Tnx

Hi Letty, i honestly understand what u are going through, cos am going through the same thing but in another dimension. I dint think u need a marriage counselor o!
u need to get hold of yourself and sparkle up your life.cos these guys dint care a bit.
dint leave the marriage just use him as figure head .
let him notice some positive changes in you.
pls stop begging it makes them feel cool with themselves
u only live once so lets enjoy this life.
wish we could hang out one of these days and unwind

UUMMMH!!!!!!Tnx so much for the advice .but u wont believe how much have tried to bring back the relationship to how it was in the begining.There are alot of destraction on his side and he wont appreciate whatever i do or say
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I dont want to leave because of my children.
Am engaged in so many church activities just to be closer to God and to get direction, i dont want to fall into depression cos of a man.
It's betterimagined, and best still, to stay outside to cast a stone at me,but honestly i think the relationship has gotten to a point I need to change my method and sparkle up just a bit

Am married but my husband is pushing me to the wall .I need to go out there and enjoy life am tired of being used to decorate the house like a iece of furniture.How do i meet people and generally mingle?