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Romance › Re: Married A Foreigner But Deep Down I Miss Having A Nigerian Girl. by aduaba(f): 7:34pm On Jun 06, 2013

Im sure there well lots of nigerian women to choose from but you chose a foreigner. Im sure you had your reasons for that. Well I think you r forgetting cos its been six years already. If you want to remember go ahead and cheat with all those gals. What if you find out your wife feels da same way around her country men too..

Romance › Re: Does This Edo Man Really Love Me Or Am I Being Used (foreign Woman) by aduaba(f): 1:18pm On Jun 06, 2013

lostgirl85: .

Thank you for your thoughts and yes I tell him he is very selfish and btw she knows about my daughter and me the first part was written two months ago on someone else's post so I decided to do an update and start my own post as everyone's situation is different. And I do believe I have to move on it will be very hard though I always wanted my children to be for one man and my grandmother taught me to never leave a man that I know for the unknown ( may her soul rest in peace) but I have to be strong and move on will be looking for a new house so he can not find us.

Good.You might not know it now but you are so lucky you are not already married to him.That would have made the situation much more difficult. .Good luck to you.

Romance › Re: Does This Edo Man Really Love Me Or Am I Being Used (foreign Woman) by aduaba(f): 12:52pm On Jun 06, 2013

He's just greedy. He wants to have you but doesn't want to leave his wife. This has nothing to do with his tribe. He knows you are so I much in love with to leave him thats why he has the guts to come around you. He expects you to understand the situation and be there anytime he needs you. Yes he used you but the real truth is that he also fell in love with you and is a very confused man now. What you should not fail to see is that the other woman was there before you and she is there to stay and for the fact that she's not aware of your baby should tell you he respects her much more .The truth is bitter but please swallow it. You may think you cannot start all over again cos u loved and trusted him so much for all this but please for the sakevof your happiness and dignity move on, concentrate on your baby. Chanel all your love to your child and forget him. Most of all pray to God/Allah to strengthen you.

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Romance › Re: Girls: What Attracts You The Most In Boys? by aduaba(f): 5:03pm On Jun 02, 2013

Fresh dark skinned guy, tall with a firm bum. cool

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Romance › Re: I Feel Like I'm In A Bondage Emotionally by aduaba(f): 1:30pm On Jun 02, 2013

I know its hard to throw him out so just endure his attitude till your rent is due. Im sure his ego is also responsible for his behaviour. Just ignore him anytime he's at it but don't make it seem you are nothing without him.
But if things turn out really bad especially when he starts to be abusive pls show him the door. .

Romance › Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by aduaba(f): 1:48pm On Jun 01, 2013

CAMEROONPRIDE: ^^Your lots are always blaming men for anything, yet when we Lord over you, you complain..tell me what men have to do with the topic. Did they rape her? Did they force her? Do we force you to open your damn legs? Can you learn how to say No? Stop blaming men for your lust you enjoy sex the same way they do....

When a girl says 3nigga that means she fcked a least 6

Off course i will blame men. Some men kno so well how to get us down. Even if some of us try so hard not to allow them they still find their way cos they are just masters of the game . Don't kno about you but some men always get what they want. I personally wish i was a virgin before marriage but hey those bad guys out there jux won't let me.call me cheap or whatever but lets face the facts if men want virgins as wives then they should be virgins too.

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Romance › Re: Am I Cheap?? Have I Slept With Too Many Men? by aduaba(f): 1:02pm On May 31, 2013

Well yes you are cheap. But hey its gud to be cheap before marriage that way you don't go exploring after marriage cos u hv seen more than enough. my dear I don't blame you cos men of today hv made many gals so cheap since they won't leave us alone.pls forget it cos I dnt think u will ask your man how many gals he has slept with. I wonder y men will sleep with anything in skirt but still call gals hu hv been intimate with more than three guys sluts.

