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Literature › The Boy Who Carried A Lot by Agozskey(op): 10:27am On Jun 12

The Boy Who Became a Man Too Early

People often say a man is measured by how much responsibility he can carry. If that is true, then Chiagozie became a man long before he was ready.

When his father died, he was only seventeen. While other boys worried about school, football, and girls, he worried about food. Hunger became a familiar visitor in his life.

In the village, there was a forest filled with cashew trees. Every morning, Chiagozie and his younger brother would enter the forest carrying sacks. The cashews they gathered became the difference between eating and sleeping hungry. At an age when most teenagers depended on adults, he was helping to keep his family alive.

His mother had travelled to Lagos in search of a better life, but things did not go as planned. When she returned, there was little money and many problems. The burden fell on young shoulders.

Then hope arrived.

His aunt called and offered to help him register for JAMB. She sent money, and for the first time in a long while, Chiagozie felt his future opening before him. He moved briefly to his father's family house, where he was treated with kindness. He ate well. He slept without worrying about the next meal. For the first time, life seemed normal.

But the peace did not last.

Old family conflicts resurfaced. His mother, still carrying years of anger toward his father's relatives, decided they would leave. She took him and his brother far away to Nsukka and cut off contact with the family members who wanted to support them.

Chiagozie was young. He had no power to refuse.

Instead of going to school, he was sent to serve under an oga. It was not the life he wanted. He obeyed because he believed it was the right thing to do.

The little money he earned never stayed with him for long. His mother needed help. The family needed help. Sometimes a girlfriend needed help too. Before he knew it, he was carrying responsibilities that belonged to people much older than him.

Years passed.

Whenever money entered his hands, he shared it. Whenever there was work to do, he did it. Whenever the family needed support, he answered.

Yet life has a cruel way of testing people.

When his finances collapsed, the respect he once enjoyed seemed to disappear too. The same young man who had carried responsibilities for years suddenly found himself being called lazy, irresponsible, and "not man enough."

One afternoon, while pounding dry cassava so the family could eat, he thought about everything he had sacrificed. Nobody complained when he did the work. Nobody asked why others were not helping.

Another day, his mother called him outside to kill a cockroach. He refused because he was busy. What followed was not a simple argument. It became another reminder of how little his efforts seemed to matter.

The words cut deeper than hunger ever could.

"You don't know how to do things like a man."

He heard the sentence many times.

But what nobody seemed to ask was this:

Who was carrying responsibilities when he was seventeen?

Who entered forests searching for food?

Who gave up opportunities and dreams for the sake of family?

Who spent years putting others before himself?

As time went on, Chiagozie began to understand something important.

Being a man was not about killing cockroaches.

It was not about doing every chore in the house.

It was not about suffering silently while everyone else judged him.

Being a man meant standing up after life knocked him down. It meant rebuilding when everything seemed lost. It meant refusing to let bitterness define the rest of his life.

One day, he promised himself, the struggle would become a story.

Not a story about poverty.

Not a story about betrayal.

But a story about survival.

Because sometimes the strongest people are not the ones who never fall.

They are the ones who keep moving forward even after carrying burdens that should never have been theirs to carry.

Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 7:47pm On Jan 19

yemmit90:
I wont judge or take side until I hear her side of the story.

From your narratives, she might hate some things about your late father and his family but trust me, she has your interest at heart. A mother that could take up farming just for you to eat is not lazy but disciplinary woman. A woman who doesn't leave you guys and follow another man is not wicked but probably frustrated by the current situation you guys were in.

Under no circumstances or provocations you should've thrown away a soup your mum laboured so much to cook. This says alot about your antecedents, regards and behaviour at home or to your mother. That you use to feed her at some point doesn't mean anything, do you know much she has spent on you before you became an adult capable to work. Do you know how much of sleepless night she had gone through because of you? You even acknowledged you were managing with the business you set for her when you got broke, that means you also benefited from it before it folded up.

Go to the market, buy all the soup ingredients and kneel down to beg that woman for forgiveness. Her forgiveness matter a lot for your future because you has done what God frown at to your mother. A woman suffer in pain to find money to cook her soup, only for you to angrily poured it away? That is the most heartless thing a son can ever do to his parents.

