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Apollo27:
you are so correct bro. I have too many beta males as friends and no alpha male.
My loss of form is so bad that it is making me confused.

I know what you are going through I have being there before trust me you are just missing the beautiful feeling of being an alphamale the confidence is happiness at first it feels like it's gonna be there forever but you later loose it it's because the old you will always come back to test you and if you fail to overcome it it takes over you completely just go back to the dating drills read up and watch Dan bacon videos.

1)and remember you are a blessing to whoever you meet and the world would be a boring place without you in it.
2)For you to make the best out of life you must have a heart to dear the impossible , you must take risks like it's nothing don't fear failure

Apollo27:
bro i need help to get myself back together. My self esteem. I just want my old self back.

you just lost form it happens to anyone go back to the drawing board go back to the dating drills and read more of Dan bacon articles and videos.this is happening to you because alphamales are scarce if you have alphamales as friends you wouldn't loose vibes but since you are surrounded by betamales it is bound to happen their mentality will always rub on you.

JERRY1925:
You sounded like this is your first relationship.
Well, how can a full grown man not get tired first of a woman always visiting his work place

.na only u sabi love? . Even if u enjoy it, why not act like u don't?
To keep a woman u love, u have to learn how to play the mind game. Don't ever let her know ur feelings..get her wondering.
There's is no red flag here, she's just fed up of ur obsession. And if u continue asking her why she did not show up.. She will get tired for real.
To make ur relationship work, let her be sometimes.
Let me tell you what would have happened if u never asked her why she did not show up.
She will be the one to get worried..and she will ask a question like,
u did not even ask me today why i did not show up or u did not even ask me why i have not been coming to ur work place.
And ur reply should be, i thought u were tired.
U don't need to worry about a womans actions mostly when u not married.
Don't show her ur weakness.

you may be right bro, not like It's my first time dating but it's the first time I am dating a 7/10 in terms of beauty men the pressure is too much on me because of the power tussle Is though but I think she is testing me which I believe is normal with pretty women but I am not used to it hence the fear but does it necessarily have to be a game to keep women.

devilmaycry:
U no get problem .....


To think not hearing from someone for two days means a lost love is foolish....she told u she had an emergency,did u in ur selfish life care to ask her what brought abt the emergency...do u even care abt her?...to me she is the one that has been loving u ....

And to update ur whatsapp story with a female friend of urs to make her feel jealous cos we all know that is what u did, shows u are very childish...grow up !!!

If u for near me, na slap i for land for ur face!

Bros you wouldn't understand this girl is very beautiful and too egostistic lately a lot of guy both rich and average are hitting on her constantly and as a humanbeing that i am am a bit insecure because i lover her but bros can you stay endure two days without hearing from ur partner be truthful someone you love na from clap we dey enter dance poo.

HRHQueenPhil:
Can' u invite her out, and ask her wat the issue is

I will do that tomorrow but thats because you are a woman from my experience when a woman starts behaving like this it means she is pulling away gradually from the relationship in a subtle way.

Hatima:
Keep your self busy and learn to be on your own...if you are really occupied, u won't be bothered if someone calls you or not..Makes you more attractive...

Easier said than done bro.

CokeBar:
She didn't come to your office for just 2 days and you already think she doesn't love you?

Are you sure you're not suffering from complex issues?

Why would you think that it has to do with love? What if the lady has her own issues? Also because of that little drama you put up another girl's photo to spite her? I wish she would see it as a sign and leave you.

People that are unable to control their emotions are time bombs waiting to explode.

For starters, I wouldn't even follow someone that runs to WhatsApp status to post their grievances

Hypocrite! A relationship that's just two months old you didnt see or hear from your partner for 2days and you are okay with it then it shows you dont love him or her simple.

Good morning NLI have a little problem at hand there is this lady I started dating recently the relationship is just two months old.At first it was all love and bliss she promised to be with me forever but it's no longer like that.at first when we started dating she always comes to my workplace everyday then I will see her off when she leaves but two days ago it's changed immediately after work she went home without even calling me to let me know she wouldn't come I called her to know why she told me it was an emergency that she had to go home early I overlooked but yesterday she did the same thing again I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

after some minutes I updated my whatssap status posting one of my beautiful female friends with a catchy caption she saw it and messaged me immediately that I am trying to make her jealous I ignored the messaged without replying.

my question is this a red flag that she is no longer interested in the relationship? because she hardly does this before or should I be a bit patient with her because I want to end the relationship before she dumps me please help.