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AntiChristian:
Is there any sane lesson from Genesis 38, of one of the ancestors of Jesus Christ?



Why God no kill the Father Judah?
This is the start of onanism in the Bible!
God dey approve this kind custom of inheriting women...

I don't have time to read your post, we supposed to have ANTI ISLAM

Haaaaaa
If this is true it is painful

Kemistri3:
What can #50 Naira buy in your area currently?

Me: A sachet of water

Drop your comments below👇🏾

groundnut

Drjones109:
Does God tell you who to marry? The answer is simply no. Although some of you may debate over the same based on your personal experiences. Some may think God did show them who they ought to marry. That might be true to some extent, and I will get to that in a short moment. As much as I would want to give you a relevant and ‘accurate’ answer, I won’t misrepresent God’s character to achieve that goal. I have to be honest with all of us here.
Does God tell you who to marry or who your spouse will be?
The answer also greatly depends on the truth of such revelation. Moreover, it must be in line with the word of God. Many ladies have found themselves stagnated in wrong relationships because someone told them that, “God revealed to me that I should marry you.” Just because they had a dream, doesn’t mean it was from the LORD. Most often what people claim to be God’s revelation of their future spouse is always a lie. It is drawn from their minds and not a dream from God. Therefore, it is without dispute that God doesn’t reveal to you your spouse. He only leads you to find the right person if only you seek His counsel.

After Adam accused God of giving him a compromised woman, things have never been the same again. God has given man free will in every aspect of his life, even marriage. Therefore, it is true to say that God does not choose a life partner for anyone. It is our choice to make, however, He is there to give us counsel and direction to make the best decision on whom to marry.

Let me ask you a question. If God was to force you to marry someone how would you feel? God can never contradict Himself. [Romans 3:4]. He can never deprive us of Free Will. By the end of the day, the choice is yours to make. We can choose to listen and obey God’s word in finding a suitable marriage partner or do it our way and suffer the consequences.

God has given us His revelation concerning every area of our lives in the Holy Bible. It describes the character of a good woman (proverbs 31) and even a good man. It also describes God’s will for any marriage and how we can find the right person to marry. How to raise a family and the responsibility of each individual in a marriage or family. If we are careful in obeying and following these principles, surely, we cannot fail. There is always a blessing tied to our obedience to the word of God.

Does God lead you to marry an unbeliever?
Another good example is when the scriptures warn us from relating with unbelievers. [2 Corinthians 6:14-16]. The majority dispute over this text, because they think the Bible is not fair. The answer to that is that God’s Character is not measured in terms of fairness. There is nothing like ‘fair’ with God. He is righteous and just and not fair. Fair according to me means partiality, and it is not necessarily close or equal to justice. God is not partial in His judgment; He is Just and righteous. [James 1:17, Psalms 97:2b].

The reason why God forbids us from marrying unbelievers is the outcomes of such relations. It’s not because God hates them God loves them that’s why He gave His son Jesus as a sacrifice to redeem all of us from our sinful nature. Marrying an unbeliever is like mixing cold water with warm water. It only makes it lukewarm and not warmer. Some may argue that they will ‘change’ their partners. Meaning they will convert them to Christianity. However, the truth is that this will only worsen the circumstances. As the person will feel you are trying to control their life. Remember you are not the Holy Spirit, it’s His work to convict people and not you.

The possibility of the unbelieving partner dragging you down is higher than you leading him/ her to Christ.

Such kind of a relationship can be detrimental to your spiritual life, especially your salvation. This person will be drawing your heart away from God since they are not interested in spiritual matters as you are. Trust me you don’t want to become a victim of Divorce. I am not saying marrying a Christian will assure you of a long-lasting relationship and that you will never experience divorce. I simply mean you will be differing with the unbelieving partner in many areas, especially on spiritual matters pertaining to your salvation.

I am sure you don’t want to put your salvation at stake. For this relationship to thrive, one of you has to sacrifice their spiritual obligations to please the other. In most cases, as the numbers tell us, this would be the Christian. You end up living a carnal life instead of enjoying your salvation. You will not lose your salvation; however, you will not live the life God intended for you to enjoy.

Think of it this way, you are with someone who just merely respects the Bible and God but doesn’t believe in Him or obey Him at all. Is this the kind of life you want to live? Another thing is that God is interested in a holy union that will eventually bring forth holy offspring...

