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schumastic:
u did not even wait for December to reach self before you start giving out cash, father Xmas

Christmas started early this year because of Buhari.

amokeme:
lol, people like that have no shame, she is not going to regret anything. To her the OP was just "bad business" unto the next victim, that's all!

lol at bad business. Like you have friends like that?

MRBrownJ:
the little 3k that this babe "won" is a victory to any broke begging desperate babes (yes, however small the handout may be), and you should have gotten rid of her as soon as she asked for money, not after.
it is every man's duty to TEACH such babes to ACT RIGHT, and that such miserable way of life is unacceptable.

If she has got any self respects left she would still be mortified. I don't think that discharging her would have been more effective when it comes to teaching her to act right.

cazchukwu:
So.... who lost? She got free money. U should have never given her that money. When i got out to lunch or something with a girl for the first time, she always pays for her food. Second date means that we are both serious, so then i pay. U just met her and don alrwady dey spray cash. Mr ATM. Dash me moni abeg.

Insert your card naa. Your card is expired.

chiefojiji:
OP e be like say u be nice man oooooooooo. Howuufar naw? I broke small na! Me no dey buy pevfumu o. Jez money to take do some little thini. Make I send account number?

Mr nice guy abi?

DeeTus:
That's totally a misconception. Maybe she thought you're a wussy.

A woman that loves you will not behave like that. She was totally insane, so to speak.

You may be correct but then you really talk about love after a chance meeting. May be like..

Naughtysite:
You gave 3k to a roadside beggar, i believe your reward for heaven for better.

Someone you just met and you encouraged her with 3k to scam another broda another day. You no try. First day, no. If to say nah restaurant you go on a first date with her and spent 3k, its understandable.

Did she really scam me? I could have said no to her. Lol

Physics and Maths questions in a government paper? Did you party with Uduak's mifi?

CindyeMerAld:
u did the right thing o.p..... she will definitely regret her actions when she gets home....she has lost alot just for being selfish and stupid...

Hmmmm, What can I say.

HourGlass3:
Modath, nice to see you around. How are the kids doing?



What

You sef? You no dey fear big eye?
You wan disappear again?

nma24:
You guys come up with damning stories just to discredit the womenfolk.... Please change your mentality

You know my mother is a woman and I have sisters.
That you don't want the story to be true doesn't make it a lie. If you feel it is too bad to be true just know that's how bad it is and that is the reason i posted it here. Take heart OO nne. Inugo!

ros5:
. Lol. I pray o. Ndo nke gi.

lol ook naa

I saw the caption and I came here to laugh
I am laughing


Kai!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

steppin:
I give to people who are in need of help, not gold diggers.
From his story, the lady is clearly one.

What is the difference between someone who needs help and a gold digger?

otokx:
No light in Aluu.

Hmmm may be the gods are still angry with Aluu people because of those 4 boys

otokx:
Drama upon drama.

You get light for UniPort? E don tee.

These people jump before they look just like Buhari.

That has been his style since 1800

Abegi

ros5:
. Wen will I meet caring guys like OP. Lol.

It appears you have been behaving like the girl in the pic and you have been meeting hahn? Ndo!

hahn:
See ehn, girls must see you as mugu material for her to have done that on the first date.

Take my advice, get some fake notes and keep them in your car. Whenever you meet such a girl again, give her the notes and as soon as she goes into the shop, drive off.

We will both see her on nairaland frontpage the next day.

Trust me

lol
I have overgrown such kinda behaviour. What wil I gain? I will like I am smart? I know I am smart I don't need to humiliate her to feel smart. That will be getting down to her level.

Olalan:
Really don't understand what's happening to most girls now, meet a stranger and you start singing the being broke tune, you can't even differentiate BTW the ones that truly need it and those who want to take advantage of guys.

It is very pathetic, aswerigod

julioralph:
u've got good principles....

Bros na so oo

hahn:
Guy, you are a MUGU! Period.

You no even get swag sef

Thanks, anymore blessings from your stables?

steppin:
Op na Maga and GTB ATM machine. I dey craze to give person money like that.

Lol@maga

So you must always get something back from a girl you gave money or you cannot give unless there is something to get in return?

Sometimes, it is actually good to be a maga if you decide to be

david2:
Bros u go harsh o... Well he gave her d money to help her and I dont see anything bad dere. Tho she's a cheap gal for asking a guy for money on first date

I tell you.

Ahmed0336:
3k for dis bihari rigme? You for just dash begger the money for street

She is also a beggar

saintdennis:
Smh... Guy you're funny tho

You weren't as rude as you should have been!

You a calm dude. Girls like that deserve A1 disrespect!

Well, Sometimes, being rude would not return my wasted time or add anything to my value

HungerBAD:
You gave her 3k? Then left her?and your point for doing that exactly?

I am old school,so my advice is the old school sense kind.

First,never ever give a woman money the day you just met her no matter what, as you are laying a very bad precedence for the future between the two of you.

A woman that begs for money on the first day,is a professional begger,schemer,and honestly not somebody a responsible man should go near.

My last advice for you is this,and it has worked for me. After some few minutes of conversation with her,always ask her what she does for a living.

As a rule,I never go near female students,unemployed females and any female who cannot in anyway support themselves.

And even at that,the female have to be somewhat close to my level financially.

Beerbeer Bank(yansh bank) no be bank at ,and I no go deposit my money there. Beerbeer bank no get withdrawal card,only deposit machine.

Lol, How would you know a student and all that ish from a fitness arena? She had the classy outlook of someone independent. And you know it takes some independence for a lady to go out with a low cut. I always see such people as people who don't care about the crowd. You can imagine my disappointment when I saw her on a wig.

I gave her the money. There was no plan to see her again. So it was a way of telling her off but in a respectable way assuming she has the brain to understand that.

All the same I have helped a sister/beggar in need

nma24:
I find this your story hard to believe op

You actually don't have to believe it hun.

Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

Emyogalanya:
Am seriously tempted to ask this question cos since they came out of office almost all the principal actors of the last regime has been in one news, or another but this man who has the most charming smile has never benn in the news.
Is this man under the proverbial house arrest of shagari and ekwueme fame? For those who keep shouting gej/peg all over the place abeg what happened to this una illustrious and famed son. Am so sure he was part making the gej policies that u claimed destroyed the country.
From all that i know all former presidents and their vp have been castrated for their bad policies but not this one. Why is gej alone Ben ridiculed and sambo left out. Currently even Osinbajo is not spared. Oya arewa come out and tell us about ur favoured son.
NB: i followed the campaigns the man and his wife did little to convince their people especially the wife who kept telling them to vote whoever they wished not much conviction like they had nothing to lose

He played out the script given to him by arewa. Why will they touch him?

Yes, this is properly put. When they would have killed all the prophets and evangelists, who will be there to preach to them?

This is 2016 and not 1AD

modath:
Welldone , welldone, welldone.... , Howdy?

I'm on vacation with the youngins in the firage, adherence to schedule bawo ..laziness ti take over...

@ozycy,

Nor be only you waka come oooo... This 7kg left is a B word, just nor wan leave me make i be MILF..

P.S... Thought i responded earlier, apologies sis...

Yes, ayaf drag ha hia. Enjoy your vacation. I think the troubles will be enough to lose 3kg.

If you be MILF take mifi. Uduak get some.

ozycy:
So true. I weighed as much as 80kg but now battling with 75-76. I just hope I can get to 70kg. Hope am not dreaming o

Well done. It is about determination and consistency.