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ochon:
Whenever I see Ghana vs Naija E-war, I just hiss and walk away or laugh over the fights. If I was in the midst of 5 strangers from different African countries, and a Ghanaian happens to be amongst them, I'd align myself with him fast before looking for other alternative friendships. The vibe between us and Ghana is just too much, from music to movies. I'm proud of my Ghana brothers jare.

I wonder how the house will be now.. very dry but i blame lillian for allowing herself to be nominated she didn't behave well in the first week at all.
as for small pepper i think biggie just want her to go cos how can UG vote for her in the first week and switch all of sudden to ella?

2sExy1: Good and there is nothing wrong with what I did too. and let me express myself in my own way...

Ok.

2sExy1: Interesting so that more of her likes should come out and start feeling funky, huh? park well o. except you are telling me that what she did here right then I roll you both in the mill.

Everyone has their own way of expressing themselves and you should allow them. In my opinion there nothing wrong with what she did.
And that thing about you rolling someone in the mill
Well let's not go there.

2sExy1: cool babe wey sabi! hi five jor.

Mister give the lady a break. You don't go round telling ppl how to express themselves ,we are all different.You made some girl deactivate her account so what?? You are the one feeling like superman here . Pls don't you tell a lady she's ugly , it doesn't sound right coming from a guy. This topic can be a very interesting one if you will allow it to be.

@op don't be discouraged at all. All i will advice you do is to stop snooping his phone and get yourself busy with yours. make him feel you care less about what he does and concentrate on yourself. dnt fill your thoughts with what he has with some other girl and concentrate on how sexy you can be asap.Believe me he doesn't love that girl. he just has it mind that you are his wife and you will always be there,even if he married her he will behave the same way towards her. Life is how you make it so you choose if you want to be the bitter wife monitoring her man's phone all the time or the cheerful sexy wife who is full of life. dnt allow him to see only the home keeping and praying side of you it gets boring sometimes, i'm not saying you shouldn't pray for him but don't make it so obvious. He said that girl is a drama queen right? so what are you waiting for ? let the drama begin.

Bombaybombay: Please dont get me wrong, i didnt post on NL cos am in search of solutions, u know whenever i raise this issue with hubby he says its my job to do them so i should stop complaining, bin dat my marriage is fresh and i was brought up with maids am trying to live with it, am trying to get used to it, i only posted ere cos i bliv there is a mother and wife somewhere who lives like this and would probably encourage me to live with it. Cos me for one am beginning to wonder why women are assigned to sooooo many roles in the home and we also work jobs like the men.

@op I sincerely understand you. I have been there before it depends on you and how you take it. I ddn see it as any form of punishment but I grew to love what I do as a mom and a wife and took all the stress as a means to lose baby fat. Now my baby is almost a year and with my mom. Now hubby n I have all the time in the world for ourselves and yes I lost all the baby fat , im bck to the old me.

Hmm.. I wanted a normal birth but unfortunately for me dilatation was rather slow so I had to go through a c.s ..the pain I went through during all the hours of labor is something I cnt describe .everyone is different so you might not go through wat I did but don't be scared cos many women have been there so you can too. Having the c.s was such a wonderful feeling and I recovered very early too. The best thing that could happen to any woman is when you have an opportunity to bring another life into this world. I look at my lovely lil girl and forget all I went through cos she's worth all the pain.

November baby

yellowpawpaw: It will heal. If u will opt for elective cs next time,pls do find a good hospital with capable hands to tear and stitch u up.
Its very vital. Apart from the healing needle-like pains ocassionally at d two ends of the tear and seeing the scar, cs is completely safe.
What u feel is normal but make sure its not infested.

Congratulation.

True incase you want to go thru the process again , find a very good hospital that specialises in C.s..I had a CS too and have never experienced any pains whatsoever from day one. The cut was perfectly stiched and I can rock a bikini any day any time. I didn't have a swollen tummy like how people complain to have after having a CS.

Talking about swag I'll go for wizzys kid. At his age he knows how to pose like that ..the swag runs in his veins mehn. Pauls son is cute bt Swagaless.

rigormortis: in the brain of ghaynian dudes, there is not one atom of sense present.......................and OP you cant fool naija peeps, this aint selly, the pix is wrong but the message is correct

So king Solomon the wisest of all what hv u been able to achieve with ur enormous brain after all these years of eating salt

I don't think your wife will just behave as such for no reason. I'm sure there's more to it than what you have said. Women react this way esp when they are tired of dealing with a cheating man.im very sure you dnt allow her to check out ur fon but you want to know whatever goes on on hers. Believe me she's not cheating on you she probably wants you feel she is ..search within yourself and you will know you are hurting this woman that's why she doesn't care anymore. Check yourself .

