex. Nawa ooh

...how is this the same with the OP...some girls(plural),...a man(singular),...& the guy didnt even know she was staying with an opposite sex & she doesnt pick calls at a particular period,...dont confuse him, if he is still reading all these comments & try to compare only what can be compared...no offence meant pls,...

Beey:
In most developed countries, people share apartments especially students to cut down on expenses of renting.It's common to find male & female roommates living together and it's strictly business with no strings attached.What I find strange though is that all this time you've been dating, she never cared to open up to you about her living situation.That then leaves one wondering what was she covering because if she can't confide in her fiancé, then who else?But what worries me is that you two dated to the point of engagement without knowing where she lives.You were too trusting.

....so in developed countries where people/students share apartment for whatsoever reason,,..is it proven nothing happen between them(??)...very funny....

lilyheaven:
Yes, it was childish, to me. Besides my guy knew I was sharing flat with them , he was also a medical doctor, n he was my friend and gossip friend too, I used to gossip with guy every thing,
as stupid as he was each time my guy come visiting he will be the one that will go down stairs to drag his bag

....I read your other comments & if I may....I think what you are facing might just be utterly due to continious seeing of the "thing"....seeing such too much can have two possible opposite effects,...either u always want it or u so get used to it to the extent that it psychologically affect your desire to have it in that later manner.....my advise as I belief the later is the case,...try to the limit to draw a thick line between your work/career & your home...this is not going to be an easy task because of your kinda person,...going by your earlier wrte up but its becomes easy when u belief u can....u start today for all it worth...

FTbomb:
is she showing her dogs or her flat belly - and how is this front-page worthy?

...I think what defines & qualifies some posts nowadays to be front page worthy isnt the moral or anything related but the traffic on d topic relating to d time it was posted,.& also d actors in d write up.....though moral is supposed to be the yardstick for some writeup...but not always moral alone...

freshvine:
Buy a small recording device, visit her and hid it underneath her bed. Go back there a week after and seal your fate.

....what if nothing happened in her own room for a month or ...or she saw it & acted on it for him,...makes him more foolish thinking he has been wrong for suspecting her,...obviously that kinda person will be wise to be very careful with all after the guy's visitation...its people like you that makes playing fun for those....no disrespect...

lilyheaven:
I shared entrance toilet and kitchen with two male doctors, while I was serving ( NYSC), every thing was OK, they had there girl friends, one of the girls became my friend because of her constant visit. But I didn't like them, because each time they come back from work and see food in my pot they will eat it.
One of the doctors started visiting me , in the name of roommate thing, from there he said he wants to marry me, I told him I can't reason or think of marrying him because his girl is my friend, besides, he was aware i had a boyfriend, but I'm not a child, I knew what he wanted was sex, he started looking for ways to seduce me, sometimes he will go to the bathroom unclothed, and still come out unclothed, sometimes he will come to my door with erected penis, but I see naked people like everyday, both life and dead.
I told him to stop all his drama, because my erection comes from my mind not what I see, he tried sha, but my mind didn't changed because I had a boy friend who trusted me , because not even him can turn me own, when my mind has not said yes.
He still calls me on phone, after 4years of service, his always like "madam strong mind"
So, know your woman
So you can be comfortable

.....they were two...& obviously the guy u refered to was not good enough going by what u said...not good player & childish...@ d poster...she has been acting suspicious....not picking call at d particular period & all....once again,...the guy u mentioned is so not good @ what he was trying to do,...no offence meant,....

Really I dont want to say anything but I felt u might really be vastly inexperienced....if u visit & stayed for a year with her,...that wouldn't help in anyway...it will only make them play u more,...if u get her another apartment,...u are just multipying the pain u will feel in the future..There isnt a way 'nothing' is happening, only if "nothing " means that thing...JUST LEAVE HER NOW & .....

What we are not asking the parent is the tone he/she used to ask the question... respect is reciprocal....something must have gone wrong in d approach d parent used... but if otherwise... then d teacher should be corrected....

Adufetohposh:
Congratulations lanicky

. Your personal text, signature & ...are on point. I like them all

some of the comments shows that some people are heartless or better still are cheat themselves..."dont tell him/let him find out...a cheat will most likely be a cheat...if ur friend didnt find out n she continues say after they get married....I hope u know this will be on u...let me even ask u a question,...if he decides to marry her and he asked u to best him, what would u do.....My advice...plainly tell her that u will tell ur friend that she has something to tell him,...n tell her she has 24hrs to do so...if she didnt tell him, u should....

Birds of a feather flock together....

Truth be told...this does not happen in all cases...we "guys" self no dey listen...if a lady says she is not interested, why chasing or disturbing her again...at least they would not say yes to everyone that comes their way, and also who says "YOU" are the best she has seen...

Say u are in his shoes and have those stuffs on ur phone, would u be careless and forget abt them and give ur password out to ur guy...What u should have done that wld have helped answer some important questions is...to have checked the dates in the extensions/details of those videos...if the dates (at least one of D dates) they were transferred/ gotten or downloaded, is a date after he got the phone...maybe he doesn't even know they existed on that phone...BE CALM...

U can't eat ur cake and still have it...one way or the other, u will pay for it...& from her comment, u are obviously one of the options she's got...Some ladies are completely finished o...I belief ur sis wants the best for u & not just her personal interest...If u look very deep,ur sis has nothing to lose...BE WISE BROTHER...

If after reading all these u cry....