You are a Manipulator

Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 2:20pm On Jan 19

gerizzim:
lalalasky and agozskey. Both moniker drop
this same story. this gist is fabricated

I'm the same person.... Thanks

Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 4:22pm On Jan 18

2mch:
From what I see you carry resentment for her refusing your father’s people help and that’s where all this came from. She may know your father’s people more than you. When you reach out to them you will find out that they are not perfect too. You are not too young to go back to school, get yours SSCE and work hard to sponsor yourself to school.

The good thing is you learnt how to sell, so you should find someone and sell for them to raise money. This time of your fight should be your opportunity to go into the world and make something of yourself. Only keep in touch with your brother so you can help him when you are more stable.

Trust me my dad's side are far better than my mom's side... My mom's side have not given me a pin or supported me in any way, rather they're the one milking me through my mom.... When my dad was still alive, he'll send money to us , my mom will carry the money and give her my uncle without considering us her kids.... Since my dad died they never helped on bit, at least my dad's side are offering to help not like they're perfect but they offered and and she blocked it... This same woman always curse my late dad... The story deep pass wetin I type

Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 10:22am On Jan 18

IFuckWell:
You no go school buh you sabi write near-perfect English.. your story no dey add up

Didn't u learn anything when u went to secondary school

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Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 8:14am On Jan 18

kodix:
Try and ask her for forgiveness so that she can revert her curse,do not allow her toxic behavior affect you anymore and don't discuss your decisions and progress with her bcs her unnecessary attitude might start affecting you again, then look for your father's people and apologize to them and start a new phase of life again, just find one room and pack out there,start hustling a fresh, later seek your father's people help if they can this is your starting and turning point.

I will never ask for forgiveness

Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 8:13am On Jan 18

Nice2023:
As a man,u need to go back to ur mum to ask her to forgive u.

The truth is,for the fact that u have allowed a woman who birth u to curse u...guy,no be moi moi,ur life can never balance.

U adamantly committed an abomination...a serious one. U chose to help ur mother when things were going on well for u and no-one forced u ,u chose to stay to instead of going away from her.

Most African parents are toxic and funny in ways u can't explain.

Go back to her,if possible repay her the cost of that pot of soup and ask her to take back her curses,next try and locate ur fathers people...look for ur fathers brother or elder one that is the most senior in ur fathers side.
Apologise to him and ask him to bless u...he is the symbol of ur father,the man who holds ur family mantle and thereafter,find a way and start a fresh from their and never u look back again.

Good luck to u and if u continue to stay in that house,ur mental health would be dealt with.

Curse?? You think I'm scared of her curse, why haven't she blessed.e or her blessings worked.... Go warm eba chop abeg

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Family › Re: My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 7:29am On Jan 18

Foodqueen:
Let this be a starting point for you.

Locate your father's people and ask them to help you.

I pray, they still have your interest at heart.

Else.........

She made me and my brother hate them, I don't even know where I'll start from reaching out to them

Family › My Mother Is The Worst by Agozskey(op): 11:55pm On Jan 17

This is long...
My father died in 2017, I was 17years old and from that point, my life changed completely. I became the one carrying the responsibility of this family far earlier than I should have.
When it was time for me to go to school, my late father’s family agreed to sponsor my education. Instead of supporting it, my mother blocked it completely. Because of the hatred she had for my father and his family, she rejected their help and continued to paint my father in a bad light even after his death. That decision alone altered the course of my life.
Instead of school, she pushed me into serving an oga and learning sales against my will. I stayed there for about two years, and it did not work out. When I came back, I was 20 years old, already behind my mates.
From there, I started working in factories, struggling to earn money and bring it home. I denied myself basic things I didn’t buy clothes, didn’t enjoy my youth everything went into the house. At some point, she even wanted to be holding my salary, controlling it completely.
Eventually, I found a place where I started making a reasonable amount of money. At the time, where we were living was terrible, so with the little progress I made, I paid rent for a room-and-parlour apartment, bought furniture, bought her a big bed, bought a TV, and tried to give the family a better standard of living.
I was 22 years old, doing all of this.
I told my mother I wanted to save money and set myself up properly so I wouldn’t depend on one source of income forever. Instead of support, she insisted that I must “settle her” first before thinking about my future.
When I told her I wanted to leave the house to seek greener pastures, she refused unless I gave her money. Eventually, I counted ₦300,000 and gave it to her to start a business.
Mind you, at this point:
I was handling feeding
rent
clothing
and most household expenses
My brother was contributing nothing, and I never complained or pressured anyone. I carried everything alone.
Later, I lost my job and entered a broke phase again. I was still managing to make money online without structure, and we survived partly on the business I opened for her. That business eventually crashed, and as usual, she took no accountability for it.
After that, she went fully into farming. I clearly told her I hate farming and begged her not to involve me in it. Despite that, she kept forcing me, threatening that if I didn’t help, I would not eat from the farm produce.
This hurt me deeply, because when I was the one providing, I never once threatened my family with hunger.
THE INCIDENT THAT LED TO EVERYTHING
Today, she was pounding fufu. I was not in the mood and clearly told her I didn’t want to pound. I said she should find another means and I would help in other ways but pounding was a firm no.
Her response was that I would not eat from the food.
I stepped out to hustle for money as usual and came back later to eat. When I got to the kitchen, my mother stopped me from eating. At that point, everything inside me snapped. I told her that if I would not eat, then nobody would eat.
In anger and frustration built over years, I carried the pot of soup and threw it away.
She immediately started laying curses on me calling me a cursed child, saying I would never make it in life despite the fact that I have carried her and this family since my father died.
After struggling over the pot, she ran outside, called neighbors, and threatened to have me arrested. She told everyone I was wicked and cursed. As usual, it was me against her and the world. The neighbors only saw an angry son, not the years of sacrifice behind it.
She openly said she no longer wants anything to do with me.
The painful irony is this:
I am broke today largely because she has always made decisions for my life, blocked opportunities, and drained what little progress I made. My brother, who obeys everything she says, is also suffering silently but cannot speak.
HOW I FEEL NOW
I am exhausted.
I feel used, manipulated, and painted as a villain.
I feel like the more I sacrifice, the more control is taken from me.
I am fed up.
I don’t feel like I have a mother in this situation I feel like I have an opponent.

