Op

Please understand that this is not an attack on your character......you seem like a nice girl however being naive is going into a dark alley once but being dumb is keep putting your hands in the fire repeatedly.

You can be smart and do dumb shit. Take heed and focus on you and baby.

You deserve better.

CAMEROONPRIDE: you said mislead. And misleading knows no nationality.

Anyway from your last comment,maybe your pu-C is sweet also, some men don't know how to quit.but you have to understand that we African love our women pass anyone, so maybe he loves u a little a bit but can't do without his own. If you like him enter in polygamy or manage(accept that he has a second office).
After all your people brought homosexuality in the world, polygamy shouldn't kill u.

Very true, he says it is sweet and I have no problem with polygamy as long as all parties agree and who people brought in homosexuality?? I am a black woman no homo her luv but the statement truly made me laugh

CAMEROONPRIDE: you said mislead. And misleading knows no nationality.

Anyway from your last comment,maybe your pu-C is sweet also, some men don't know how to quit.but you have to understand that we African love our women pass anyone, so maybe he loves u a little a bit but can't do without his own. If you like him enter in polygamy or manage(accept that he has a second office).
After all your people brought homosexuality in the world, polygamy shouldn't kill u.

Thank you very much for your feedback

Eh eh aren't you the same women who said she's from Italy? .

Anyway I'm just trying to help you ooo but I have to add something, since he's not proposing polygamy to u , what are you going to do? Propose it yourself? Understand that I have never heard about a woman asking a dude to take her in polygamy

the heck baby...move on,u re been used backhand nd fronthand

Maybe he wants to use for prostitution , I'm 100% sure that a white girl will bring more money than a black/African one

CAMEROONPRIDE: Maybe he wants to use for prostitution , I'm 100% sure that a white girl will bring more money than a black/African one

u talking lyk mr cork.

He's just greedy. He wants to have you but doesn't want to leave his wife. This has nothing to do with his tribe. He knows you are so I much in love with to leave him thats why he has the guts to come around you. He expects you to understand the situation and be there anytime he needs you. Yes he used you but the real truth is that he also fell in love with you and is a very confused man now. What you should not fail to see is that the other woman was there before you and she is there to stay and for the fact that she's not aware of your baby should tell you he respects her much more .The truth is bitter but please swallow it. You may think you cannot start all over again cos u loved and trusted him so much for all this but please for the sakevof your happiness and dignity move on, concentrate on your baby. Chanel all your love to your child and forget him. Most of all pray to God/Allah to strengthen you.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Eh eh aren't you the same women who said she's from Italy? .

Anyway I'm just trying to help you ooo but I have to add something, since he's not proposing polygamy to u , what are you going to do? Propose it yourself? Understand that I have never heard about a woman asking a dude to take her in polygamy

I never said I was from Italy, and I'm scared to say where I'm from as it might give my identity away but I am from an island the smallest island in the world. ( now I will have to delete this thread) and he has proposed polygamy but said she needs time to get use to it because their parents never practiced polygamy. she will be leaving the UK soon and her son is staying. And I would never propose polygamy or chase a man it's not how I was raised as I said before my father is Muslim he has 4 wives. (My mum not being one as she could not handle it she said. but its good for me. Let her was his clothes cook his food and clean up after him while I get weekend and holiday visits and throughout the week I can sleep undisturbed by a Hot man (mind you lately he has been begging me to cook some jellof rice for him)

CAMEROONPRIDE: Maybe he wants to use for prostitution , I'm 100% sure that a white girl will bring more money than a black/African one

Omg I'm black ..... Well more so likea light brown but still my mum n dad r black ( great grandad is Spanish) everyone else is black

CAMEROONPRIDE: Maybe he wants to use for prostitution , I'm 100% sure that a white girl will bring more money than a black/African one

Omg I'm black ..... Well more so like light brown but still my mum n dad r black ( great grandad is Spanish) everyone else is black

cyber_saurus: u talking lyk mr cork.

please I'm not self hating, African girls are hustling in the streets taking 10euros-20eutos/customer when white girls work in escort agency where they earn big, and when they are in the streets not less than 30-50euros.

BTW African girls have inferiority complex ,they worship white men, so they are ready to Fck with them for less or even free, you know the myth of the white man.

lostgirl85:


Omg I'm black ..... Well more so like light brown but still my mum n dad r black ( great grandad is Spanish) everyone else is black

are u African?
Island? Hum from the Antilles?
Anyway since you don't mind living in polygamy enjoy .

aduaba: He's just greedy. He wants to have you but doesn't want to leave his wife. This has nothing to do with his tribe. He knows you are so I much in love with to leave him thats why he has the guts to come around you. He expects you to understand the situation and be there anytime he needs you. Yes he used you but the real truth is that he also fell in love with you and is a very confused man now. What you should not fail to see is that the other woman was there before you and she is there to stay and for the fact that she's not aware of your baby should tell you he respects her much more .The truth is bitter but please swallow it. You may think you cannot start all over again cos u loved and trusted him so much for all this but please for the sakevof your happiness and dignity move on, concentrate on your baby. Chanel all your love to your child and forget him. Most of all pray to God/Allah to strengthen you.

