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RomanceRe: Is It Appropriate To Help My Married Ex? by Africanwardrobe(m): 6:16pm On Apr 17
[quote author=Namaster post=139130842]You sound like someone who has LOST 2 things:

1. Your DIGNITY.
2. Your MIND.

The breakup was NOT amicable.
You did NOT go your separate ways because of irreconcilable differences.

She DUMPED you the moment she met ANOTHER man who was ready to marry her.
She DUMPED you without a second a thought.

She DUMPED you for ANOTHER man.

And for THREE years, she did NOT reach out to you.
But the moment she needs MONEY, she remembered the MOOOGOOO that used to FAWN over her.

This woman wants money from YOU that the man she LEFT you for CANNOT provide.

And instead of REVELING in the KARMIC nature of the situation, you are here MULLING the idea of actually GIVING her the money.

Absolute MADNESS!

[You dey stress dey reply d guy, u got time oo...ashawo dey him eye, e get wetin im dey find, na y]
FamilyRe: What My Talking Stage Friend Did To Me Yesterday? by Africanwardrobe(m): 11:42pm On Mar 08
Ruth15:
. Honestly,the worst argument to ever have is the one with a poor man. So lemme just leave you alone because it's very obvious you're in a romantic relationship with brokeness .
& u can't have multiple accounts that are fully or half funded which would have sorted u out, ni? Abi ur friends couldn't sort it out...5k shouldn't have made u type dz long epistle na...
FamilyRe: What My Talking Stage Friend Did To Me Yesterday? by Africanwardrobe(m): 11:35pm On Mar 08
Ruth15:
I'm simply surprised at how guys here are justifying the rubbish character their fellow man displayed instead of castigating him. Honestly,we African ladies are in problem especially those of us who aren't married yet.
Brotherhood is proud of him oo...very proud...Yoruba would say 'opor gon'
FamilyRe: What My Talking Stage Friend Did To Me Yesterday? by Africanwardrobe(m): 11:33pm On Mar 08
immortalcrown:
1.
Network or bank issues can never get rich women stranded.

2.
How does his refusal to pay your bill mean he is poor?

3.
The fact that two of your friends had to depend on the guy shows how poor you are.
My bro, I tire for d lady oo...make she just dey play...dem invite u go first date, u come with 3 people...hmm
HealthRe: The Scorpion That Almost Stung Me by Africanwardrobe(m): 4:34pm On Jan 20
Truly, it almost stang you oo ..

Stang abi na stanged or wetin
FamilyRe: I Need Help. by Africanwardrobe(m):
DiamondJude:
Truly I need to fix my faulty wiring. I'm truly the architect of the hell I'm currently living.
You have summarized your story so that you won't waste people's time abi...Firstly, pls don't listen to that guy yabbing you oo, sir...

However, now that you have realized & admitted your problem. You've even taken a step further to seek for help, I truly commend you for that, sir...

But a habit that you have taken considerable amount of time to build, isn't something you expect to break out from in one day...So you have to understand that it'll also take you time to recalibrate yourself, that means you need to stay resolute & committed throughout the journey... because your deliverance is a journey oo.

Are these irresponsible spending & unsafe sex habits common in your family background or it's peculiar to you alone...this is something you need to establish as well... what were the things that were happening first or what was the initial motive that brought out these traits into display.

What kind of company are you currently keeping now too, because you can either win or lose this fight depending on the network surrounding you. Prov 27:17 teaches us what true friends do: they challenge & refine & improve each other's character.

You may have intentionally neglected your first friend (or company) who is eagerly waiting for you to come back. Heb 4:15 describes Your Friend as a high priest who is able to empathize with your weaknesses, so you have to sincerely cry out to Him for help

Let me shock you a lil bit, sir. God already factored in all these weaknesses you have stated here, before He dropped you in your mother's womb...that's why Heb 4:15 says He is able to empathize with your issues. It's just that what has made the issue this serious now is you've either been trying to handle it yourself (as mature man wey u be) or you just didn't think it was significant.

Either ways, God still makes beautiful pottery out of broken vessels, no matter how dire the situation might look. So in Jer 29:11, He is telling you directly, 'For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future'.

So my 2 cents to you is that you have not yet developed a relationship with God through His son Jesus Christ, then your first step to solving this problem would be to intentionally & sincerely accept Jesus Christ into your heart.

If you have already done that, what you need to do is ask Him for help. You need to realize that by the strength of your arm, you can achieve nothing.

