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thinkmoney:
still the foundational upbringing, which his how parents help mold children , goes a long way. most often than not, it guides the children in selecting which factors from the environment to imbibe

of course. That's my point. The evil the parents did to him by not moulding him d upright way is now haunting them

Pedrocross4568:
Must you comment on everything you read. if you can't read and understand please don't say anything.

same goes to u. Get understanding

Fulcrum15:
U are seriously sick upstairs u need help.

na mad man know who mad really

tenderjunkie:
Aunty if you don't know what to say, please keep quiet.
You people just tell different lies against God.
You think God is so wicked? God is the definition of true love

hmmm. Another one spotted

atoleybaba:
please shut up ... enough of this insult and ridicule on xtianity

repent

xxxtedyxxx:
Your mentality is really messed up.

JEEZ.

you no get sense.

u too no get sense. Na witch know witch

atoleybaba:
if this is the only Advice u can give,then you have a big problem you don't know

so do u

atoleybaba:
una no see as I Dy look am? All these people that will make you to be ashamed to identify yourself as a Christian. I don't know when she turn to God spoke woman

yea, I am cos I read and learn from God words

LyfeJennings:
Hmmmmmm
Otito Oro bi isokuso
Bitter truth like nonsense
As much as I don't want to push away your suggestion
It's nothing but the truth
I came across someone I used to know who is now into substance abuse. I really pity the lady cos some 5years ago, I was asking if I could get another friend to p1mp her for me at 50k
Just yesterday she was a total disaster of who I once knew. I've been discussing this particular person and what kept coming to my mind was "what wrong has she done, what wrong has her parent committed"
U are very right there
God is a very merciful God in the most cruel manner. He doesn't serve it cold. His dishes are very hot

hmm. U r wise

rinzylee:
You are the ones always Misrepresenting God and what Christianity really means and is.

Do you think a kid can't go wrong even after thorough moral and Christian upbringing?

This is why we keep having atheists remain stuck to their denial of God almighty because we cast stones first before we show mercy.

You don't know God. You don't understand His nature at all.

Be careful

yea. Let's say u r correct. Can u sit down and think about ur life? Why are u not a gun runner or an addict or a worst version of ur original sef? That is if u r not. It's ur upbringing. If u r, its ur parents fault

thinkmoney:
still the foundational upbringing, which his how parents help mold children , goes a long way. most often than not, it guides the children in selecting which factors from the environment to imbibe

u get my point

afroxyz:
You must really be very stupid

so r u. Very stupid

HonourableUche:
This is quoting the bible out of context. If you'd said that most things that happen to people are due to the choices they make fine but not that your original post. I don't like doing this...but read John 9vs1-3 about the man born blind.Warm regards!

blind, yes, but from the womb, but an addict or violent person without control, it's the parents fault

Samm9y:
Do you have sense?

do u? It's obvious u dont

osazsky:
mumu aboki

lol

Carloslehder:
.walahi you no get Brain

femi4:
you lack common sense. What happened to abdulmuttalab that joined terrorist

a seed was sown in him when he was a child. Simple

switspin:
Please just say nothing, we are trying to find solutions not blames

if truly u r, then go to root of the matter. The worm that kill guinea corn plant, is under it's root.

echodrum:
Ignorance is your major problem.

so is yours. My son, get wisdom, and in ur getting, get understanding

bigiyaro:
shut it dia. so all parents are evil?

I did not say that. Are all children wayward and become destructive? No . Train up a child properly in God, and u won't cry at old age. Learn from this

switspin:
Not always true, since you mentioned God, cast your mind back to the man in your bible who was born blind, what offence did his parents commit?

was he beating his mum, or doing drugs? No. He was born blind. He did not become violent and beat up his mum. Nor steal to take drugs. The similiarty is absent

ABOVEDELAW:
JUST SHUT THE FUC-K UP IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO SAY WHEN INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ARE TALKING!

u just showed how intelligent u r. Keep it up

postmann:
Calling you a dunce will be putting it mildly. But ignorant and confident simpletons like you have dragged Christianity to the mud deeper than unbelievers.

A child's sins shouldn't ever be blamed on parents except you have first hand proof. The bible has great parents whose children went astray with no fault of theirs. The prophet Samuel was one good example. You should be locked up for heresy.

same with me o. If I should call a dunce, I will be putting it playfully. But u r worst than that. Samuel was not a perfect man in terms of children upbringing. Same as Eli, despite they obeyed God and d work for him. He may have neglected his core responsibility and faced God, that led to his children being wayward

ocha88:
. My dear this life is deeper than you thought, devil can use any means just to cause havoc in a family, someone somewhere can even manipulate your life just to bring shame to your family. Just prayer that temptation doesn’t come your way. Op I prayer for God intervention, I think what the man need now is rehab and possibly change of environment

they should pray to God, so that if it's d devil at work, God will intervene,

Ibechris2:
This comment might be over looked but there is absolutely sense in this...let us not forget this is Africa.

u r correct

Tapout:
Those addicted to masturbat!on nko?? Alchohol?? Etc. how can be spilling such trash with great audacity??what has the parents got to do with this??

90% his parents.at his tender age, 5% at his adulthood.

Ceazario:
Brother, all those attacking you are dead upstairs. They are probably from the same background with similar upbringing. Dem no reach you cuz you have the best reply so far. Respect to your growing up. Ur parents born you well.

thanks once again. Train up a child in d way of the lord. Not out of the lord. Or in hypocrisy. And expect that child to become better personwhen he is old.

Ndubuisipaul1:
I support this brother, for you to kill this problem you have to get to the root of it. And the best way is to start asking questions from your background..

thanks. Am a woman. But I have been around long enough to understand this. His problem is from his foundation

BalogunIdowu:
As much as I agree with this, it is not always so.

Noah son perished even though his father was prophet. What did Noah did wrong?

Lut wife didn't go unpunished even though his husband was a prophet. What did Put did wrong?

Some times no matter how you put in efforts to train you child they still go wayward but you WON'T neglect them due to that. Continue to pray and advise them with the hope that they change.

Those examples above are too far back, don't tell me you haven't seen religious leaders in our current time that their offsprings have jumped fence too?

yes, there is something he or his wife did wrong while raising him up. Oversight or negligence.

Ceazario:
This person is wise, vast in knowledge and has deep intuition. The hard drugs does not have all these habits you aforementioned. It is what is in you that whatever you take bring out or escalate,it does not bring any new habit. Your brother has always been a bad person but instead of your parents to tackle him head on, they covered him up from the same community he is disgracing ur family,now it has gotten out of hand @ 42! U better free him and let d rest in the family learn.

u have wisdom and foresight. I heart u

torvickof1312:
He choose his path, pls put no blame on parents. Our parents born us but the never born our character, the train us to the best the could and we choose our path. He needs help by taking him to a remind home and changing his environment. It's hard for you to change him but your effort and his willingness is key. Engaged the brother cos idleness will take him back to the little drugs that is districting him gradually.

so why r u not on drugs and beat up ur mum, let me answer u, it's because ur parents brought u up well

7508:
What is oponu saying o?. A person is desperately looking for help for a sibling , this one there dey blame mother and father.
Sometimes just shut up to be appreciated instead of gassing yamayama talk biko

that is a way of looking at it in another angle. U should have ignored my comment. But u chose not to, so u r d bigger oponu here