Romance › Re: My Friend Beefed Me Because Of A Woman by Agozskey(op): 2:18pm On Nov 07, 2025

Ki11YurSev:
Shameless friends fighting over used car including you storyteller!!

U too mumu grin

Romance › My Friend Beefed Me Because Of A Woman by Agozskey(op): 10:50am On Nov 07, 2025

Quite long... So, there's this my friend (male) since 10years now, he's the jovial type and social as well, but right now the friendship is sour. Last year, when I broke up with my ex, he was the so happy about it that he banters me any given chance he gets. I didn't see any fault with it because he warned me before entering the relationship.
He introduced me to this girl(chi) from where he is serving so I got interested not because I wanted anything serious with the girl but my friend kept on Insisting dat I try her... So, I met the girl we got talking and she was a vibe ngl, my friend invited me to his place of service, I went and spent 2weeks there. Immediately I got to the town where he is serving he introduced me to the girl and we clicked almost immediately, this babe was so clingy and all dat, we got intimate, I was staying with my friend in his room while the babe has her own room with her roommate, so all of a sudden my guy hated this babe and started beefing her, I was surprised asking him what the problem was and he refused telling me.
One day, on a Wednesday he told me he'll be expecting a girl to spend the night with him so I'll have to excuse him and go and stay in Chi's room, which was kinda disrespectful to me for the fact I am a guest here, after telling the rest of our guys in our group, I was persuaded to stay over in Chi's room so dat my guy will spend the night with his own guest, I agreed but on the condition that the next day he'll have to excuse me as well so that Chi will spend the night with me, he agreed. So, I went to Chi's room to sleep which was awkward to me but anyways I had sex with her that night and unfortunately for my friend his guest didn't let him have his way with her, which was funny...
Now it was my turn to spend the night with Chi in his room, my guy refused after telling him I had sex with her, my friend swore on his life that he won't let Chi enter his room, Note; ( this was the girl he hyped and told me she was nice and good) still refused to tell me what his problem with the Chi is after I came. I was still in Ondo(my friend's state of service) 4days before my departure my friend stopped cooking with me, omo but I was still hanging out with the babe till my last day there, my friend refused to escort me to the park the morning I was going. On my way, my friend didn't call me once to know whether I am safe or not, he didn't. I got back to Lagos and still chat this girl as a friend, that day I went back to Lagos was the same day my friend too went back to Lagos.
In our circle of friends and our group, this guy kept on saying horrible things about this girl, the most horrible words mehn, I now asked him "If you knew she was horrible, why did you introduce me to her", still no answer🤷🏾‍♂️. Now, on Christmas Day, we were hanging out and on our way to the bar, we passed my ex's house and my friend intentionally went to my ex's gate and banged on her gate causing a nuisance, I immediately made it known to him that I didn't like what he did, instead of him acknowledging what he did was wrong and uncalled for he started telling me I did him wrong in Ondo state when I came visiting, I was amazed and cold wondering what wrong I did to him in Ondo state... We fell out that day, and the rest of our guys we're asking him what wrong I did, he still wasn't making any sense, he refused to apologize for what he did dat day till today. So, unlike him I was worried and I decided to do my diggings, I had a long talk with Chi and asked him if she had any thing with my friend that I am not aware of and she told me my friend made a move on her for sex and relationship and she turned him down but he wasn't specific about what he really wanted with the girl and I felt used and betrayed but I lock up, nothing spoil *I DON COLLECT MY THREE POINTS* .
I thought of everything and I realized what the problem was with him and the sudden hatred he grew for Chi... I was the problem. He had feelings for the girl and couldn't open up, he didn't even tell me his friends about the move he made on the girl, another question I asked myself was why did he invite me and linked me up with the girl in the first place, I've tried to make peace but he's gone cold with me because of this girl that I am not even dating because I told him I don't want a relationship with any girl, we've not spoken since December... I still talk with the girl actually no strings attached tho... Now, early this week the girl told me that my friend is now moving close to her again and acting all nice with her, he even asked her to come to his room and eat with him, saying he wants the friendship back with her like it was before I came into the picture or rather invited. Anyways, the friendship between me and my friend isn't like it was anymore and I don't really care again...

