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kimbraa:
This comment made me laugh in spiritual wickedness.

otabuko:
you've not been selected girl friend. That's more of less a confirmation that you've taken the test completely. Preselection exercise starts Sept 1

Guyman02:
The reality here is that your husband is using his sisters to tame you, it seems you are of the domineering type who sees herself as being very 'smart' to be in charge and thinks of themselves as more knowledgeable than the man? He will just look away and allow his sisters to come at you and he will feign 'bitterness and frustration' at them.

Your in-laws wont speak bad of you if your husband did not give them the information to be used against you. You need to start putting your husband in front as head of the family and not try to take his place by fighting his battles for him with his siblings because you think you are capable of confronting them.

When it comes to issues of his family stay in the background and give him your suggestions behind the scene, stop exchanging words with your inlaws in your office or in public and when they talk back in the presence of your staff you feel hurt and start crying in your closet.

''There was a day one of my husband's aunt told my husband to always tell them about anything he is doing.''

Its probably because your in-laws dont trust you as you may have shown signs of being selfish, are you among the type of women who do things without their husbands knowledge because they want to 'protect' themselves in future?

Check yourself, there is definitely something you are not doing right in your marriage and when you start doing it right, your husband will step up to protect you as it is within his ability to call his siblings and your in-laws to order in matters concerning you.
Cheer up and learn new ways to build your home and those who speak ill of you today will be the same people to speak good of you tomorrow.
Dont quit yet!

Zeze06:


How can a man, a full grown adult, a responsible married man, allow his relatives (dad, mum, brother, sister, uncle, auntie or under any relationship definition) harass his wife for any reason whatsoever

Truly not all "men" are men...

CollinsWeGlobe:
Any youth that will insult Charley Boy (Area Fada) on this thread. May god of thunder strike that person.

uzoormah:
Ur lucky u didnt get pregnant that year

patola080:
d one u always cry 4

Dopeyomi:
Lol black mark beside the joystick.. pls what is joystick