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There is a popular saying that if you fail to learn from history it is bound to repeat itself.most delta Igbos and ikwerres do not consider themselves Igbos I laugh and laugh I think they tend to forget what what in 1967 when Nigerian troops massacred them in asaba you are claiming you are not Igbos but the Hausa/fulanis know it's not true you guy near Igbo name's like AMAKA,Ngozi,Chidi,ugochukwu and the rest .don't be fooled other Nigerian tribes know those are Igbos name's that's why they massacred you guys in 1967 even though you guys denied your Igbo identity all my saying if Igbos manage to secede from this zoo called Nigerian you guys will suffer if you fail to join biafra struggle because you will be considered enemies of the state because you share Similarities with the Igbo race a word is enough for the wise bye.

AkuOlisa:
Are you in ph ?

No sir lagos

snilyung:
It once happened to me tho
I liked the girl at first but immediately she started showing interest
The thing pissed me off, imagine talking to someone for over 30mins on the phone everyday,..... That shit irritated me, I had to remove my sim and use another number and told her my phone is faulty, blocked her on WhatsApp and up till now have not heard from her......don't need such attention jare

How old are you.

Zoie:
The average Nigerian man suffers from an extremely weak self esteem that needs to stay constantly bloated to stay functional.
That's why they chase after ladies who treat them like shi.t and avoid ladies who show them love. The hunt makes them happy. The thrill of having to constantly woo a woman makes them feel good. Makes them feel she is better than the one who shows love even without being wooed..even if the former is a retired runs girl.

Not really

HARDDON:
Second emphasized. Arrrrrrrrhhhhhh.

Can't we just flow without this boring, annoying tautology?

He is really living out his name. Average Joe!

Here is a free meal, and uncle went to just soil it with stupid questions.

Harddon where you being?

One Nigeria is a scam if only you get to listen to Nnamdi kanu speeches.Nigeria is a country formed by the white men not by its local African people .Nigeria was once a company not a nation ask yourself did we name Nigeria by ourselves? a country created by forceful merging warring tribes and empires together .imagine joining oyo,benin,sokoto empires together to form a nation immediately the white left their differences and hatred started manifesting immediately our colonial masters left unless we accept reality and truth and separate for good Nigeria is a time bomb is looming wait 2023 if tinubu does not win the election you will know if yorubas truly love their fulani brothers or eyes service.

The most develop countries in the world are formed by tribes and people who have a lot in common,cultures,food,clothing , religion unlike Nigeria where our colonial masters forcelly merged the Islamic North with the Christian South and expect us to have peace what an illusion.

TheSourcerer:
Aside the obvious Contracdictory statement and you not vbeeen biased , women are usaaly just dumb not All but MOST , 9 out of ten Nigerian Girls are dumb, i know its the society but we shouldnt lie to ourselves calling them masters , they are just plain dumb.
Ask an Average Nigerian girl who a Wiccan is , No idea
Ask her if she can Fathom the idea of no God , IMPOSSIBLE!!
Ask her what she thinks about Anal, and spooning Typically they all find it disgusting ,
Ask her if she Meditates/exercise or Yoga , obviously the Average Nigerian lady dosnt care
Ask her about Cryptids or U.F.O's still nothing
Ask about Gargoyles , Nephims,Sphinx , Astrology , herbs, Nature.
Ask the Nigerian girl about Hominoids
Ask her what she thinks of Gays
Now ask about twerking

You very right on this one..most are dumb.

Fhowe:
The most irritating is when you see a young girl that is barely 18 all you see on her status is related to relationship or marriage , when she should be concentrating on her education or learning a skill Na wa ooo

So true

I don't think there is any motivational speaker as good as a heartbroken lady they are so creative ,I don't even know where they fetch those quotes they post them on WhatsApp whenever you see a lady post those quotes more than three times quotes something has gone wrong with her relationship.

But truth be told women have better chances of finding true love than men because most men seem to love easily but they never love those men back its like woman are just wired that way never to love who loves them back no matter how they try sometimes I wonder if it's a crime to tell a pretty girl you love her its like she instantly hates you after you said that word who else can relate?

Maybe women will only wise up when they are old like 27 or above .as for now they are still young let them go for that flashy,rich ,heartless boy and call men scum later with intriguing WhatsApp statuses.

zerateck:
No, don't quit. Its one of those phases she would gradually adjust.
Spend more time with her, buy her stuffs(IPhone 11 preferably), treat her like a princess take her to expensive places and spoil her like your Queen.
Give her more money for upkeep.

Goodluck.

Hmmm

No need to bore you guys with long epistles I just need your advice.
My girlfriends attitude just change recently at first she was all loving and receptive she allow me kiss her cuddle her and she loves the intimacy and sex was good but all of a sudden she no longer lets me touch her .even to hold her hands she will resist no longer receptive to intimacy.i was a bit worried at first so I just prepared my mind for the worst I knew this were signs she no longer loves me I am a very realistic person so I wanted to quit the relationship since I had other options outside.

Few weeks before the lockdown she stopped visiting me this is a lady that sees me everyday before going home from school .she started going home all of a sudden without seeing me I asked her why she always used her work as excuse, she will promise me she will come visit me but later fail to show up without even calling me so I called her and told her not to bother coming again that I don't want to look like a burden to her immediately that day she showed up in the evening probably because she was afraid I want to stylishly dump her.