But God told Hosea to marry Gomer why not me??
You may also debate that God asked Hosea to marry Gomer, then why not me? Of course, God did ask Hosea to marry a prostitute, but not specifically Gomer. [Hosea 1:2-3] Gomer was Hosea’s choice. The instruction was for him to take a wife of harlotry. God didn’t specify who that would be. He left the choice to Hosea. Please do not distort God’s word to suit your needs. If you like someone please approach them the right way and avoid getting their attention through dreams.

What you should know concerning Dreams about marriage.
Man is a triune being as God created him having a body, soul, and spirit. Dreams can be attributed to three things. One, it might be from the man’s spirit and soul (the emotional part). That is, out of his mind drawn out of his desires and fantasies. Two, it might be from the devil who ‘throws’ lies at us and inspires us to rebel against the perfect Will of God.

A good example of this is found in the book of Job where Eliphaz condemned Job as being evil. He claimed that he had received this revelation from the angel of the LORD. However, we know earlier that God had testified of Job being a righteous man. [Job 1:8]. Thirdly, the revelation might be from God. If God revealed it to you, He must reveal it to the other person. Every dream should stand on the integrity of the word of God. It never contradicts the divine scriptures. [Romans 3:4].

Conclusion
The bottom line is that God doesn’t give you a future revelation of who you will marry. If a person tells you that God showed them you are their spouse, be careful it is a deception from hell.

The Bible calls us to be watchful against those that prey on the innocent by seducing them with false prophesies and dreams. Ladies, if a man comes to you with this old philosophy that God told him you are the one, be sure it’s a lie from the devil. Women are too susceptible to this old trick. The reason is that they have a great yearning for spirituality and in the attempt to please God they are tricked.

We have the liberty to choose whoever we love as our partner, however, he or she must be born again as the Bible forbids union with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). Things always go wrong if we insist on our own Will. Seeking God’s Will should always be primal.

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thymetraveler:
Omoh yesterday I prepared a delicious egusi soup, garnished with chicken breast, pomo, goat meat, titus fish, dry fish and okporoko (stock fish)--in addition to other essential ingredients like spicy (knorr and star), pumpkin leaf, etc etc.

Had a go at it yesterday evening and it was really good
Then I warmed it like around 11:00pm.

This morning, I warmed it like around 8:00 am; I would have frozen it in my freezer but I was expecting a fellow friend who'd told me he would be coming around so I didn't see the need for freezing it yet.

Now, this evening, I just remembered it when it was already 9:50pm--that's the thing sometimes with remote work; one could get engrossed in it sometimes especially if it's my kind that has to do with coding/programming and code analysis.
I just totally forgot

By the time I got to the soup, I saw it was almost starting to "foam", and I quickly put it on fire. After warming, it doesn't have the fresh taste it had anymore. Tastes a LITTLE bit sour and lacking flavour

Has anyone experienced this? What did you do to the soup (or what can be done)? Food experts.

Mods...

add small charcoal to it

Omawumi17:
Dear low income earners like me, how are you faring. As a secondary school teacher, it has not been easy, sometimes I feel like running away, but where to..
On the 8th of this month, I received My first salary of the year which is less than the minimum wage. As usual, I did my monthly grocery shopping but right now, everything is finished
Last week, I sold some items from my side hustle ✌️ worth 13k, I used it to buy more food stuffs and now I am practically empty again
I just borrowed 10k from my fidelity payday loan to pay back by this time next month. I am just wondering how people that earn small like myself are coping?
Things are really getting out of hand walahi

Organise extra lesson or start data reselling business

simplemohammad:
This guy has been scamming people off their sweat via vtu websites

Give details

Realz99:
I have terrible Fears, it can be called schizophrenia,
It's a kind of fear that comes as a result of thinking that something wants to harm you,

My fear developed as a result of some things I read ,

https://www.nairaland.com/2506423/holiness-olumba-olumba-obu-appeared

This link I posted above is someone's write up on nairaland, where he said that oo obu appeared to a kiddnapers den physically and saved a kid that was captured,

Since I read that information my brain has processed it in another way,
I do ask myself, so someone has the power to appear to another person in a location physically just like the writer wrote,

Then I started having the thoughts of what if any of my enemies appears to me physically and kill me with a gun or even any of my enemies that's in occult tells their grandmaster to appear to me and kill me physically,


MY CURRENT FEARS

(THIS IS THE ONE I NEED URGENT HELP ON BECAUSE ITS DISTURBING ME PRESENTLY)

