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FamilyRe: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Adeleketj: 2:00pm On Nov 18, 2020
Girls always feel pained when something of this nature happens.


But they do this a lot to guys.

I have a friend (guy). Who asked a lady out she declined at first but accepted later. Till he lost his job.
She dessertted the guy did even give him a call. Any time he calls she yawns and will seem uninterested.

The guy actually felt really bad by this tho.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Adeleketj: 8:44pm On Sep 23, 2020
Good evening. I now have the contact of the senator representing my district. Which medium can I use to communicate with him is it through phone or via text?
For either media what should be the content.
I actually want to tell him I need a federal government job. And is assistant on NDLEA.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Adeleketj: 1:29pm On Sep 21, 2020
OcVoice:
If I get you correctly..... you're asking if owing carbon and fairmoney 17k all together would jeopardize your chances of getting a job with a fed govt agency?

No it won't. Don't you have family members, church or society members, neighbours who could assist with the money? Cos selling your laptop for just a paltry loan of 17k is not advisable


Let me give you a little weird idea!
My friend has about 8 of this internet micro-loan sites/apps. He collects 10k from A, if at due date or almost he's cashtrapped, he collects higher from B to offset A and keeps balance. He does this round the 8 apps!

If not that people are skeptical about helping people online cos majority are scammers, they would have helped you pay back here!
Thank you for your response. I have actually asked for help with a different account. I decided to sell aforementioned because im serious need of money now also scared of the fact that this loans could affect my future most especially in the aspect of securing a job. I just in serious in of cash.

I actually explored the option you talked about though unsuccessfully with a different account Axzobr. when I lost my job.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Adeleketj: 11:38am On Sep 21, 2020
I have bad credit
I owe carbon and Fairmoney 10k and 7k resp. I have since lost my job. I find it difficult to repay them now. I am currently trying to sell my property fan and laptop to make up for this.
Can this affect my chances of getting employed in a federal government agency like NDLEA?
RomanceRe: How Do I Act When Been Friendzoned by Adeleketj: 10:47am On Sep 09, 2020
Adekunlegold9ja:
Good morning,
The subject refers.
Unfortunately I have fallen into the dreadiest zones in relationship.
I have been friendzoned.
The lady keep on calling though.
I need an advice on what to do.
I have been thinking of ignoring her but I feel it's gonna look like I am desperate or probably a bad person. Because the girl in question is actually good and she had done a lot good things for me I won't ever forget.
TV/MoviesRe: Yemi My Lover by Adeleketj: 6:06pm On Sep 06, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: A Potential Christian Needs Help by Adeleketj(op): 3:57pm On Sep 06, 2020
OpenYourEyes1:
Send me mail on nairaland or reach me here: openyoureyes3@yahoo.com let's discuss this
Ok
Christianity EtcRe: A Potential Christian Needs Help by Adeleketj(op): 7:29am On Sep 06, 2020
Happy Sunday
Christianity EtcRe: A Potential Christian Needs Help by Adeleketj(op): 5:11pm On Sep 03, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: A Potential Christian Needs Help by Adeleketj(op): 8:57am On Aug 31, 2020
Aladdin1:
your case seems to be internal.everyone have internal battles they face. and everyone have or may have had secret sins.it does not stop you from being a child of God.God is acquinted with your struggles.i see you have issues with phobia and anxiety disorder.but you must man up and do something to help yourself.cry to God about your secret sins,tell him to help you overcome them.then start looking for another job.or start a small business.everything would be okay with you.you can always tell God your problems,hes always there to help you.
I have cried several times I have not been able to stop.
Searching for job now is complicated.
No money to start a business
Christianity EtcA Potential Christian Needs Help by Adeleketj(op): 3:21pm On Aug 30, 2020
Happy Sunday,

This is Adeleke an introvert a Good man(Christian) talking in religion pov.because even tho I claim to be a Christian I engage in some non Christian secret act.That has affected me spiritually and physically they are despicable one of such is watching of porn
I want to be a real Christian[b][/b].
My life as been so wrapped up in hypocrity and pretense. You see I do things in a moderate way. I don't go to parties I don't have girlfriends etc. Outwardly I seem cool.
I lost my job recently and I believed I caused it because of the way I performed on the job. Sometimes somethings I do make me myself surprised on the job to the extent that I deny(been called a lair)
I was so forgetful on that job(banking) and was timid. I was always tensed up. I was drowned by the pressure on the job.
I became the talk of the organisation that I was limiting the progress of the bank.
The bank decided to let me go last month. On this basis.
This left me depressed because of the following reasons:
-I would have left the job voluntarily(re-signed)November 2019 when I was just under a. Month on the job I had already typed the resignation letter till I thought of the poverty in my family.

-I got another opportunity of the same nature in a better grade and organisation last December couldn't go for the invite because of the circumstance of where I worked(limited staff) and timidity fear of missing a day at work and excuse to give and also the thought of the quote a bed in hand is worth more than another in the bush.
-I got a chance to move to another branch, after much inquiry from people I wasn't convinced.
I stayed
-i had already spent my savings on a failed investment (Forex)
- I had taken a loan for a special purpose (family) which is a monthly repayment of 40k for 12months.

-i thought I was building a Godly relationship with a friend.(how does a jobless person build a relationship)
This depression made down because I thought of how poor my family is. I can't even dream of going to my my parents place. I knew how they were before I got the job I lost poverty is an understatement. Where they live is a den of cultist they are so much in there. if should go there It means I have lost hope in myself already considering the shame and troubles I will face from the cultist.
Been praying lately for God's mercy

I need help and advice on how to get back up and rescind the devil's voice and my myself a great person for God
CareerRe: I iu by Adeleketj(op): 3:29pm On Aug 17, 2020
Amiblinks0408:
Now listen and listen good. The bank is trying to intimidate you and the only thing you need now is a lawyer. But of course you can't afford a lawyer, good!. Now clean up your eyes and stop drinking. First thing tomorrow morning, go to public complaints commission secretariat at island very close to bank of industry. Lay your complaints and ask forvl help. This may not stop the disgrace from the bank but it will keep your from going to gail and you will have your life back. If you are lucky they will assign a lawyer to handle your case for free but you may have to take care of some little expenses like transportation and documents. Don't waste anymore time or they will torment your life
I am presently not in Lagos for now
Do they have their branches any other place in Nigeria
RomanceRe: I by Adeleketj(op): 7:17pm On Aug 16, 2020
Moderators kindly assist to push this to the front-page
CareerI iu by Adeleketj(op):
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RomanceRe: I by Adeleketj(op): 8:22am On Aug 16, 2020
I still need more advice from people experienced and experts(lawyers)
RomanceRe: I by Adeleketj(op): 7:55pm On Aug 15, 2020
I consciously posted this in the romance section because I believe here's most populated link on nairaland with matured people
For those asking what I used the money for I used it for a personal project.
RomanceI by Adeleketj(op):
Hello.
This is Adeleke.
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