Here are some messages that can help you https://www.youtube.com/live/7hrT4q4bRD0?si=iXBAo6y2Bn_YmYfe


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVobe_Qz7Cw?si=qaZZnhZcO13USRIY

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSaewdcAa/
RomanceRe: The Silent Tests: Decoding A Woman's True Intentions by Africanwardrobe(m): 10:17pm On Nov 05, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Relationships come in all forms, but if you're looking to take things further, showing a bit care towards the other person is good.

If you've managed to reach a point where you're emotionally detached, that's impressive – but be aware of the long-term implications. She might move on to someone else because you've given her space and excuse, and that's not necessarily bad unless you start losing your cool over it.

Bottom line: if you can keep your composure when she cheats, you're golden. Emotional detachment has its perks in relationships, but if you're serious about commitment and taking on a patriarchal role, having some emotional investment helps – keeps you grounded and stops you from coming off as an irresponsible parent.

Just be sure to draw the line between ‘a little care’ and simping.
Is like u studied romantic relationship in school, kudos
RomanceRe: Stop Praying For Mariage,i'm 29,I Don't Pray For Marriage,i'm Not Desperate-lady by Africanwardrobe(m): 9:19pm On Nov 01, 2025
Samantha125:
Do I need to be a man to understand that couples need to have similar characteristics and interests in a relationship/marriage?🤔🤔🤔

I'm just curious to know what is it that you have in common with her, that's all.
Even if they explain to u till thy kingdom come, u no go still understand... just rest
RomanceRe: Man Abandoned By A Lady After His Palm Slippers Got Damaged During Their Date by Africanwardrobe(m): 9:06pm On Nov 01, 2025
Hullcity:
Dude got what he deserved. There is possibility he knew that th footwear was in bad shape and will likely disappoint yet went ahead to wear such on a date with a lady you are supposed to impress. First impression matters a lot. People should stop encouraging mediocrity under any guise. When Next he is going out on a date with a lady, he should package himself very well in order not to embarrass himself and others
Impress kini
Impress who has been impressed by like 20+ pipo... when e reach ur turn, u fit impress am
RomanceRe: Man Abandoned By A Lady After His Palm Slippers Got Damaged During Their Date by Africanwardrobe(m): 9:04pm On Nov 01, 2025
Jennyclay:
Broke man undecided

Look at the nonsense slippers he wore on a date

And again, Men should stop using okada to take a lady out on a date. It’s absurd. undecided

Will you die if you book bolt or uber to take a lady on a date? Biko answer me undecided
Getat...gerara here...awon feminist pipo...

Shey he shud do beyond his power abi...then she wud just do 'awwwnnn'... ladies are one epic set of confused entertainment seekers
RomanceRe: Messages Between My Girlfriend And I That Has Me Questioning My Long Held Belief by Africanwardrobe(m): 1:14am On Jun 12, 2025
Double0h7:
I think you should stand on your principle. She's trying to manipulate you into accepting violence from a woman under the guise that she is weaker and her hits won't hurt.

An abuser, male or female, start their violence small. It will be a slap here and there, pulling and tearing your clothes, and then one day it be an object to the back of the head, or a knife in your chest. Stop violence from the dot!
E be like her name na Palestina & him name be Israel... trust me, we go hear gist soon
EducationRe: If Them Separate You Like This, Wetin E Mean? by Africanwardrobe(m): 12:49am On Jun 12, 2025
bmasz:
Because they would have extracted your self-esteem by the time they are through with you
As in, e nor pass like dat oo

Seriously, Hamawa wan kill pipo pikin but God pass am
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Customer Care Representative Jobs Available by Africanwardrobe(m): 9:07pm On Jun 02, 2025
Instantjobs:
Customer Care Representative Jobs Available..
Job Title: Customer Service Representative

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Employment Type: Full-time

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Promote our logistics and real estate services to potential clients.
Onsite or remote
Build and maintain relationships with customers, ensuring satisfaction and repeat business.
Handle customer inquiries and complaints and provide timely solutions.
Develop and implement marketing strategies to attract new clients.
Follow up on leads and close deals efficiently.
Maintain accurate records of customer interactions and transactions.
Skills & Qualifications

Interested candidates should possess an HND / Bachelor's Degree
Proven experience inCustomer service.
Strong communication and negotiation skills.
Ability to work independently.
Familiarity with logistics and real estate industries is an advantage.
Tech-savvy and comfortable using social media for marketing.
Must be proactive, organized, and customer-oriented.
Strong social media savvy—comfortable engaging with clients on various online platforms.
Ability to build and maintain relationships with clients.
Organized, with keen attention to detail.
What We Offer