I once made a mistake, I went to a native doctor, whom after his consultation he said that witchcraft is disturbing me, and at thus he marked some anti witchcraft marks on my body which I'm regretting now,

Since then I have been in this constant fears and thoughts like,
Since this native doctor has put something in my body (I mean his property is in my body which is the mark and charm against witchcraft )
Won't he use that to be monitoring me and then can appear to me and kill me either with gun,
I have this thought like, as long as that mark is in my body, that he can always use it to know my location and wherever I am and then kill me if he wishes,

I've had people tell me that my fears can't happen or try to motivate, but they didnt convince me enough on why it can't happen,
I need someone that can actually tell me good reasons why these fears are unreal and can't happen,

you can tell me here , or write me on whatsapp on,

0708.6.2.3.8.9.9.0

To make those fear unreal just accept Christ as your Lord and personal Saviour. Then you are free.

solacegee:
How much are they selling 1kg of gas in your area today?

1,500

guobe:
I have sent alot of money out today and my transfer limit is not much .
I will continue distribution tomorrow.
Thanks for your understanding.

Hmmm

On God

guobe:
The list of the last 6 people to be transferred 10,000 naira is ready.
It will be posted in a jiffy.
It was given to me by the donors.
All recipients will be credited tomorrow.

Thanks for this nice gesture sir

guobe:
We have transferred 10,000 naira to 14 guys so far remaining 6 more guys.
I will like the donor to choose the remaining 6 guys so we round up this current gifting.

Nice gesture

Anufolusho:
If you are interested say hi if you don't please wake pass jeje ooooo

hi

HellVictorinho6:
Fortune hates me



Can u help me with 2k?

stop saying bad utterances to yourself

guobe:
200,000 naira have been sent to me by a good samaritan to distribute to 20 guys with the sum of 10,000 naira each.
The criteria for getting the money as instructed by the donor include the following,;
1.must be struggling
2.Has not insulted others while trying to make his points.
3.He is not an ethnic jingoist and sees every other person as a fellow citizen with whom he merely has a disagreement over how things should be done.
You can show interest and I will do a background check on you and if you are found worthy, you will be picked.
Thanks and may God bless us all .

interested sir

I am seriously in need sir

jeromestarks:
I live in abakaliki and I can confidently tell you that the only thing that N50 can buy in my area as food is a tiny sugar.
I can't even buy garri with 50 bucks.


What can it buy in your area?

groundnut

ajibare01:
I don't know what's up me
Whenever I have small money with me ,the only thing that comes to my head is sportybet

Don't worry the reps are working on bill to scrap sport betting

Cassandraloius:
Some like it hot and some like it cold. I love it hot with a delicious afang soup/ vegetable soup or groundnut soup. What about you?🎤

chop 8 rap yesterday
Since garri don cost, na fufu I dey chop
I can finish 8 rap and Belle full

Fully following

Prigidypogodo:
from access bank, union, UBA, even moniepoint and palmpay are down.
what's happening?

uba not included

Gbadugbakun:
I just bought 2 POS machines and I'm seriously in need a POS sales girl I'll be paying her 30k monthly salary. And she will live with me.

Just send me a DM if you're interested. Ladies only.

just say you need a girlfriend

LalastiklaIa:
I hate the fact that there is a law in Nigeria that if you are caught in the process of trying to Turnoff yourself you go to jail for a year.

The same people that made the country what it is today and has led many to depression made that law.

In Belgium you can book an appointment for a painless execution and have an option of opting out at the last minute.

Like people did not choose to be born why not let them go in peace na ehn

Religion now made the matter complex that if you off yourself. You are going to continue suffering in hell for Eternity like wtf

I did not choose to be born, i wasn't allowed to select country of birth, parents, if I would like to have siblings. Nothing was of my consent

I am sick and tired of it all

No one gives a damn about a man's life.

I am pissed very very pissed.

And please I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in don't preach to me okay. I have in my heart sincerely wanted to be close to "God". There was a time I took church seriously that neighbors will ask me if I was the one who killed Jesus. I read the Bible religiously. It didn't remove the depressed feeling.

People that were So called worldly are enjoying their lives. I am here thinking when all these will be over

hmmm

Bible says if only our hope lies in this world we are the most miserable
Please think of hereafter, what you are passing through is a time of challenge you will eventually come out. Please dear don't reason in this way again.

Omo iree poly