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Iblak:
Hello nairalanders


I eventually confessed my feelings to her on phone(last week), she sounded so surprised (we've been friends like two sessions) and said a long wowww thrice and asked if I was serious, I said yes. I told her she could take her time as she seemed so surprised.


Then I asked her if she had thought about it 3 days later on WhatsApp and then she replied with "ehm I'm in a relationship" (which sounds funny, not true or convincing to me cos we were closer, flirted more, she asked for hugs and would even hold my hands in public when we're walking together before the COVID break)


I then asked if we would still remain friends and she said yes.


3 days ago she texts "hey"

Me: "Hello"

She: no reply 

Me: "how are you"

She: "How are you, I'm good"

Me: "I'm gooder"( a kind of small inside joke) 

She: No reply 


PS: I told her over the phone because school was suddenly suspended due to COVID 19


I regret telling her I like her, I'm heartbroken


What do you think I did wrong? I plan on letting her be, do you think that's good? Or is there something I can do to remedy the situation?


Do you think I should still be friends with her?

I still can't believe men still cry over rejection these days if you have not reached that stage where rejection is normal to you then you are not yet a man.

Scam

Allaboutkatiee:
Theres nothing wrong
Go for what you want.

So you can beg a guy mtchewww

So many weak men around these days beg her for what date you out of pity or what when someone begging will not reignite the attraction.

CoronaVirusPro:
Hear yourself.

Ex military. This how you shoot yourself down in a debate. So an Ex military man should be in the frontlines of warfare.

Hello! It's not that way. Are you aware we talking about the No 1 man of a country? On any fronts you will take this argument to, his act will still be regarded as utmost stupidity.

Of you are intuned about leadership like I told your conterpart earlier, you won't be composing all this gibberish.

What is the use of his presence there? Don't tell me to boost morale. What are the roles and responsibilities of his Generals that he solely appointed based on his personal judgement.

I will say again, it's stupidity, his presence on ground alters nothing. He was just on a suicide mission.

Well you have the mentality of a typictypical Nigerian .cowardice not willing to die for what they believe in but will later die of poverty that why we are bedridden by our government for this long because we lack fighting spirit nobody wan die.

CoronaVirusPro:
So the president of a country being in the front lines is a commendable move?

Hello, if you truly know about leadership, you won't compose what you have up there. So if a confrontation happens and he is shot dead, what would be your conclusion.

Is he a combatant, Airforce or Naval officer. What skill does he have to be in the front lines.

So you expect MTN CEO to climb a Telecom mast when their is a major outage.

It's demoralises, insult and ridicule to the Generals in his cabinet. And same time and insult to his office to have appointed incompetent lots that had to warrant him to go to the frontlines.

We talking about a No 1 man of a country.

Is that even possible

If you are one of those guys who believe that marrying a virgin will guarantee you loyalty in your marriage you are damn wrong,i am talking from experience though i am not generalizing a promiscuous woman will be promiscuous and vice versa. let me tell your a story In my former compound there is this girl who is a virgin i am very sure of that but this girl loves boys so much that whenever her friends are not around she always invite this handsome friend of mine to her house and he spends the Night there but they never have sex they just smooch and romance she always tells my friend she cant wait to get married because she loves sex but want to wait till marriage.imagine a virgin with this high libidomarrying a 2minutes man

Now what am i saying?

sometimes we forget that women are human beings like us men we all have sexual urges and expectations. whenever you are Hot you have this sexual tension and excitement that must be quenched its just like fire if it is not quenched then you are not not satisfied .in men it is quite easy the moment you release semen you are a satisfied then you pullout.

Being a virgin doesnot mean a woman will not know when she is not satisfied sexually on her first sexual experience because her body will tell her the sexual expectations are not met yet or not satisfied this thing are instincts they are not decisions.They lady now will have three options depending on her orientatiom.its either she tells you you are not satisfying her or she locks up and endure if she is Godfearing or she cheats on you .

As a man looking for a virgin to marry will not guarantee you she will be loyal .this life 1+1 is not always 2.as a man it is your duty to make your wife cum at least once in every bedroon session. if you cant do it with your penis use your hand or mouth.

thanks.

