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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:43pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
tessygirl: Thanks, Tessy. But you see, these gadgets keep me going. It is thanks to them that I gain access to information in this age. As I mentioned to someone, I use my smartphone in learning stuff online, applying for jobs, and staying up-to-date with information in a fast-paced world. My phone and laptop have helped me maintain this much sanity. I won't be able to learn so much without follow up study of my own even if I registered for some course at the expense of the devices. 4 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:37pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
blackpanda: OK. Thanks, again. This is quite a lot of help in one post. I studied economics. So I'm learning eviews and spss. My aim is to venture into data analysis or academic writing. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:34pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
pedrilo: I feel no sense of entitlement, sir. I have roamed the streets of Kano and Kaduna seeking teaching jobs and all sorts - all to no avail. I recognise that I have to start from somewhere. Thanks. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:30pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Negotiate: Lol. Make I dust am do wetin na? Care to share? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:28pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
ETEYEN79: Amen. Thank you, bro. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:26pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Josh44s: Haha. Make I drop my CV? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:23pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
joenor: Lol. But my temper try long small. I no dey quick vex. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:23pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
blackpanda: I'm not like that, sir. Thanks. I write and have been trying to learn some course-related skills online. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:21pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
bobolizim: I write, and am disposed to learning new things. Unfortunately, financial constraints won't let me acquire as much skills as I'd have liked. Thanks. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:19pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Pidgin2: Alright. Will consider that. I write every once in a while. But the jobs don't come too often. Guess, I'll have to broaden my horizon. Thanks. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:16pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Sleyanya1: Thanks for taking the time to drop this. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:14pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
L3G3ND: Don't be scared. Things could play out differently for you. I know many people who landed jobs upon completion of NYSC. I hope things turn out better for you. Good luck! 6 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:11pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: Thank you, Ada. At this point, I don't rule out anything at all. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:09pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
scofieldsimba: Lol. I get guys wey dey pull expensive cars even for naija here. These na people wey we been think say dem no sabi book before. Some even have houses of over 40m to their names. Life sha. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 5:05pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
dingbang: No, I am not. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 12:31pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / The Life Of An Unemployed Graduate by Aeker: 9:28am On Sep 27, 2017 |
Life as an unemployed graduate isn't always easy. Sometimes, things get so tough that you begin to wonder if you wronged the gods, somehow. Most times, your life can be summed up in one word: frustrating. Your ability to achieve a mental balance gets challenged each day. As soon as you get a moment to forget the struggles of life, that friend with whom it seemed like you had become partners in the labour market calls in to tell you how he's managed to secure a well-paying job. "Ahhh. So my own case is the handiwork of my village people, as feared?!" "But I thought my destiny and EMX's are tied together nah!" Then you remember, that other members of your clique like Emeka, Roland, Wale, Aliyu, Emike, and Daniella have all secured jobs since the turn of the year. Immediately, you look up to the sky (or ceiling in most cases; sometimes stepping outside the house may seem like a privilege) and question God in a Balotelli-esque fashion: "why always me?!" You begin to feel alienated by success. Emotions begin to pour. But regardless of your reaction, that's not an easy question to answer. Life gets you to suffer humiliation and hardships of being considered not good enough for any job at all. All the questions that went unanswered, the advances that were met with a stern, unwelcoming attitude at different offices... or is it the people debating issues of whether to turn you to an errand boy so you could earn some 200 bucks for recharge card or just leave you be (to suffer in silence). "Imagine! People wey no reach to even lace my shoes before." On the home front, some of your siblings' chores become your duty. Why? Because you are not much use in the house. For every meal you eat, every time you go to bed, each time you sit idly, parents want you tasked. Your value continues to drop on a per-second basis. It feels like nobody cares about you for anything. You grow anxious and frustrated with life. Your happiness is about to be taken away from you by unseen forces. "But this no be the plan we been plan from the start!" Soon after that thought, you see an advert on TV reminding you that life doesn't always go according to plan. Or is it the pastor in Church reminding you that everything in life is God's design? How then am I supposed to relate to God not wanting me to succeed? You begin to question your belief in God. "Is there even a god?!" But all of that is not you. It's frustration playing out. So many times, you feel like a lost soul in a human body. Trapped and without help. You're not sure when redemption will come, or if it will come at all. Carefully redesigning a CV that never gets more than a glance. Your life is no longer filled with fun an excitement. Grief, self-pity, and anger are gradually taking over. "What a sorry soul!" No money for business, no means to learn a skill or two, and no jobs to keep you busy. Life can't get any worse. But what can you do in all of these? You continue to reinvent, hoping that someday, your salvation will come. All that 2.1 from a reputable university doesn't feel so important anymore. Set all of that aside, believing that only grace can rescue you now. This is my life. I am Aeker. Things are HARD! Please help a broke soul. 177 Likes 25 Shares |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Got A Job Via Nairaland.com. Don't Give Up. by Aeker: 8:08am On Sep 27, 2017 |
puffpuff: I just might need a linkup, bro. |
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