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Ablyz:
[b][/b]he’s telling
me he spent all he’s money for
he’s birthday , that if money
cms he will send but right
now he has no money

naija babes and money dey be 5 and 6
ontop birthday matter

Man’ ego it could be that he does not hv money he only just used that as an excuse. You not suppose to break up with him sometimes men I see so when things get better for him he remembers that girl that stood by him when he did not have.

Abbeylanre15:
Hmmmm.... I will consider this

Be careful with the above advice because the woman might think u r part of those doing this act. It’s best u meet her and first plead with her to protect u, by not letting them know who reported them, that u had wanted to tell her for long but because of that act of hers that is why u hv bn afraid but that your conscience does not permit u to ignore such. It’s when u hv bn able to convince her, u will now show her evidences of what hs bn happening. D woman will entrust d company into your hands fully in d end.

In addition to d above advice, start praying for him so that his eyes be opened to know that these are family devourers that does not wish him well. If they don’t hv means of lively hood advice him to see how he can assist with a business as u continue praying for him. Also don’t always show it to him that those ppl want to devour him. Instead let him realize that by himself. He shld be in d picture of the land but don’t but it in his name oo... if he is going to feel bad buy it in your child’s name. God bless u

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donstan18:
Traditionally, a man is the chief sponsor of any wedding ceremony while the woman supports in a way she can. Reason, it's expected a man goes into marriage when financially stable and ready.

Allocating 50% to her passed a message that you'll be a type of husband who will be after the statistics of the wife's earning and spending. You sure wouldn't have done what you did if you hadn't any knowledge of her earning, you acted because you know her earning and that's a red flag for Nigerian ladies, because they don't like dragging and equal responsibilities in a home.

You don't go direct when you want a woman to contribute financially to something. You go Tactically[Not imposing, but asking how and where she can take care of, she'll choose, no matter the percentage of her choice, you lock up, keep the planning going, pretend like you are cool and then sketch out a personal plan of how to act worried and restless before her, she'll wanna know the problem, act like you wanna hide it from her, she'll be worried and pissed that you are hiding things from her, then you'll come up with a story and open up that you are facing financial crisis and don't know how to sort some things out concerning the wedding, she'll willingly help with pity without seeing you as a stingy or mean person]

No be everything dem dey form mancho, you go dey use your head.

You've spent on traditional wedding and for that not to be a total waste, kindly go and meet her, reason with her and go tactical, not directly with authority.

Happy married life in advance!

Well said it has to b tactical. But also study d woman u r marrying if she is d kind that is selfish, then she won’t b able to bail u out incase u hv any financial challenge.

What makes you feel the pregnancy is not yours. I hv seen a lot of ppl who impregnates a lady despite doctors report. So it’s wrong to conclude it’s not your child. Except you know her as a cheat since u r a liar.

Tyr this: avoid all chemicals, bathing soap or washing soap, use rubber gloves on ur hands. Then make coconut oil by urself and rob on ur palm as often as u can daily.i bliv it’s going to help.

Yahaya Bello

You too urinate on him one day and ask him if he loves you. That boy must be a yahoo or cult boy