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Religion / Re: Is Wearing Trousers(ladies) Really A Sin????? by Ajibam: 6:08pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
PrettyGaby:Is this what your pastor is teaching you? |
Religion / Re: I Will Die Very Soon. by Ajibam: 5:40pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
AlfaSeltzer: |
Religion / Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by Ajibam: 5:32pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
UjSizzle:http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_reassignment_surgery_(male-to-female) |
Religion / Re: Is Wearing Trousers(ladies) Really A Sin????? by Ajibam: 5:31pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Religion / Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by Ajibam: 5:08pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Mintayo:God knows and seun and the other mods know too.. Longest time, how's Jesus? |
Religion / Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by Ajibam: 4:58pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
UjSizzle:Was he threatened? |
Religion / Re: Favorite Atheists And Theists On Nairaland by Ajibam: 1:45pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
PastorAIO:Just say the word,the word giveth life! Revive all the dead patriarch, Revive all the dead alumni! |
Religion / Re: I Will Die Very Soon. by Ajibam: 9:48am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Rationalmind, when did you become a Muslim atheist! |
Religion / Re: I Will Die Very Soon. by Ajibam: 9:37am On Nov 03, 2014 |
rationalmind:Haa, after your fat salary or lemme call it allowance! Hope you are not teaching the student atheism? Funaab is there! |
Religion / Re: Favorite Atheists And Theists On Nairaland by Ajibam: 7:46am On Nov 03, 2014 |
andyallor: The section is dead already! Chilling in the valley of bone! |
Religion / Re: We The Anglican Student Movement We Rock by Ajibam: 7:44am On Nov 03, 2014 |
tpia6:Fellowship that does this are still much around, likes of cacsa and dlcf.. They are always modest! |
Religion / Re: What Can Stop You From Attending Church Service? by Ajibam: 7:41am On Nov 03, 2014 |
RAPTURE!!! Cause I would have gone with the Lord! |
Religion / Re: We The Anglican Student Movement We Rock by Ajibam: 3:26am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Kk.. So, what's next? |
Religion / Re: Proof Of Reincarnation Here by Ajibam: 3:24am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Buzugee-->Obadiah777--->sukkot MusKeeto-->Amanfrommars-->Muskeeto e.tc.. I can't remember other weed smokers like that... Logicboy was their master.. |
Religion / Re: Proof Of Reincarnation Here by Ajibam: 3:21am On Nov 03, 2014 |
benega: |
Religion / Re: Proof Of Reincarnation Here by Ajibam: 3:20am On Nov 03, 2014 |
Dlionsheart:He has been plagiarising since onset! |
Religion / Re: I Will Die Very Soon. by Ajibam: 12:43am On Nov 03, 2014 |
rationalmind:I even thought you are dead nii!! Welcome from the grave? How's nysc going? |
Religion / Re: A Woman And A Silversmith by Ajibam: 8:57pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
Checking through the achieves! Read and learn! |
Religion / Re: What Christians Ignore About Modesty by Ajibam: 8:00pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
AlfaSeltzer:What if I am a babe? What if am not? That's your problem.. Don't derail the thread! |
Religion / What Christians Ignore About Modesty by Ajibam: 7:47pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
This is long but it will surely help you and open your eyes to modesty in dressing.. So, think twice before reading.. Don't complain about the longetivity of the post.. Are you modest? Do you cause your brother or sister to stumble? When you leave the house do you present yourself in a godly way? Every single person reading just mentally jumped to clothing, without me having to mention appearance or apparel at all. There is a reason for it, too modesty, particularly female modesty, is one of the most bitter and public arguments in American Christian culture today—and it all revolves around our skirts and our hair. The exact percentage of acceptable skin shown has been ascertained, the lines marked out on thighs and shoulders above which nothing may be revealed and the materials of which jewelry might be made has been parsed out. As a young woman in the church, it seems the only sermon or study ever directed towards me specifically regards my power to make men sin.But what about my sin? Stumbling Blocks "Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister." (Rom. 14:13, NIV) There are dozens of pleas on the Internet, in magazines and from pulpits from straight men to the objects of their desire. They ask women to cover up their bodies so that they do not present