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Romance › Re: I Feel Sad Seeing My Friends Graduate And Go For NYSC While I Am Stuck Here by Agozskey(op): 3:12am On Jun 22, 2025

Nnamdipapa:
You have to first disconnect from your mom and family in order to succeed in life. They are destiny killers and your mom made the wrong decision which costed you four years you will never get back.

Next, you may not need university per se to succeed in life. All you need is a skill to solve real life problem and a business knowledge to effectively organize such a skill into a profitable business.

I learnt a business 2021 I was seeing some money but with the level of poverty we were in I had to step up and pressure from my mom as well, I started buying some properties for her and when I said I want to find my path because I feel I have done enough she said I must settle her before I leave, I gave her 300k...

From the day my dad died till today I have been the one catering for my family since the age of 17 and I am almost 25, all the money I make is on my family, feeding, clothing, rent, everything and right now I am stranded but I'll move soon, I have business I am doing but the much responsibilities is almost killing the business for me...

Lots of skilled tradesmen in Nigeria are stark illiterates with little to zero business knowledge so, it is more feasible to start from there.

You will have to forget about your friends as lots of them will be stuck at N50k per month jobs the next 15years after NYSC and be more miserable than you, just focus on yourself and what you want to achieve. Lots of people jump into university without asking the important question about the skill the education will add to their lives.

Look for a need around you like welding, tailoring and, go learn the skill to meet those needs for about a year, make sure you totally master the skill involved. After that, you may enroll for a diploma in business management in open university or online so as to fully grasp the business side of your skill.

Wish you best of luck and if you have any question, I will be glad to answer.

Romance › Re: I Feel Sad Seeing My Friends Graduate And Go For NYSC While I Am Stuck Here by Agozskey(op): 3:47pm On Jun 20, 2025

I appreciate everyone who contributed... I hate the family I came out from but it is what it is, once I have some available funds I'll leave the house to work on my growth, the responsibilities are too much... Thank you all

Romance › Re: I Feel Sad Seeing My Friends Graduate And Go For NYSC While I Am Stuck Here by Agozskey(op): 5:08pm On Jun 19, 2025

[quote author=heykims post=135809967]Your focus seems to be NYSC and not really University education...... You re wrong... I want to study international finance

Romance › Re: I Feel Sad Seeing My Friends Graduate And Go For NYSC While I Am Stuck Here by Agozskey(op): 5:06pm On Jun 19, 2025

Nemesis0147:
Inferiority complex
You are feeling bad because others are going for nysc
Nysc that most people skip these days to find their square root.