The lockdown has began she barely calls me or chats me up first i asked her to be sincere with me that it's normal if she has another guy or if she no longer loves she said she still loves me dearly and wants to be with me for life that she doesn't have another guy in her life but her actions speaks otherwise leaving me confused i have gotten tired and I want to break up with her but my conscience keeps pulling me back I feel maybe I don't understand her yet since our relationship is just two months old or am I wrong maybe I should move on.

It doesn't matter how pretty most lady are they will always feel inadequate and insecure about their looks and personality. have you ever wondered why women flood social media with seminudes or even nudes just to get likes,comments and dms, have you ever wondered why women do life threatning surgeries,bum and boobs enlargements these even though these women are naturally beautiful but they keep comparing themselves to other women until it dangerous to their well-being when you depend on people's compliment to feel good about yourself then there is a problem.
Did you watch big brother last year? Did you notice what Tacha did when she first heard she has body odour she quickly ran get a deodorant then spray herself on live tv which made people believe the rumour more even though Tacha among the most beautiful women in the house.

Have you heard of Stockholm syndrome :it is a psychological disorder in which one tends to be emotionally attached to people who treat you badly most women have this syndrome without knowing it and I believe it is the reason they rarely fall for guys who treat them well.i once had a girlfriend who I lost when I started being caring and nice to we broke up later but immediately I stopped giving a Bleep about her she tried winning me back by all means but I have lost interest.

People with very low self esteem later develop Stockholm syndrome it get to a point you don't like people showering you with compliments because you believe you are not worth it .you tend to like people who criticise you because you feel you need to impress them and the journey never ends.

Am not generalizing though .

funmisticqueen2:
Men fake orgasms too!! I find that hard to believe.

Ejaculation is the evidence we need. It cannot be forced

Orgasm is just normal it doesn't mean you are satisfied.

GreenMist21:
Helo

Xup

Women are not as difficult as we portray them here no need for books,long epistle and stress
I once use to chase girls that play hard to get until I had sense no need for all that . If you want to have peace of mind and let women respect and feel attracted to you then there is a type of mentality you should have once you once you master it you are good.

1)NO WOMAN IS SPECIAL
last time I checked there are 81million beautiful women in Nigeria most of them are young.if one misbehaves then let her know she is replaceable forget all this I love her mentality what is the chance she will love you back as you love its trash love realistically women love realistically men should too no matter how much a girl loves you she will always access your finance,social life and others if you are not doing good she contemplates leaving you .if you have abundance mentality women will notice it always keep a large options with women they find it attractive a man with many female options its doesn't matter whether you are rich or not once women notice other woman like you curiosity will attract them to you.

2)WORK ON UR LOOKS AND CONFIDENCE

if you are not rich as long as you are not lazy its ok everybody cannot be rich.But make sure it doesn't affect your self esteem and confidence and packaging
A man that can be confident without things will go far in life .CONFIDENCE is one thing women cannot do without absence of it in their man is a problem ,they are all naturally insecure in life so the always want a strongman that will guide them confidence is strength be a man that is sure of himself.

3)LEARN TO MOVE ON
women test men by playing hard to get or emotional games.when a woman plays hard to get it will help her know if you are boy or man .A boy will beg, cry and chase her shamelessly with money and gifts,a man will chase You confidently with a deadline if she doesn't reciprocate before the deadline he stops chasing and move to the next target.60 percent of women will come back and know why he stoped chasing and try to rekindle the fire.dont

HAVE A FUTURE AMBITION
When you a woman comes into your life she analyses your future.if you don't have a life she might last long with you women are time conscious..

Thanks.

ZINIBANKS:
What can make me cry because of a girl ?
I don't know and have never seen it
Even when one girl told me she's coming and later told me that she's with her guy that she can't come again
After stressing myself arranging everywhere
Bought food she will eat with my last bar
And after hearing that I went to field to play ball even I didn't act like something happened
That's life just move on,why are you now going to cry on a lady who is already enjoying herself and you are even committing sin because the drop of those tears that rolled down from your face you are not the one who put it there

A guy like me strong men we feel painful emotions but it doesn't last we move on

Ariza:
You control Pains? Lol please gimme something more logical and debatable.

You are a lady you will not understand no matter how painful something it is controllable because as a result of past experience you can never feel the same emotion the same way over and over again I guess that why women nearly die over rejection because they are not use to it.

Ariza:
Guys cry, Men cry too and it doesn't make them weaklings. Y'all should stop this unhealthy mentality that Men aren't supposed to let their pains out through tears. It shortens Men's life span! Bottling too much burden up all to feel MANLY is foolishness!

Men don't bottle up emotion we develop the ability to control them emotions are controllable.

And that's why God sent corona to destroy us no fear of God

Fidelismaria:
What type of rejection?

Job application rejection?

Contract rejection?

Which one?

Read before you comment

Inexperienced and unexposed men will still fall for the trap

sexylassie2:
many men do even my ex did after i left him

Prepare for yours too.

Easybela:
That's not right my dear,when you genuinely love someone, you will be too blind to notice millions of others out there,even if they are better. That's one reason love and likeness are different. True love are unsubstitutable. Its either him or no one else

That's why you are a woman

Sincerely nobody wants to be rejected but it's the reality of life everyone has to accept no matter how handsome or rich you are, you are not sexually compatible with everybody.A man especially in your 20s you should learn to accept this. these days women are plenty the one you are dying for my guy there is still another one you will see that will make you forget her ,women are better than each other But you will never see this if you focus on one girl.
A guy who cries over rejection is not yet a man