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[quote author=AlexReports post=85280617]Thursday, December 19, 2019 - Abuja, Nigeria // It was celebration supreme at NAF Conference Centre and Suites, Abuja on Monday December 16, 2019 when Queen Joy James Enemuo was chosen by the judges of Miss Comely Queen Nigeria 2019 to lead the fight against Breast Cancer.

The 19-year old undergraduate of University of Abuja becomes the 6th Miss Comely Queen Nigeria chosen alongside 13 other ceremonial, zonal and geopolitical queens to support the strides of Comely Nation against the deadly disease. The event also featured the emergence of the 2019 Little Miss Comely Queen, Ms. Mohammed Zainab (12 years) which represents the juvenile section of the Breast Cancer awareness pageant.

Below is the list of 2019 Comely Queens:

1. Queen Joy James Enemuo – Miss Comely Queen Nigeria 2a019
2. Queen Olaleye Brown Victory – Miss Comely Queen Int'l 2019
3. Queen Tricia Chiamaka – Miss Comely Queen West Africa 2019
4. Queen Ebi Orabator – Miss Comely Queen Tourism 2019
5. Queen Emmanuel Calista – Miss Comely Queen Ambassador 2019
6. Queen Umoren Maryjane – Comely Southern Queen Ambassador 2019
7. Queen Ruth Clement – Comely Northern Queen Ambassador 2019
8. Queen James Jessinta – Miss Comely Queen North Central 2019
9. Queen Peace Olamide – Miss Comely Queen North East 2019
10. Queen Isabelle Ibrahim – Miss Comely Queen North West 2019
11. Queen Anyanwu Stephanie – Miss Comely Queen South East 2019
12. Queen Becky Bobor – Miss Comely Queen South South 2019
13. Queen Sanni Zainab – Miss Comely Queen South West 2019
14. Queen Joy Efemena – Miss Comely Queen Model 2019
15. Queen Mohammed Zainab – Little Miss Comely Queen Nigeria 2019

Eleyi 19
Well in Nigeria nothing is Impossible Sha

AdeniyiA:
This guy must be a fagin

Faaji Fm nii, kini fagin?

linearity:
Narrow down to what the real issue is; you just given us the symptoms of the problem, without disclosing what the problem causing the symptoms is/are.

A problem known, is half solved goes the popular saying.

You have to determine if you are ashamed or shy. Shy means been nervous or timid and it has a root cause, it could be something you don’t want others to know about you, her, your relationship or something else. It could also be a result of your internal difficulties to deal with certain things or your inability to.

Been ashamed means a feeling of been embarrassed or guilty of something. Are you ashamed of you, her or your relationship? Is there something you have done with her, you don’t want people to associate with you guys or something you don’t want people to project towards you guys that is false? It could be something very benign e.g. you feel people would think you guys are fvcking if you hold hands, if you have done, you are feeling guilty about it and don’t want anyone else to make the connection; if you have not done it, you don’t want anyone to falsely project that that.

Some solution could be; find a place where it will be near impossible to run into anyone both of you may know...another area of town maybe another town, a park, secluded area of the park or right in the open where everyone is distracted eg the beach, shoprite mall, amusement park, etc.

There's an ounce of truth in what you said, There are lots of Familiar Faces... I'm not Ashamed But Shy,it has been with me since my early Childhood ,I think till the time being today I'll slowly regain My confidence, We will meet during evening time also I'll meet her during day time too,I won't let that get to me
I Love My Fine Wine Much more than that
Gracias

ilevic:
A baby in love. Open, how old are you?

We're All Babies in the Eyes Of Our Parents

lefulefu2:
she must be very very ugly for you to be shy to identify with her in public
i know one guy who has a girlfriend and she is sized like hippo and coarse manly voice.the guy only moves with her outside when its night and he refuses snapping pics with her

Lefulefu ooo
My Babe is a Fine Wine Really ,on God to that , I don't even know why she is with someone of my Caliber ,but it's This Shyness issue That's bothering me ,I've asked of help from my female Friends too in how to handle this ,I think Guys Here Should be able to help out in A Bro Code Way

Tonymegabush1:
U cnt just master the passion of hugging an opposite sex at once, moreover been a shy guy as u said i suggest u handle it gradually step by step training let say try cuddling/hugging her at close range where their are no few ppl let say 2-3 ppl could be amidst frnds or even in ur compound next move up like 5-10 ppl gradually in the end you can even kiss within crowd of ppl...