Maybe I don't see it that way... But I'll kill dat inferiority complex... Thank you boss

Romance › I Feel Sad Seeing My Friends Graduate And Go For NYSC While I Am Stuck Here by Agozskey(op): 2:10pm On Jun 19, 2025

I am a 24 years old guy into business...
So, I lost my dad at an early age when I was 17 about to enter the university but I couldn't anymore due to the death of my dad. That's when everything changed for the worst for me, I have only one brother and my mom, she's the emotional type so 2018 my aunty(dad's sister) told me to go and register for jamb which I did and I scored 256 then but the bad blood between my mom and dad's family made my mom cut all means of contact with my dad's family, instead she suggested i go and serve oga and learn a trade same 2018, so I moved from Enugu to Lagos around October 2018 to serve oga for 7years.
I really wanted to go to school but I couldn't make decisions because I didn't want to go against my mom, unfortunately after 2years of service I left the trade back home in d same Lagos, I couldn't continue because they wanted to extend my service to 8 years which I told my mom I won't serve anyone for 8years... I came back home broke to the bone, 2021 I had nothing, I did different jobs to survive because my mom isn't buoyant too and she's not really the hustling type, around August I stumbled upon a business, building materials around where I lived so I started doing sales boy for this woman from 2021, mind you we were dirt poor very poor as at that time, I was working for this woman without pay for the first 4 months but she gave me cash like 2k , 3k almost everyday which was huge for me then... B4 Christmas I linked up with my secondary school classmates and they were all in school, four of them they asked me due to shame I told them I am also in school, that was a lie but I didn't want them to know I didn't enter the university, and I kept this lie till now...
After 2years with this woman around 2024 I left her shop and started trading the building materials business on my own and I don't even have a shop, the little money I was making during my 2years stay working for this woman I spent everything on my family, feeding, clothing because we had little to no clothes, shelter( we were paying rent and our rent is 250k and all on me) my mom and bro contributed nothing, since 2021 I have been carrying my family 99% of everything in the house are on me, I feel angry sometimes because it is kinda stopping me from achieving what I want to achieve, I told my mom I'll have to leave dem and pursue my path because the responsibilities are suppressing me, we fought about it she said I will not leave until I settle her which I did, I gave her 300k which I saved up, I gave to her to start a business so she can help reduce the burden, she traded for few months and the money just vanished... Now, I am 24 and still doing my business which isn't too profitable and I am still shouldering the responsibilities in the house and my classmates are all doing their NYSC while I am stuck here...
They keep asking me when I'll go for service but they don't know I didn't even attend the university, I am so sad about how my life played out and I have no one to help me I am doing all these by myself still catering for my family, anytime I discuss with my mom she'll tell me God's time is the best but she was the number cause of all these, I am still with her because I don't even have the money to move away, and I really want to attend the university and go for NYSC I am 24 turning 25 this year and I feel it's too late to do that... I plan on writing jamb next year can I still make it to become a graduate and serve my country...

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Romance › Re: Nothing Stops A Man's Progress Like Sucking Vagina. Rich Men Don't Do It. by Agozskey(m): 8:32am On Feb 23, 2025

drmuri:
If people should have the opportunity of seeing vaginal discharge ( even from the cleanest of vaginas) under microscope 🔬, they won't attempt such idiocy

Same with the food we eat as well... Maybe we will stop eating as well

Romance › Re: My Friend Got Jealous by Agozskey(op): 6:34pm On Jan 30, 2025

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Ozu

Clean am well... I still dey see d catarrh

Romance › Re: My Friend Got Jealous by Agozskey(op): 4:31pm On Jan 30, 2025

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Your fada+ your for

Clean ur catarrh... U go dey alright wink

Romance › Re: My Friend Got Jealous by Agozskey(op): 3:06pm On Jan 30, 2025

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Uncle, please tell us another story

Uncle, I no force ur papa to read cheesy

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Romance › My Friend Got Jealous by Agozskey(op): 2:33pm On Jan 30, 2025

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Romance › Re: My Ex by Agozskey(op): 5:07pm On Nov 30, 2024

[quote author=Edojoma post=133105369][/quote]You go dey alright... You are really unhappy 😂😂😂😂... Bastard

Romance › Re: My Ex by Agozskey(op): 4:20pm On Nov 30, 2024

Edojoma:
U nor see as u stupid finish, bastard.....
Ubanka.... Empty skull kid from d gutter with stinky behaviour. I wonder how u can even keep a relationship with dis gutter behaviour n empty skull.

Seun suppose dey ban all dez brainless underage, u carry ur matter enter market, dem tell u d truth deducing it from ur writeup, instead of u to evaluate n process am, u just open it mouth waaaaa dey curse. Trenches LOVE

Ur mumu still dey smell... U bastardized saddist... If u are pained I am not the cause of ur predicament, and I didn't drop this story for dead brains like you😂... Ogun Kee u and ur mama for this stupid comment... Next time, you shut up if u don't have anything to say... No be ur papa get Nairaland... Dead human being... Walking dead dat has not experienced happiness for once in its miserable life because u are definitely a thing not a person... Bastard

Romance › Re: My Ex by Agozskey(op): 2:10pm On Nov 30, 2024

Edojoma:
"She used her mum's phone to call u". W clear say na small children relationship be dis. No wonder u r both behaving like kids...

