AdioGunner:
Hello Nairalanders,
I have this issue with my Girlfriend which I'm Worried About , Every time we go out or Meet up at some place, I'm always shy to Walk with her Or hold her hands in Public Anytime I try to do so it won't last up to 5 secs ,it'll be as if I'm suffocating till the point that she noticed about it and complained Even When Walking Together we don't get so close together .
It's not as if I don't Love her ,I Love her a lot , but this issue bothers me a lot, she has no deformity ,And she's very Beautiful if it's that, But I don't know what's wrong with me,on her own end she likes To hold me Hug me even Cuddle in public and when she tries it with me ,I get Scared and Kind of Embarrassed. I know I'm a Shy guy tho, but I can't take this anymore .
Please Any advice on what I can do before I lose her on lack of affection?
Insults Are Allowed Cause I know You guys would do so .
Thanks .

linearity:
Narrow down to what the real issue is; you just given us the symptoms of the problem, without disclosing what the problem causing the symptoms is/are.

A problem known, is half solved goes the popular saying.

You have to determine if you are ashamed or shy. Shy means been nervous or timid and it has a root cause, it could be something you don’t want others to know about you, her, your relationship or something else. It could also be a result of your internal difficulties to deal with certain things or your inability to.

Been ashamed means a feeling of been embarrassed or guilty of something. Are you ashamed of you, her or your relationship? Is there something you have done with her, you don’t want people to associate with you guys or something you don’t want people to project towards you guys that is false? It could be something very benign e.g. you feel people would think you guys are fvcking if you hold hands, if you have done, you are feeling guilty about it and don’t want anyone else to make the connection; if you have not done it, you don’t want anyone to falsely project that that.

Some solution could be; find a place where it will be near impossible to run into anyone both of you may know...another area of town maybe another town, a park, secluded area of the park or right in the open where everyone is distracted eg the beach, shoprite mall, amusement park, etc.

referandum:
Guy bone, nobody dey reason your matter. I get this ish before Just try to be comfortable in your own skin, try first by holding her at night, after sometime try doing it somewhere far from where you stay, forget acout people around you focus on her, try looking into her eyes(dont stare) each time you hold her hands or hug her, it will help make you more relaxed.

AdioGunner:

Lefulefu ooo
My Babe is a Fine Wine Really ,on God to that , I don't even know why she is with someone of my Caliber ,but it's This Shyness issue That's bothering me ,I've asked of help from my female Friends too in how to handle this ,I think Guys Here Should be able to help out in A Bro Code Way

AdeniyiA:
This guy must be a fagin

21savages:
That's who u are and notin is gonna change it..am jst like u bro

kecee99:
sit down there dey fool urself, who told u shyness cannot be overcomed?
No come dey give our op false hope for here o.

generationz:



It seems you don't like public display of affection.

Nothing wrong with it.

Some people outgrow their disdain for it and feel comfortable being affectionate in public.

Or are you virgin?