[quote author=Kendaboss post=87894140]Every body will always rates himself high. If he says he is the best, he is the best! I'm surprised though people are are not dragging him, because when Burna said he is the best na una still follow dey drag am[/quotel]

bro i surprise too burna is only loved outside Nigerian in foriegn lands do you know how many foriegn artiste remixed his song "ye" check youtube Nigerians dont really like burna more like jews dont like jesus even though he was born there but today more than half of the world population celebrate jesus.

vivalavida:
I have not made it

But I am far more comfortable than that

If u see your sister in my residence,u will be proud of her.
Are u satisfied?

till i see you residence every i ever see on NL is audio and plus i have to be sure you earning legit cant give ma sister to a low-key criminal .anyways thanks but we aint poor so we not impressed with your change nurture it till it reaches at least million before you can say things like this.

vivalavida:
This lady wants the best. She is even determined to support him to move out. Baby, keep supporting him but give him a deadline. I wouldn't want my.sister dating a man who lives in such an environment sef

i hope you have made it in life too.

women confused from time immemorial. they marry a rich guy they complain they miss their broke ex.they marry for love they later complain he is broke mtchewww women can make you doubt God because the bible says they are helpers but this ones i am seeing are opposite of helpers they are destroyers .

fairfora:
Abiooo. All these fake love stories should be banned for now. What we are facing is a serious issue. May God save us from this monster called covid-19

since you are more worried about covid19 why not visit only the frontpage where there are dozens of updates every minute or be of use to humanity by volunteering to join the government agencies in fighting the virus but no you left all that to visit the romance section .
i wish covid19 ends the world so hypocrits like you will be gone forever mtchewww.

BigJoe19:
Before they initiate me into their stupidity.

swears its contagious.

When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

Paxie55:
All of you acting independent, you think a man will open his two eyes to enter marriage with You, knowing full well that he's gonna be your play boy? You girls should keep raising leeches and be thinking you are doing yourself any better. They will chop your money and still marry the ones that they will spend lavishly on.
Don't let this I want an independent woman scums fool you. They are all bunch of insecured leeches and will always take you nice women as fools.
And btw, raise your standards and stop feeding men.

men like you will still complain when you meet a gold digger I guess it's not only women that are confused men too are .

Sirvingeo:
Even the person understood I was just joking . The person i was referring took it politely because she knows I was just trying to make her feel better but you that lack good sense of humor is busy responding like a loosed dog.

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Phadg:
AIN'T SURE ABOUT THAT THOUGH.

just believe there is power in belief.

Sirvingeo:
My own is that you should not allow your breast to settle down before you.

too many kids on NL one of the reason I will deactive all my accounts soon.

Phadg:
Hi guys i just joined NL and from what have been reading on here bfor i sign up i feel i might get a response from nairalanders

Am a lady that believes in building with a man and not looking for an already made guys am also an independent lady so i dont really need your money,i work for what i spend, Atimes i end up giving out of the little i earn to my partner, now this is the sad part these guys take me for a fool some just start acting up like some1 with psychosis{apologies} but it the truth well i just broke up with my boyfriend cause i cant deal with his bullshit anymore. now my question is
1. IS IT BAD FOR ME TO SHOW YOU I LOVE YOU?
2. IS IT A SIN FOR ME TO WANT TO BE INVOLVE IN YOUR LIFE{I BELIEVE WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE FOR EACHOTHER}?
3.IS ASKING FOR A LITTLE TRANSPARENCY A SIN?
4.WHY DO GOOD GIRLS HAVE BADLUCK WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING A GUY?

APOLOGIES FOR THE LONG POST.

you don't have bad luck sis it just the way the world is don't worry one day you will find a guy that deserves you that ones sure.

