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You already identified the problem therefore, the solution is within your reach.

My humble advice is ask her what has come over her, remind her of her behaviour prior to the child birth, ask her what she wants, if she's able to tell you what is wrong and it's what you can resolve then solve it.

In a case where she remain a pain bro leave her but make arrangements for who has custody of your child, if you're gonna be seeing her weekends or some days in the week also set aside money for her upkeep and also keep in bank savings for her future use

I'm a father of 1 and I do not pray another man raise my child or become a part time dad but in your case you need to be alive, focus and keep your finances up in other to take care of her...

Note: woman change during and or after pregnancy but not to the point of becoming a pain in your life. My fiancee changed too and I went through hell, she chased away all my female friends till date I don't speak to my female friends or colleagues at work cause she called them all and warned them to keep away from me

You need to know if she's feeling insecure or inferior about her body changes then step in and assure her how you feel about her from start of the relationship...

God bless.

God purnish you all behind this scale ticket. I fell victim of your latest scam trust me as truly as God lives this year you all will not be alive to see the end of this year, you all will know no peace, no joy for you and family , from now on you'll be jumping from 1 big problem to another till your miserable life ends. Fucking lowlife scumbags y'all shall die horrible deaths soon we're many who are gathering to rain curses on you all watch out for your misfortune.

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They already reconstruct his fucking face

It's very simple; devide the country in to geopolitical regions by then north rules on north the rest of us wants to be developed and progress but north is gulping our resources thereby dragging us back into lawness and poverty .



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i wonder what is fascinating in sucking your fellow woman`s vagina after bleeding ewwwwwwwwe

i thought the law is 14 years imprisonment for people in this category

i really don`t know if i should laugh or just advice her but to be proud of trampling on your little dignity for less than £40 is jaw dropping and she`s so happy saying it lol when 100k?your parent must be crying where ever they`re

i`ll say never go through a woman`s phone if you`re not strong hearted but now that you have found out whats` up with her pls for the sake of your child work it out amicably and not involve police in arresting her colleague it`ll be childish of you sir but if you can`t live with the heart ache she has already caused ask her if she still want you or him then take it up from there and the fact you have`nt caught them in the act of adultery you cant divorce her with biblical backing i don`t know about islam if you can still divorce her and remain a faithful follower of islam.....

i personally will never be free with such woman so it`s best i let go of her i`ll do my best to look out for my child if i have with her.

you`re very professional and a good adviser pls keep it up and God bless you.

mankettle:
@ Op.
1. keep the evidence.
2. don't tell the wife.
3. Since you have proof that your wife is committing adultery,, a. if you can tolerate her, don't divorce her if not get a divorce. get a lawyer to advise you.
4. if getting a divorce you can sue the colleague as the named party. if you are lucky, the Judge may award damages to you.
5. on no account must you arrest him as the offence he committed is purely civil and not criminal? except you stay up north.
6. do not allow the wife to loose her job as it will affect your finances.

you`re very professional and a good adviser pls keep it up and god bless you.

mankettle:
@ Op.
1. keep the evidence.
2. don't tell the wife.
3. Since you have proof that your wife is committing adultery,, a. if you can tolerate her, don't divorce her if not get a divorce. get a lawyer to advise you.
4. if getting a divorce you can sue the colleague as the named party. if you are lucky, the Judge may award damages to you.
5. on no account must you arrest him as the offence he committed is purely civil and not criminal? except you stay up north.
6. do not allow the wife to loose her job as it will affect your finances.

really a lot of nigerians are sick in the head mere reading comments here alone one can tell that nigerians are born to suffer and smile at their punishers in power.... pls how much is 100k that is impossible as minimum wage? the amount of money budget for election alone can feed the entire nation not to mention the bogus amount of money these politicians are earning for doing nothing other to go on holiday and talk shit...... lot of people here dont know how much money is generated weekly in nigeria not to mention monthly and lot of people here are lazy to see things for them selves but are quick to insult someone who has come to liberate them pls continue wallowing in your poverty striking lives. showore has a legitimate means of lively hood check him out and see how far he has gone with fighting the right of people and he deserve to rule nigeria god help him

some of us out side nigeria who has seen real life and how human beings be treated and live can tell you showore is real and will fulfill his promises soon as he assume that seat......

i make 100k equivalent in 3 days without stress so pls people support who wants to help liberate you.