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Thank you for your thoughts and yes I tell him he is very selfish and btw she knows about my daughter and me the first part was written two months ago on someone else's post so I decided to do an update and start my own post as everyone's situation is different. And I do believe I have to move on it will be very hard though I always wanted my children to be for one man and my grandmother taught me to never leave a man that I know for the unknown ( may her soul rest in peace) but I have to be strong and move on will be looking for a new house so he can not find us.

CAMEROONPRIDE: are u African?
Island? Hum from the Antilles?
Anyway since you don't mind living in polygamy enjoy .

I am from the islands

lostgirl85: What I still don't understand is if I helped him get the visa what else could he possibly want from me I'm so confused I am a student, I have no money for him, have never given him a penny, he provides for me What else could he possibly want?

Do you honestly need answer to this? Men likes to eat their cake and have it. He wants to have options of 2 women. It is obvious you never did him wrong and he also can't stand to see you with another man. If you can be his spare then go ahead. But if you were my sister I will advice otherwise.

May Allah be with you.

lostgirl85: .


Thank you for your thoughts and yes I tell him he is very selfish and btw she knows about my daughter and me the first part was written two months ago on someone else's post so I decided to do an update and start my own post as everyone's situation is different. And I do believe I have to move on it will be very hard though I always wanted my children to be for one man and my grandmother taught me to never leave a man that I know for the unknown ( may her soul rest in peace) but I have to be strong and move on will be looking for a new house so he can not find us.

Good.You might not know it now but you are so lucky you are not already married to him.That would have made the situation much more difficult. .Good luck to you.

Puvguy:

Do you honestly need answer to this? Men likes to eat their cake and have it. He wants to have options of 2 women. It is obvious you never did him wrong and he also can't stand to see you with another man. If you can be his spare then go ahead. But if you were my sister I will advice otherwise.

May Allah be with you.

Inshallah

aduaba:
Good.You might not know it now but you are so lucky you are not already married to him.That would have made the situation much more difficult. .Good luck to you.

Very true, and thank you again

CAMEROONPRIDE: please I'm not self hating, African girls are hustling in the streets taking 10euros-20eutos/customer when white girls work in escort agency where they earn big, and when they are in the streets not less than 30-50euros.

BTW African girls have inferiority complex ,they worship white men, so they are ready to Fck with them for less or even free, you know the myth of the white man.

yeah same with most african/black guys who worship white ladies. hmmm we africans got a lot ne sh.it to take care of.

lostgirl85: Thank you all for your feedback I'm gonna try once again to get rid of him, it's not easy if I say I want to break up he comes to my house like a mad man begging and pleading for me. He uses the child to get in the house. So I guess I will have to move and not let him know where we live.

lady,my advise is dat u shuld cut ur losses and leave d man.if he comes begging,cal d police 4 him.its his lykes dat give nigerian men a bad name

cyber_saurus: yeah same with most african/black guys who worship white ladies. hmmm we africans got a lot ne sh.it to take care of.

yeah, definitively

Am very sorry for all he put you through...try to move on.there is a thread here with honest career guys who love white women
https://www.nairaland.com/1315391/white-lady-love-black-menplease
check it out and find happiness.

Mrs..Chima:


This is an Edo player.....watch out OP.

Can I help you?

U called his wife a Naughty lady y? So u want him 2 leave his Child nd longtym Gf/ wife 4 u ehn!? Ur d Naughty lady here! D man has even told u d Truth nd ur still shooking ur head insyd! Mtcheeeew peery u asheowo Kobo Kobo!

lostgirl85:

Well that was rude. I am not from Africa and in my country a man would never mislead a woman so I wouldn't say dumb. Maybe naive and you sound like a lonely scornful individual to insult someone who is merely asking for help

Calling me names isn't gonna change the fact that you're too childish, brain blind to not knowing that you are an object to that man. Did you say in your country men don't mislead women? Honey what part of HEAVEN is that? The same UK that I was born in init? Oh maybe they renamed it 17yrs ago when I moved to the US.

How old are you again Mrs. Whitey?

Puvguy:

You don't mean to be disrespectful but went ahead and disrespected her. Like you know, women are wired emotionally. It could even happen to you in another form.

Meche ya mouth..

2buff:

Can I help you?

Bite me.

Mrs..Chima:


Bite me.

No. Go sit on your husband's dik and leave me alone.

distribute inc.:
Am very sorry for all he put you through...try to move on.there is a thread here with honest career guys who love white women
https://www.nairaland.com/1315391/white-lady-love-black-menplease
check it out and find happiness.

I'm not white very much black

fruityjojo: U called his wife a Naughty lady y? So u want him 2 leave his Child nd longtym Gf/ wife 4 u ehn!? Ur d Naughty lady here! D man has even told u d Truth nd ur still shooking ur head insyd! Mtcheeeew peery u asheowo Kobo Kobo!

I only speak English and I called her a female dog for telling him to abandon an innocent child but the people changed it

REALITY101:

Calling me names isn't gonna change the fact that you're too childish, brain blind to not knowing that you are an object to that man. Did you say in your country men don't mislead women? Honey what part of HEAVEN is that? The same UK that I was born in init? Oh maybe they renamed it 17yrs ago when I moved to the US.

How old are you again Mrs. Whitey?

I am black and I am not from the uk have only lived here for 2 and a half years and I am 27 he is 40