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Opportunity for growth and career advancement.
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PoliticsRe: It Was DSS That Arrested VDM Not EFCC by Africanwardrobe(m): 9:58am On May 07, 2025
Goodlady:
Yenyenyen like person wey drink excess alcohol.
Truth bitter like Paracetamol grin
PoliticsRe: It Was DSS That Arrested VDM Not EFCC by Africanwardrobe(m): 10:27pm On May 06, 2025
Goodlady:
Man should have killed the snake. Even after hearing what he did, he no fit fight for his woman. What a weakman like you.
What a very disobedient woman... infact "see finish" & "disobedience" is inherent in woman... "don't do this oo"... that is d very thing she goes ahead to do cuz she wants to see what will happen if she does😭... very weak & stupid character. Man had no business with d snake, man only had business with what d instruction was & who it came from.

Wilful disobedience na why pregnancy & childbirth don become 100units credit load for una...& woman is not d source of life, it is Almighty God.
PoliticsRe: It Was DSS That Arrested VDM Not EFCC by Africanwardrobe(m): 11:32am On May 06, 2025
Goodlady:
Why did the man leave the woman alone in Genesis?
Man was stronger and had 9 ribs.
As his job was to protect the woman & b following her like handbag abi

Man was stronger and had 9 ribs, so what?
PoliticsRe: It Was DSS That Arrested VDM Not EFCC by Africanwardrobe(m): 10:44pm On May 05, 2025
Goodlady:
That's the realistic thing. He has become a voice of the people but hasn't been calm with his approach. When you're fighting for justice holistically, evil will want to fight back. Your calmness will help you not step on too many toes. Nigerian youths should know this. You can't be a radical freedom fighter. You must abide under the ambit of the law. Sunday Igboro made this mistake under the past plesidemt.
As I talk truth now, some will come for me that I be olosho, I dey date politicians. But it's the reality.
Govt bad no mean say make citizens bad. Bad citizens makes bad govt. Good citizens make good govt. You can't give what you don't have.
If someone sees a man & a snake, d person should rescue d snake... but when d person sees a woman, d woman should be pitied...

Pls nairalanders remind me who d snake 🐍 met first in Genesis📖...my choice of whom to rescue or pity is in my heart

Just passing by grin kiss
RomanceRe: Girlfriend Turns Off Her Phone When With Me by Africanwardrobe(m): 11:10pm On Mar 26, 2025
It's like u re odiegwu paranran
Adebayo238:
I noticed a weird behavior whenever my girlfriend visits me to sleep over.

Once it’s around 9pm, she switches off her phone till dawn. I noticed and questioned her, she says it’s because she doesn’t want her madam at work place to disturb her with early morning errands b4 coming to work

Note. She arrives around 7pm, switches it off around 9pm, and we stay awake till even 2am before we sleep

Funny parthuh When shes at home, her phone is always on till dawn. I even called her now at 2am, and we talked

Seems like her madam only disturbs her with call only when she visits me to sleep over

Abegi, na respect or abi na rough play?
RomanceRe: Is My Girlfriend Now Into Hook Up by Africanwardrobe(m): 10:55pm On Mar 26, 2025
U no fit afford am na y
Y u dey bear bitcoinking sef...
Kings no dey beg...dey take, may be d real king is elsewhere
Bitcoinking1:
Recent I wanted to have S3x with my girlfriend but you told me I have to pay her first, I was very surprised because she never told me such but since she went for her HND and always come back every weekend, any time I demand for S3x, she always has different excuses to give me just to decline me s3x.
I'm now beginning to suspect if she is now into hookup at school.
Guys what do you think, is my girlfriend now into hookup?
EducationRe: Cordially Inviting All Nairlanders To My Convocation Ceremony by Africanwardrobe(m): 2:08am On Mar 16, 2025
Osheyy, awon patriot...dem dey use style advice u, u nor go hear word...but who are we, sef? Do as u like
Agbaka1997:
Certainly it's a great suggestion which I'm considering but the congruent question I always ask is if we all decide to "JAPA" who would build our crumbling educational system?
EducationRe: Cordially Inviting All Nairlanders To My Convocation Ceremony by Africanwardrobe(m): 2:05am On Mar 16, 2025
I go spend how much to coman eat rice,
Agbaka1997:
Enough jollof rice to go round.

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