a stumbling block for their brothers in Christ. This is a valid request. It is not right to go to a brother who struggles with lust and disrobe casually or flirt sexually. But these pleas go further: they ask that women should guard against prying eyes at all times, and they suggest the endlessly detailed standards with which we have all become familiar in the modern church. In this way, without ever thinking it of themselves, they put a stumbling block in front of their sisters in Christ. That is also not right. If the weight of my testimony as a child of God rests on my physical body, then I become an object of sin. In this context, in order to fully participate in the body of Christ, I must turn inward and focus on my physical self, creating a barrier between myself and worship. The focus shifts away from God and instead becomes vanity. It is not only a matter of feeling blamed, or being unwilling to alter my behavior to help others. It is a matter of needing my walk with Christ to be considered equal to that of the men at my church. Modest Is Hottest Do me a favor and reflect on last Sunday. Try to picture any of the young girls who attended your church. Hair plaited back, a skirt that goes to exactly mid-calf, a sterling silver cross around her neck, glittery ballet flats, plain and pinkish makeup. You can probably call up the image quickly; I can think of quite a few. Now try and recollect a young man from your parish. This image is likely a lot less clear and well-defined, but I imagine you thought of a couple of young men in pressed button-down shirts, then another couple of young men in T-shirts and shorts. Did one style of male dress resonate as "immodest"? Probably not. But what about "less appropriate for church"? Certainly, many Christians would agree that one style of male dress shows more respect for God and His presence, a willingness to exercise humility in presentation. This hits a lot closer to what the Bible is calling us to when it says "modesty." "But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart'" (1 Sam. 16:7, ESV). In our haste to avoid the temptations of lust and flee from sin, we Christians often do two things. In the first place, we remove the responsibility from the one committing the sin (and forget the lust that women in the church also feel—there are plenty of immodestly dressed men in attendance any given Sunday). In the second place, we neglect the other aspects of modesty: the modesty of spirit, the modesty of faith, the modesty of giving, the modesty of prayer. We cater our outward appearances to be modest, but that is not solely what the Lord is looking at, and it is not the metric by which the Lord will judge. Clothe Yourself in Grace "Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.' Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you" (1 Pet. 5:5-6, ESV).. In my research for this column, I was able to find many resources for modest fashion, including common guidelines and arguments about stumbling blocks. But I wasn't able to find anything on modesty of the spirit. However, when I searched for the individual tenants of modesty—humility, graciousness, meekness, a quiet spirit—I found a wealth of writing and apologetics and speculation. The problem isn't that we are unfamiliar with these points. It is that we have shifted focus away from them, severing their ties to modesty and therefore how much time is spent on them at the pulpit. In 1 Peter 3 we are instructed (like in many other places in the Bible) to not allow our adornment to be outward, in jewelry and braided hair and scandalous dress. But this statement is followed in the same breath with another: "[Adornment shall not be outward] ... But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit ..." (KJV). It mirrors perhaps the most beautiful description of what a righteous human spirit can be: the Beatitudes, where we are told exactly what godly modesty entails. Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. (Matt. 5:3-10, NIV) In reading that our unclothedness is shameful and our pride is sin, many of us stop there and move no further. We seek only to cover or root out the wrongful adornments and do not seek to find the adornments that are beautiful before God. In doing so, we miss the beauty of sanctification. We are sinners, but we are also God's children, and there exists in us every capacity to be meek and quiet and peaceable, hungering and thirsting for righteousness. A modest spirit is one of reliance on God in our struggles and pains, and that is what I'd like to see men and women of God crying out for in one another. http://www.charismamag.com/life/women/21666-what-christians-ignore-about-modesty 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Why Pastor Adeboye Should Hand-Over Now by Ajibam: 3:28pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
