₦airaland Forum

Ezeego1:
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I do both, but I don't complain when I meet that kinda girl.

If she ask for money and u can afford it give it to her but if you can't afford just tell her NO.

Every demand must nt be about a gal taking advantage of you. Sometimes they need those things genuinely.

Which is the reason I gave and then got rid of her. Her approach was not the best.

Coldfeets:
You definitely have a point MrBrownJ

But the thing is, you have to understand that people are different and it is not everyone that will see things the way you see it

I don't know for sure, but I think Mr. agaba123 is a man who values his pride so much so to him, what the eff is three kay compared to saying good riddance to such a bad rubbish of a girl?

But agaba nnaa, biko, just take a moment and listen to MrBrownJ because he's right. Nothing on earth will make that girl to stop. Believe it or not, you might be thinking the girl will realize her mistakes but I'm telling you right now that there's every possibility the girl believes she was 100% right in collecting that money from you

O yes! She thinks it's her right. So many girls are like that. They always think it is their right to collect from guys and the guys should be okay with that.

But like you and I know, so many guys are not just OK with that

Which means it is now left for us guys to teach these girls how it should be

And you will be doing so many men out there and the entire MANosphere so much favor if you can be firm enough to tell any girl who tries to mugurize you NO at any given time

It's not a matter of you being a gentleman or smart or something. These girls really need to learn. They need and must be forced to learn that it's not and never their right to demand from guys. They must be forced to learn and accept that it is not right to be making unnecessary demands from guys.

They need to learn that they will earn more respect for themselves if they can learn to depend on themselves rather than on guys. They need to learn that they can actually add some other other values to a guy's life apart from puŝsy value. Simply put, they really need to learn how to start making their own money

I believe the girls who are like this are so because the guys allowed it in the first place

And like the Igbos say, arụ gbaa afọ, ọ bụrụ omenaala

So if we must put an end to this unholy exploitative behaviorial tendencies exhibited by so many girls once and for all, it must be a collective effort from all guys who are not just comfortable with the status quo

And agaba nwa nnaa, it begins with you

Yes Pastor. I get your drift.

Magicdon:
So you ask a girl out and she still has to pay for her food?

Nigga smh

i thought am d only one dat observed it oo. How will u invite a gal out and u expect her to pay for her food. Dis guy is funny

Outside this country, especially in the west, it is about the norm.

claremont:
In summary, this whole argument is about the $10/£8 the OP freely donated to a beggar.

You are wicked. lol
Less than $10/£8 to be honest..

lol @donated to a beggar

Florblu:
Are you sure this was all that happened? Audi alteram partem(Hear both sides)
On a lighter note,if the accused is on Nairaland let's hear your side of the story.

Babe, I can lie for Africa but in this case, everything written is true.

Empiree:
You did the right thing at the minimum. She would probably change for good if she gets sense by the way you treated her with respect. Don't mind people asking why you gave her money. By law of nature men nurture women. So what's the big deal

Now this is it. You understand where I am coming from.

Ezeego1:
That's how she gets her own money, if you are not comfortable with her attitude. Don't stop random girls again next time.

It is a random girl that becomes an acquaintance or do you only associate from close range?

Rexnegro:
at first You appeared to be a sharp guy but eventually You became a dumm*...how on earth did You fall for giving her 3k to buy her perf when You guys outing was strictly to go catch some swimming fun? Why did You even stop to shop sef? the idiot con dey ask for money again to buy bikini, chai smh for some girls...even if I get all The billions on earth such girlls who behave like they Are wise won't taste a dime from my billions #justbeingreal

Noted! We view the same object from different angles which makes us see the object differently. What's right to you may depend on the angle you are viewing from.

johnsonjosbles:
I tell you! T slap op dey hungry me sef, me wey wan buy 2mudu f rice go come give woman 3k just like dat? Op for even buy perfume for his car! The car for apreciate beter than that ashewo sef.

Abeg sir, tamper justice with mercy

tohpahz:
I like the op.. Some gals can fall hand ehh

Even Ex Miss NL knows she no be am...Ook naa

blueseacats:
The moment you handed her money she begins to think you atm, that's where they get it all wrong. Most of them with without brain don't even know that for you to hand her 3k you probably have multiples of that to spare ,and that by you giving her 3k is not a show of weakness but kindness.

It's really pathetic

MummyE:
I really like your action.u displayed discipline and maturity. Ladies nowadays can do anything just to extort money from men unknowingly to them that men has stepped up their game n become wiser.I pity my fellow ladies cos I am one.God help our generation.

Good good!!!

Fedayeen02:
i got scared looking at your face with the story you are spewing here.so you look like this and you ve been sitting on igbo matter since last week.



Nsogbu di na ebea

Igbo matter? What is that about? Tell me about it. Sorry about scaring you but you shouldn't have been staring at a mans face.

ourchoice:
Fortunately or unfortunately, majority of Nigerian girls and ladies (working class or student class) survive from begging guys directly and indirectly.

I read someone said he prefers dating working class ladies, I laugh in Greek hehe ....working class ladies are the most greedy insatiable ladies in Nigeria! Their own demanding is first class....flight ticket, MBA school fee, this and that, and some even demand for car, house if they notice that you have the money. Ladies of our time are really not encouraging at all!

I still wonder why Nigerian ladies labor to go to school, secure job and still end up begging and collecting money and material things from men yet they demand gender equality.