singledude: Man this is so unfortunate.I have spent the last 30 mins reading irrational,twisted and myopic opinions from the females on this topic.This is the reason why I am not dating a Naija girl,I have dated so so many and they are all the same lazy,materialistic bit**es.I date a Namibian by the way and we both work and make money.I am very stable financially but she is dating me because she wants to not because she has to.She sleeps with me because she wants to and because she loves it not because I have a thick wallet.She takes me out when she wants to and I do exactly the same!our 2 year anniversary was a week ago and we both bought gifts for each other...my point is we are together because we love each other's company and we make each other happy not because i pay her bills and cater to her every financial whim!.....Naija girls most of u need help and need a shrink cos y'all are psychologically unwell......as for me I have totally given up on y'all and to me it's good riddance.My fellow Naija guys,why not imitate me and be happy u met a real woman?

Guys I think you getting this girl wrong. She's not saying she needs the man to do everything she needs. Its just nice when a man does some little things for a loved one when she needs it. A woman can do the same too. It's more or less like helping a friend when they need ur help. @op I dnt support a woman who puts all her bills on a man but if u r an independent woman and ur man cannot help u out when u r in need then u shud advise yourself cos if u love someone and they need ur help u will want to help.

Hmm..they look good together. .

Set it off..when cleo died..

Jux like da op I met mine in the bank too. I noticed the way he starred at me as I walked into the bank but I jux ignored. Later on I saw him next to me but he didn't say anything and he left only for me to bump into him again outside and that's how we spoke. I was really attracted to him but I pretended otherwise ..One thing led to da other and here we are. .

Excuse yourself and cry as hard as you can, make sure you cry very well and after those tears you will realise how much u hate him for making you cry that way..sometimes tears take the pain away cos at this moment if you try to be hard by moving on so fast into another man's arms the end will be much worse than what u r experiencing now..

Dnt call her cos after the call all she will do is to laugh at you in bed with her hubby to be...

Thanks rokiatu for opening this thread. Reading the responses here gives me hope of a better future. .im still in my first year of marriage and believe me its a mixture of feelings sometimes sweet, at times sour but I guess it will pass soon. .

Lmao. .

norahvivi: AND LOOKING AT YOU ALONE U ARE MASTER IN DE GAME OF ABORTION AND U HV DE GUT TO EVEN ADVICE SOMEONE?...BITCH

looking at me? wow..and who is advising who? i did not advise anyone i only asked the poster that is you to stop posting such irrelevant tales cos you and i kno its all made up..i mean this story does not make sense just like the poster..next time u need attention put up a better tale not this joke..

gedtalks: As in are you aying that the ''big girls'' maybe.........em.... the likes of you. Cof- cof . F*ck their sugar daddy carefully or are you condeming the entire act of f*cking another ladys husband. Where do you stand...emm....''big girl''. My dear the real ''big girls'' are those that are COMPLETELY INDEPENDENT OF SO CALLED SUGAR DADDIES. They are NOT FUCKKEDDDDD for money. Wake up jare

I wonder why guys get threatened when they hear 'big gals'..anyway not everyone thinks as you do.Big gal in this context means a grown woman for God sakes that is what its supposed to mean.
get over my opinion and give yours cos i think that is what you are expected to do not to ask where i stand cos the poster needs ur advise and not me..

Madam dnt throw dust into anyone's eyes. Which big gal of today gets pregnant ignorantly ? It's da likes of you who make children suffer cos they always feel left out..and please next time dnt post such a silly topic. Men read all these things and call all women cheats..

I had mine at age 13 and I was really disappointed. .I couldn't tell how i felt at that moment. Very funny actually cos it seemed we were both from saliva town..

Dearie from all indications u r so into this new guy. I understand, there's always that mr perfect who comes around when u in a serious relationship.u r asking if u r cheating but in this case that should be the least of your worries .u need to flee from this guy else your next question will be 'help I cheated on my man , wat shud I do'..forget all those saying your guy has not put a ring on it so u r free to do all you want. It takes faithfulness to have a ring on it.

Its obvious your husband feels you will be there waiting for all him no matter wat happens.lil trick here-change your style, from your wardrobe to your hair, ,nails makeup and purfume.Give him space, dnt mention the affair anymore.concentrate on your kids and do other things that will make you happy. Pretend you don't care what he does and fake some calls where immediately he comes around you pretend to hung up .Come up with excuses of meeting up with friends when it is actually church you going to. To cut short the story get him jealous. .but please dnt cheat..
It's obvious there's a soul tie here and what you need to do most is to pray and break it.You dnt need to fight or argue no! Just leave it to God and dnt stop praying till you get an answer.
Your indifference will get him thinking. .

Ibukun

Lol..dats a complete turn off...guys never try dat.even if you have just three words in your dictionary please use them..