No big deal in holding hands

Practical Solution.
Thanks

rtdCivilservant:
Wetin u want make we come do for u, abi na we be u? Is it not for u to stop being shy.

In Jesus Name.....
RECEIVE SENSE

ZiriMane:
try going out more at night maybe you are shy of people and their prying eyes... so a night out may work for you

Thanks. That's what I do Alot, but it cant be Everytime that it would be at night, She even once Asked that am I a vampire ,cause it's only at night I do like to see her to be Sincere it's not honest tho...

scaramucci:
The problem is that you have the illusion that people are watching you. Nobody gives a damn about what you are doing and don't be surprised that nobody even notices you. Now go and have mad fun with your girlfriend. You both deserve it.

Life's too Short
Thanks Guy �

CopyJoe:
You are not only shy but also afraid of what people might say.

If you are old enough to be in a relationship, then, you need to do away with shyness.

- Start by doing her hand in less public places.
- Conquer your fear, and just do it. Once you start, you'll see that people will even love you guys more.

I won't blame her if she decides to quit because of that. If you don't face it now, it will affect your relationship.

Thanks for your concern ,I'm very old enough ,the Arugbo Ojo type I'll try that too I think I'm always conscious of the surrounding when I'm with her
Next Time i go turn Marlian

BigDick70inch:
Baba..
Nothing do u Oo..
Tell..the babe u no too like public affection as an introvert u are..i guess she's an extrovert..
Make..the babe understand that yo love for her is not to impress the public..

Hope she won't take it The wrong way, I'm planning on telling her that .Thanks �

Techcrunchng:
get high, smoke weed

Set Awon weyrey

generationz:
It seems you don't like public display of affection.

Nothing wrong with it.

Some people outgrow their disdain for it and feel comfortable being affectionate in public.

Or are you virgin?

I thought something's Wrong with me ,I'm not sure this one will be outgrowned , The issue don tey

Offpoint:
Nothing is wrong with you, you're good lover.

Those who show public affection their relationship don't last... check dem oyinbo relationships.



The only woman I can hold hands while walking is my mom

Guyyy

donbachi:
Too many girlfriends everywhere...u are only applying caution.

That's not the Issue Bro, if it's that I wouldn't have come out the first place

referandum:
Guy bone, nobody dey reason your matter. I get this ish before Just try to be comfortable in your own skin, try first by holding her at night, after sometime try doing it somewhere far from where you stay, forget acout people around you focus on her, try looking into her eyes(dont stare) each time you hold her hands or hug her, it will help make you more relaxed.

Not so easy Bro, anytime she calls to Meetup like this ,wahala don come.

Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

seangy4konji:
When I was age 16.i believe but still on debe firat the hoe told me she was virgin. She was 14..she had given every nigga in our estate including old.men and young boy including shameless gatemen who curve her in the forestry by mango tree.kept avoiding coming to my place,corners, curving me cos she knows the day we see bad,bad enter ground that day.the day she fell.come collect valentine present web I kiss small use hand touch pants.lakuli ,everywhere be like river. I kukuma no talk about virginity again..I made sure I finger am with four fingers in brutal way.I wan fist am but it no grew enter begin beg.I kuku turn deaf .d Toto don wide ehn. I knacked her constantly at least 3 times a week fr the next 1 year..she later begin bring her friend weh dem life don rotten together deh do orgy.dis na girls weh dem papa be head pastor for eastate. Doja.ka kool fun e ooooo.o fimipa

kaa Dafunnn

vulpeslopez:
"If u leave me,i will die cos i cant imagine life without U".....5yrs later and 2kids for 2 different guys andvshe never still die

She's dead .... You jus dun knw wais goeen On

Tboymessiah:
My gal do sell with a guy at shoprite, but they do close late sometimes 11:30pm,or 12:am, she do pass night in the guy Aoz (unknown to me )but when I came to visit her, she thought have gone back to the city where I stay, she didn't come home dat day, so she realized hve found out she don't sleep at home but deny there's nothing btw them, unti I spy via there chatting :
Guy.. good morning my baby.
girl... love, Hmmm.
but she told me the guy collected the phone from her hand to type (love ) just to check if her phone can chat........ shoprite Akure.

Allahu Akbar!!!