Apostle ayodele babalola wasn't the general overseer, he was simply an evangelist till his death.. His death was not the cause of cac crises! And for your information, cac has no general overseer.. Get your fact right! 4 Likes |
Religion / Re: First Sunday Of The Month:how Many Times Have You Opened Your Bible This Year? by Ajibam: 6:57am On Nov 02, 2014 |
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Religion / Re: Bible Quiz, How Well Do U Know The Bible? by Ajibam: 10:25pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Religion / Re: Islam Says Its For Peace This is What They Said And Did In 1989 by Ajibam: 9:11pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
tartar9:Lol,, who told you am a Catholic? Jihadist! |
Religion / Re: Why Can't I Stop This Evil? by Ajibam: 4:19pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Pray and fast for the flesh to be conquered, then stop doing things that can lead to self servicing like pornography, and sexual acts... That's all |
Religion / Re: Your Problem Is Solved by Ajibam: 4:00pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Herbalist Tags: AlfaSeltzer Please help my dying friend
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Religion / Re: Terror In Jerusalem: 3 Month-old Girl Dead, Seven People Injured by Ajibam: 3:19pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
SalC:Okay. |
Religion / Re: Gays & Lesbians Are Sinners And They Will Go To Hell If... by Ajibam: 3:14pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Macelliot:They know the reason naw |
Islam for Muslims / You Can't Reform Islam Without Reforming Muslims by Ajibam: 3:13pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Every few years the debate over reforming Islam bubbles up from the depths of a culture that largely censors any suggestion that Islam needs reforming. But Islam does not exist apart from Muslims. It is not an abstract entity that can be changed without changing its followers. And if Islam has not changed, that is because Muslims do not want it to. Mohammed and key figures in Islam provided a template, but that template would not endure if it did not fit the worldview of its worshipers. Western religions underwent a process of secularization to align with what many saw as modernity leading to a split between traditionalists and secularists. The proponents of modernizing Islam assume that it didn't make the jump because of Saudi money, fundamentalist violence and regional backwardness. These allegations are true, but also incomplete. If modernizing Islam really appealed to Muslims, it would have taken off, at least in the West, despite Saudi money and Muslim Brotherhood front groups. These elements might have slowed things down, but a political or religious idea that is genuinely compelling is like a rock rolling down a hill. It's enormously difficult to stop. Muslim modernization in the West has been covertly undermined by the Saudis and the Muslim Brotherhood, but for the most part it has not been violently suppressed. It suffers above all else from a lack of Muslim interest. Muslims don't spend much time fuming over a progressive mosque that allows gay members or lets women lead prayers. Such places occasionally exist and remain obscure. They don't have to be forcibly shut down because they never actually take off. The occasional death threat and arson might take place and the average ISIS recruit would happily slaughter everyone inside, but even he has bigger fish to fry. The best evidence that Muslim modernization has failed is that even the angriest Muslims don't take it very seriously as a threat. The sorts of people who believe that Saddam Hussein was a CIA agent or that Israel is using eagles as spies have trouble believing modernizing Islam will ever be much of a problem. They know instinctively that it will never work. Instead Muslims are far more threatened by a cartoon mocking their prophet for reasons that go to the heart of what is wrong with their religion. Islam is not an idea. It is a tribe. Talking about reforming the words of Islam is an abstraction. Islam did not begin with a book. It began with clan and sword. Even in the modern skyscraper cities of the West, it remains a religion of the clan and the sword. The left has misread Islamic terrorism as a response to oppression when it is actually a power base. It is not the poor and downtrodden who are most attracted to the Jihad. Instead it is the upper classes. Bin Laden wasn't a pauper and neither are the Saudis or Qataris. Islamic terrorism isn't a game for the poor. It becomes the thing to do when you're rich enough to envy the neighbors. It's a tribal war. To reform Islam, we can't just look at what is wrong with the Koran or the