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Romance › Re: "I Slept With My Best Friend’s Husband" by aduaba(f): 12:28am On May 31, 2013

Pls tell her not to blame it on the alcohol cos she wanted it. She's just coming up with excuses just to justify her actions. She betrayed her friend from the very day she admired her husband. Don't ask what you should do cos if u ask me I will tell you to keep it to yourself but I know deep in inside u, you want to tell your friend just to ruin her marriage. She's just mad the husband did not follow up. Shame.Does she mean to say cos she's drunk even if a mad man comes to her she will allow him be intimate with her? Please. .

Romance › Re: I Lost My Virginity To My First Love At 24, But Now I Wanna Try Other Men by aduaba(f): 7:29pm On May 25, 2013

Girl you phuck up big time. You were able to get to 24years before only for you to mess up.Some of us really wish we could get that far so that our husbands will have us first. You dnt know how painful it is to lose one's virginity to one loser who will take you nowhere. seriously I wish I had your opportunity.

Celebrities › Re: Majid Michel Vs Brother, Who Would You Hit? by aduaba(f): 12:38pm On May 25, 2013

Brother please..

Romance › Re: My Husbands Ex Claims They Have A Son by aduaba(op): 10:36am On May 25, 2013

Atheist:-D:
Get confirmation first via dna. It is the only definitive way to know what the situation is. Good luck and wish you all the best

gree-die:
You are already beginning to see him differently? thats bad!! could it be because u feel he if it was the other way round ur husby would ve sacked u??

woman, u ve issues and the baby is the least. Just a year into ur marriage and u r writing this? FGS, its not like he hid it from u, he didn't know!! he married u because he loves u. don't spoil a good thing because of unnecessary doubts.
You don't have the slightest idea .Fine it's bad for me to think as such but hey I'm only human and I have feelings too. I kno he had no idea but why eight years? Its not as if she didn't know where to find . anyway he will have to come down to Nigeria for a DNA...

You should ask the moderators to move this to the family section, you ll get better advice there.

Romance › Re: My Husbands Ex Claims They Have A Son by aduaba(op): 10:20am On May 25, 2013

Atheist:-D:
Get confirmation first via dna. It is the only definitive way to know what the situation is. Good luck and wish you all the best

Romance › My Husbands Ex Claims They Have A Son by aduaba(op): 9:00am On May 25, 2013*

Romance › Re: ~Welcome To The Romance Section (New Members Introduce Yourselves)~ by aduaba(f): 3:21pm On May 24, 2013

Hi people I'm pleased to be a part of u ..I'm aduaba new comer as well. .

Romance › Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by aduaba(f): 3:26pm On May 22, 2013

There are divas reasons for this situation. Firstly, believe it or not some ladies as at age 21do not have a man to boast of as their boyfriend. Others have alot to chose from that they get confused and go for the wrong guy instead. It is also a reality that some ladies are just so fond of going for men who are already committed, there could be a cute single guy after her but NO! she wants that man with a wife or a serious girlfriend. Most of these committed men waste their time till these ladies get the so obvious truth that these men will never leave their wives for them.Sadly we are in an era where most single men don't want to get married just yet.so its quite complicated.

Romance › Re: I Love My Boyfriend..but There Is This Big Issue.. by aduaba(f): 4:14pm On May 21, 2013

Gal you don't have to be bothered. My husband has the same attitude. Anytime he's broke I try not to get on his bad side but it doesn't mean he's loves you any less. Its just an ego thing amongst some men.

Romance › Re: Pastor Says It's Natural For Men To Cheat: Wife's Should Understand That by aduaba(f): 4:18pm On May 20, 2013

Ok if cheating is normal for men no problem but remember it is another man's wife or girlfriend u r cheating with. If those women can cheat on their men with you so can your wife. grin

Unless of course u r cheating with ur fellow man. grin

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Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid Wins African Artiste Of The Year At Ghana Music Awards 2013 by aduaba(f): 10:41pm On May 19, 2013

Congrats wiz

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