Greatzeus:
Look at the trash a grown ass man woke up 8am to write. Puss y is your problem in life,your mates are in multi national companies doing great,you mannerless jobless frustrated low life woke up to write rubbish. You are so pained by my comment, obviously the motive behind your thread was to transfer your aggression on Nairaland female folks since your broke as s is always rejected and mocked by girls.
Guy go and hustle,make good money and girls will respect you. Or else you will die a disgruntled lonely depressed a sshole

and which multinational companies do you own
for yourself.

ylaa:
You are a fool. A mighty fool. That she is from akwa ibom does that make her a prostitute? May your useless public toilet gonorrhea infected penis never rise again. Cheap fool. She is decent yet you are crying foul, if she had given in to your evil desire, you will come here and open that gutter mouth of yours to still blackmail her ffor being cheap. May Satan punish you permanently �.
In case you don't know, there are still some decent girls/ladies out there. Thunder fire � you. Squatee like you.



quote author=SeunStats post=87481305]After i finished my ND in one best poly in the country, i left there to stay with my aunt, just to change the enviroment before i will proceed for my HND.. I have been living there like three months now, i met a girl {very beautiful} she's a native of Akwa ibom, through her friend who is just like a sister to me, i woo her, within a month she agreed, the issue now is? I invited her to my dad house {my dad also lives that same town with my aunt, but hes married to my step mom } we talk, chat dirty and i promptly asked for sex, but she declined saying "it's too early and this is our first date" , does anytn wrong in this...well, i agreed and she later said she need a small phone to an android she's using, in which i had bought...fast forward to yesterday, she came around with her friend (alarina), this time to my aunt apartey... We dance, chat and i told her friend to excuse us, then i show her the phone i bought her, she appreciate it, then we start playing roughly...but when i want to unbutton her dress, she declined again saying "she don't trust me, that i'm only after her body' that time am on 100% erection, my dick just went down, then i ask if she's really from Akwa ibom in which she took as an offense when she's leaving she ask for d fone in which i decline given her, i just see her of and gave her TP... I can't let go of this girl cos i really love her but i also want sex ... PLS ADVICE!!!

why y take am so personal now.

Charles nneji is the best pua of all time.

cruxgemmata:
Bro u wont understand that language. The price of ur soul was been haggled by buyers and sellers. Fortunately for u, u can see the seller and unfortunately for u, u cant see d buyers.

mtchewww too much weed no good.

bae pressured me to have sex with her today even though I wasn't in the mood but I did before she gets angry and dramatic again.it was really ecstatic I really hit her hard because she was cuddling me really hard like she wants to choke me all of a sudden she exploded like has an epilepsy she was shivering for like 5mins moaning and saying things I don't undesrtand immediately thoughts went through my mind like is this girl dying like the news I always hear on NL about people dying during sex but she later told me that's how she orgasms sometimes I was so shocked my ting went limp
is this normal or does she have an underlying health condition.

The most discussed topics here never make the front page no matter how enlightening and educative it is did you notice? is there any conspiracy somewhere? Ubunja miseducations have never made front page so with some antifeminist posts here looks like the truth will be is hidden from most men forever

last las they will settle for less

it's because bad guys know they like sex and adventure and see through their pretence. women love to be forced to do what they like to do so it will look like it's not their will but because of you but a nice guy always seeks their permission before doing anything .

obinnaoduduwa:
Please your opinions house

bro my advice for you is forget women's loves it doesn't exist ..even if she still loves if possible she will still Bleep another dick outside and you will be hurt when you find out so it's a game won ma do

Ekakamba:

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Safe journey bro.

thanks my gee

XhosaNostra:
Good for you.

But what you said about pretty girls is not true for all. On behalf of our organization, I'm devastated by this statement

yes ma'am

it was all my fault though first time I am dating a super hot queen she was a 9 /10 i was so insecure my friends were all surprised how I got her and bleeped her in just 3days before we started dating officially maybe she wants to taste another dick

hey guys remember I told you about my girlfriend yesterday about how she refuse seeing me and picking my calls since two days a go a lot of Nairaland alphamales and women were bashing me calling me weak and immature that I couldn't cope without seeing my girlfriend for Just two days I told them from experience when a woman behaves that way it means she is gradually losing interest in the relationship like I knew someone told me she came around my area today but she didn't even call me or let me know she is around despite the fact I called her yesterday to know what's going on anyways I accept life the way I see it .even if she comes back tomorrow I will still not accept her because she will be too manipulative
anyways I am moving on my conclusion is pretty women do not love they are just there for games anyways life too sweet for my to destroy my peace of mind n.a.
because of woman at least I bleeped her well before now it's now another man's turn