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Thanks. Am makin the cardboard. I now know dat its really over.
He has been cheating on me for months and I guess my conscience got flat! Wasn't tit for tat but I now know! D man I cheated with wants a serious r/ship.

Hey everyone, by now ur saying am stupid! Well, I believe there's nothin hidden under the sun. I love my man, and we have dated for 7 months. I have never cheated until my friend hooked me up with someone. I cheated on him and due to guilt I confessed. My friends told me not to say but I couldn't look him in the face and lie about this. Now we just spoke and he wants out. I regret telling him. Help. How do I convince him that it won't happen again?

E go better na poor man prayer

Love is a beautiful thing, but I think it shouldn't cloud your judgement.
We have all been played for a fool at least once in life. Especially depending on how emotional, desperate or naive we are. A few questions you should ask yourself;
Did you meet his family?
Is he really Nigerian?
Could he be using you to better his life?
What do I want from this marriage?
What does he want from it?

What's wrong with some fine guys, who got money swag looks & "---" but the english is lacking.
eg;
I have nothing doing!!!

well my dears,
for now, my body belongs to ME!(terms and conditions apply!)
When I get married, NONE will pertake of his "chocolate"

In reality most sensible ladies date inorder to get married. So then, starve the boyfriend till he pops the question
the guys should tell us.

Oh guys, its soooo sad that CM was arrested.
So now, am gonna take a break from all this love stuff.
Perhaps gym alot to take off the stress.
wonder why?

I know it sucks but now I need a solution not Judgement.
and I have not done this kind thing before, thats why am confused. before you get to calmness, there's a storm. this is my storm. if you haven't met yours, wait but brace yourself. [/b]

@ Ohiemi,
what's the way forward, this same thing don happen to you
you were frank before? sorry o.

@ melvin02

plz can somebody tell me wht 2 do, I lov her so much and so i believe she do lov me but d problem is that she always lie 2 me,recently she told me she is traveling 2 benin only for me 2 find out through her friends she is somewhere else in lagos,i'm tired of her lies

what's this?
this is the number one cause of break ups.
gossip. If you saw her, its ok. but her friends told you. first of all her friends are bitches, they aren't friends.
secondly ask her if its true.
trust is paramount. you're in a relationship, two of you. not five not four not three.
Always listen to your boo not some random so called friends!

@ Inked, thanks.
You can't imagine how much this thing has bothered me. Now its better everything comes out. If after all, I stay with him, then he's mine. But what I know for sure, is that I love this man and If we are meant to be, nothing 's gonna stop us.
not Frank and not haters.
Coz I realized that even among the people we associate with daily, there are haters, so just stick to the good people. positive energy is what I need!
@ justlook, you need to watch this again
http://www.zedclips.com/videos/340/super-story-2

Yesterday Frank saw us. We were out.

You should have seen his face

But that's not enough.

Tomorrow at CM's its all going down!
Thank's to my cousin, who's gonna let Frank in on everything.

@ Aguiyi
you're hilarious!
sure you want your story up here?

@ ANDROMIDA
Thanks I think telling is the answer.
@ All,
Check this out. Another forum, me and my gals posted at yielded this solution.
" Hey girl, when you're about to leave CM's place, let Frank find you, and then let CM explain"
Then you will know you're fate sooner than later. If it is over, then its over.
watch'all think.
I realise that some people work on the assumption, that this was prior discussed by CM and Frank.
Now I need answers based on the fact that they did not.

@ Just Look
you guys must be saints over there.
For now, chic should wonder who's gonna "finish race"
life is interesting.
Anyway, thanks

Thanks Alagha. You're a diamond. Anyway to go about it?

Hey, what's with the hating here!!!
Just cut the chic some slack, and post advice.
If you ain't been played before, good for you!
Don't use the "cheap" word unless you know for sure.
coz I need to reply ASAP.

[b]I used to date this guy (call him Frank) and he played me for a fool!

He got another chic pregnant. He claimed it was a mistake, and he's just gonna take care of the child,

so we stopped seeing each other regularly and i couldn't go to his house, we only met when we were out. He kept suggesting hotels and i said NO! If you want me , then home is where we gonna be.

So we were fighting for ever about this.

Amidst this confusion, one evening he calls to tell me that  his Boss/ Bro/ Chairman ( call him CM ) has visited the country from the UK and I should help bring my cousin or friend to meet him. I called my slender pretty cousin and we went, to my surprise they never hit it off.

when CM went back , we met a few times, but it was arguing all the time. So he went silent until CM  came back.
He called and asked for a different friend for CM. This time I took my hot voluptuous friend along with me, Frank declined to go out with us so it was CM my friend and me in the club.

At the night's end, CM  decided that we should drop my cousin first, then on the way back, he made his move. I told him we will discuss later because it was late.
well, the next day, we met, and apparently he liked me from the word go,   

That's how me and CM started.

I was over and done with Frank's non-sense. When he finally called, I told him I am done with the games and I wish him and his family a good life.

So I kept on with CM. but there's a problem, Frank doesn't know yet, and CM is still waiting for the right moment to tell him. This moment is taking forever to appear.
When I go to visit CM, at times I have to leave so soon coz Frank is coming over. I'm fed up. I want Frank to know, what should I do?
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