Some guys will think dating rich ladies like Linda Ikeji will save them from spending on ladies...hehe....Linda type don't demand naira, they demand for pounds and dollars and they can't even reply a hello from any guy who isn't popular or well-loaded financially, so they are all the same, sadly

Hmmmmm ook na

wittyt98:
hommie don't listen to these niggas ...u balled Kobe on the bîtch like a classic man ...I respect u for that ..cus I would do the same thing too

Na so bros

Maski87:
Yeye man you like toto but you no want spend money

If I wan buy toto, i for go red light or one brothel. I no wan buy..

macotrading72:
I almost got my self in trouble in one of my trips to naija, I was driving back from apapa that hot afternoon, around dopemu under bridge I was about to navigate towards egbeda then this lady requested for lift to egbeda then I parked and told her that I was going towards Shasha road then she said that's her route.
I allowed her into the car, half way through the journey she asked me why I wasn't talking to her I was like huh? She said bros you no like fat girls, I said I don't have problem with fat girls because in my family my kids sisters are all fat she then said that I didn't even ask her for her phone number or even her me, jeez this babes is beginning to get me irritated.
I asked her her name she told me, then I told her mine, we got close to ckc along Shasha road she asked me to enter one street and I did, we got to one face me I slap you building she told me to stop, the next thing she invited me into the house but this time I said no that I really need to run, she insisted that I come in just to know her room but still I refused she then said ok bros if you don't want to come in can I have some change, I had some spare change of about 2k in the car i gave it to her and she stepped out, I reverse the car and drove off.
I got home and called a friend of mine and explained to him what just happened, my friend told me that I should go to church for Thanksgiving that he knows the girl, that where I picked her from na her office, she is always there waiting for someone to pick her that if I had entered her room she would go into the bedroom, change to something sexy and then join me in the living room, few minutes later a man will walk in and claim that I was having something with his wife and demand for settlement and if I can't pay he will take possession of my car, phone etc pending when i bring the said amount and claim my things
Not to mention beating way I fit get.
People are so desperate these days so guys make una dey careful o, since then till now anytime I enter naija nothing go make me give a girl lift unless I know her one on one.
Like our brother just did, give her the requested amount and zooooommmmmm off without looking back, so its not like say our bros here na mugu because he gave her 3k he just paid her off for good and that's all she gets.

Bros na real wa. You got my drift.

doopsy:
I think inviting her to swim on a first date or meeting is way too intimate that's why she in her low mind set decided to make some cash out of it... which was wrong.. I remember going to swim and as I came out in my swim suit... the guys inthe pool became so nice and were so eager to teach me... I had a good laugh as I stayed away from them.. i wouldn't go swimming on a first outing with a guy.

That is a way to look at it. However swimming is a good form of exercise. I still went swimming without her and i still would have gone if i didn't see her. It was not about touching body. She could have as well come and refuse to swim if she thought it was way intimate.
I actually wanted an opportunity for some discussion.

Ezeego1:
Broke ass niggas everywhere!

Common 3k you are complaining??

Stop going after beautiful girls if you don't have money. They don't maintain their beauty with saliva please.

Nonsense!

Rich man well done oo. I don't i complained about money but even i did it is my money. I was talking about a degrading attitude. Eze ogo daalu

CuteTj:
100 percent on point. I don't bother my head with females of those class you listed. They are a waste of my time and money.


Unless you are new in the business of scoping out women, you should at least 90 percent able to tell a girl's employment/unemployment status.

For your info,Students of nowadays now dress classier (because of a lot of idle time on their hands) than working class babe (who have less idle time to engage in makeup and the likes).

Let me give you a tip, whenever a new girl enters your space especially in a place where their is a high probability of meeting her again (e.g gym, church, office, school), never approach them immediately without you taking out time to study her (and her body language)

It wasn't about dressing , it was about carriage.

Yseone:
...and if a guy had asked you for 1k, you would have prefered to buy him bear instead...i wish d girl had collected 30k from u.

You may be like that fine. It doesn't mean everyother guy is like you. Repent!

shamecurls:
You simply just paid your monthly tithe! #Simple #Charity



Would have beaten the hell out of that Kitty-kat in 2D, 3D and HDMI as if my breakthrough in life was bent on it.

Na tithe abi lol

niggi4life:
BRO, SOMETIMES ITS NOT ABOUT SEX, THE WAY A GIRL WILL BEG U FOR MONEY AT TIMES WILL MAKE YOUR PENIS TO FALL

Thanks

hahn:
It's all good but you shouldn't have given her the cash sha but I understand your position.

I fit see 50k for there?

Send your account number sharpish

poweredcom:
Hey my guy u don f...up u dash olosho money and u no bang her


U for wash her say u don lodge to relax after the swimmin dats gonna burst her brain girls like lodging

3k I fo don bang her taya before we swim the point is you for no give am money don't ever help a girl cos its just waste

Unless u ave banged her before u can help any girl

lol really? It is all about banging?

Fedayeen02:
don't use that word with your name plzzz

Ok put all of it close to your name alone bro if that will make you happy.

Arinze86:
Ur a fool...a very big one

Hmmmm, thanks for your effort but im not a fool sha

Swissheart:
She didn't scam you . You gave her simply because you wished to. She wasn't the smart one.

Abi oo. Hopefully she go get sense.

southernbelle:

with just your look, all these happened in your mind eh?

no be lie. It happens like that...

Sweetyie:
So Op u r that guy that left me right














































Lol, believe at ur own risk

You're a fare Amaka. She is dark and not an amaka so i won't believe you