Ur mumu still dey smell 👃... Idiot

Romance › Re: My Ex by Agozskey(op): 11:57am On Nov 30, 2024

Tallesty1:
You stopped viewing her status but still check who viewed yours just to see if she did? 😂😂😂 You're funny, bro.

Breakups hurt, especially if you were truly in love, but it's time to move on. The fact that she didn’t even care to ask why you ended things and started posting pictures with other guys says all I need to know.

Move on, bro.

One day, you’ll meet someone better. And when you look back at this relationship, you’ll probably want to slap yourself for being so naive. 😁

I am moving on but I always check who views my status even before I broke up with her, how is dat a yardstick... Nawa for una sha... Make I no look people wey view my status 😂... Okay...
I don't block my exes... My other exes I still have their contacts till today and they all view my status... So, knowing who views my status doesn't mean anything... For 2months I didn't notice it was recently I found out she's always d first to view, and she called me three times in which I didn't pick up, so how am not moving on huh

Read to understand pls

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Romance › Re: My Ex by Agozskey(op): 11:55am On Nov 30, 2024

kingbee90:
Oh Boy Rest! You have not moved on.

Read to understand next time... Thank you

Romance › My Ex by Agozskey(op): 4:20pm On Nov 29, 2024

I broke up with my ex 3months ago and it has not been easy for me emotionally, but I just had to break up with her because she was wrong in all aspects and I couldn't continue the relationship any longer... So after the break up, 3 days after we broke up she posted a guy on her status and she has been doing dat... She posts different boys and those stuff... So, 2weeks after the breakuo, I stopped viewing her status and decided to move on and distract myself and which is working for me, I decided to travel to osun state to meet a friend for like 2weeks to distract myself
.. But, me thinking dat my ex has moved on or she moved on faster that's what I thought... But, since we broke up she views my status everyday and she views dem like d speed of light... Immediately I make a post on WhatsApp, she's always the first to view it... She also used her mom's phone to call me 2weeks ago, she called me three times but I didn't pick up because I am already moving on...

Pls, what does it mean if my ex views my status immediately I post every single time...

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Romance › Re: My Sister Is Getting Married To A Married Man by Agozskey(op): 7:24pm On Jul 08, 2024

imagrg:
If she had married Ned would you have complained?

u are dull

Romance › Re: My Sister Is Getting Married To A Married Man by Agozskey(op): 7:23pm On Jul 08, 2024

papyjaypaul:
Where are the uncles and men in your house Is your father late The only thing I see is your younger bro. Who makes decisions in your family and where you come from I think you should start from there instead of Nairaland. Men know how to handle fellow men, that is why they are usually given objective decisions to make.

Our dad is late and my one of my uncles already agreed with it... But, my mom is still kicking against it

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Romance › My Sister Is Getting Married To A Married Man by Agozskey(op): 2:04pm On Jul 08, 2024

My people, I am.bothered about the decision my sister is taking... This is my twin sister she is 23years old... I am here in Lagos while she is schooling in Enugu... Now, she called our mom telling her dat she has found someone who wants to marry her, we were happy, I didn't have any problem with that... You know on a norms, I asked my sister about this man and what I heard didn't sit well with me at all... I am among those guys dat believe in a good healthy relationship dat grows with positivity I am against gold digging... But, unfortunately my blood sister is exhibiting gold digging.
The man in question she wants to marry is a man who is not fully separated from his wife and this man is in his 40s and has three kids already, but he is rich and that was what attracted my sister to him I know, but I am not in support... My mom as well is not in support, our younger bro is also not in support, but my sister has made up her mind🤦🏾‍♂️... She doesn't know what she is getting herself into...

Omo, naija girls sha

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Family › Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Agozskey(m): 12:19am On May 07, 2024

Double0h7:
My sister just enjoy the money and keep quiet. You knew exactly what to do and how to do it. There’s no need acting all innocent and helpless now. Invest that money and pull yourself out of poverty because your husband isn’t husbanding at all. When you need more money you know where to go. Case closed.

Your brain isn't braining at all... Foolish talk

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