Hadiths. We have to ask why these tribal calls for violence and genocide, for oppression and enslavement, appealed to Muslims then and why they continue to appeal to Muslims today. The modernizers assume that Western Muslims would welcome a reformation of Islam. They are half right. The reformation that they are welcoming is that of the Wahhabis trying to return it to what it was. It's hard to deny that ISIS touches something deep within Muslims. The gay-friendly mosques don't. Understanding Islam only in terms of the Koran makes it seem as if Muslims are unwillingly trapped by a tyranny of the text, when the text is actually their means of trapping others into affirming their identity. There is no reforming Islam without reforming Muslims. The reformers assume that most Muslims are ignorant of their own beliefs, but even the most illiterate Muslim in a village without running water has a good grasp of the big overall ideas. He may hardly be able to quote a Koranic verse without stumbling over it, he may have added local customs into the mix, but he identifies with it on a visceral level. Its honor is his honor. Its future is the future of his family. Its members are his kinfolk. Like him, it ought to have been on top; instead it's on the bottom. Its grievances are his grievances. The rest is just details. The progressive diverse mosque is the opposite of this tribal mentality. It is the opposite of Islam. Its destruction of the tribe is also the destruction of the individual. The Western Muslim who already has only a shaky connection to the culture of his ancestral country is not about to trade Islamic tribalism for anonymous diversity. Islam tells him he is superior. The progressive mosque tells him nothing. Whether he is a Bangladeshi peasant watching soccer matches on the village television or a Bangladeshi doctor in London, it is the violent, racist and misogynistic parts of Islam that provide him with a sense of worth in a big confusing world. That is how Islam was born. Islam began in uncertain times as empires were tottering and the old ways were being displaced by strange religions such as Judaism and Christianity, when its originators mashed bits of them together and then founded their own crazy wobbly murderous empire built around a badly plagiarized religion. It was horrible and terrible for everyone who wasn't a Muslim man, but it worked. Islam is less of a faith and more of a set of honor and shame responses. It's a cycle of oppression and victimhood. It's the assertion of identity by people who see themselves as inferior and are determined to push back by making themselves superior. The responses are familiar. We saw it in Nazi Germany as the defeated nation became a master race by killing and enslaving everyone else. But it's not those at the bottom most driven by such dreams. It's the desert billionaires who have money, but no culture. It's the Western Muslim doctor who still feels inferior despite his wealth. It's a merchant named Mohammed with a lot of grudges who claims an angel told him to kill all his enemies in Allah's name. It's Islam. And it's Muslims. The things that we believe, bad or good, reflect the bad or good inside us. When Muslims support killing people, it's simplistic to assume that they are robotically following a text and will follow any other text slipped in front of their faces, instead of their passions and values. Religions may make people kill, but it starts when people make religions kill. The good devout Muslim may kill because the Koran tells him to, but he would not do so if the Koran's justifications of violence did not speak to him on a deeper level. The Nazis were following orders, but they wouldn't have followed them if Nazism didn't connect with their fears, hopes and dreams. The text is only half the problem. The other half is in the human heart. Reforming Islam is not a matter of crossing out certain words and adding others. Religions carry a powerful set of values that appeal to people on a deep level. To change Islam, we would have to understand why its ugliness still speaks to Muslims. To change it, we have to change them. When we talk about reforming Islam, what we are really talking about is reforming Muslims. www.raptureforums.com/FeaturedCommentary/youcantreformislamwithoutreformingmuslims.cfm?utm_source=ExpressPigeon&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Rapture+Forums+Newsletter+10%2F25%2F2014 |
Religion / Re: An Ex- Muslim Nairalander Talks About Why She Now Calls Jesus Lord, And Master by Ajibam: 2:54pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Macelliot:Yes bro.. |
Religion / Re: I Will Die Very Soon. by Ajibam: 12:53pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
sukkot:Okay.. 1 Like |
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