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For some reason a man in business like attire is a total turn on.

And yes NO SAGGING

Girl. Like duh! You are a booty call.

I think you know what to do so do it, what advice are you looking for? OR are you just trying to vent?

Sweetie, just  forget about him. Yes you are going through a "teenage" phase, its normal. But you will regret giving yourself up to him. I can almost guarantee you that he will get it then brag to all his friends and dump you. That sounds like the type of guy he is. Many girls make this mistake time and time again. Your hormones are raging and to be honest they are doing all the thinking for you. I can almost giggle now, because I remember being that way too when I was 14 and 15 years old. You are going from being a child to an adult. Its a tough time, I understand. Hals hormones are crazy too, he doesn't know what he wants. All he is thinking about is girls, girls girls. Hes not thinking about a relationship, I mean, how could he at 14 or 15? Just take it easy. Let him go, find yourself, find out what it is that you want. Focus on what is most important. Your studies. Honey, believe me you will be laughing at this 5 years from now. So just take it easy, let him go, and concentrate on having fun this summer. Not about boys, they will only get you introuble at this age. Trust me.

Michelin89, you said it all. I am looking at the posters write up and his English is pretty bad. And you see he has the nerve to talk about someone else's bad English.

Its not easy but it is very doable. It takes most of all patience and trust. But you also need to keep in mind, how long you all plan on being apart. You all need to reach a compromise about when (somewhere in the near future) you all will meet. Because holding a relationship on without plans to meet soon can become draning. Not to mention, both parties would get tired of it much sooner than later. You all need to make plans, not only to meet but to know where your relationship is going and figure out who will move where and when.

Good luck, its hard yes, but its doable.

Exactly. She doesn't know what the hell she is talking about. She can still get pregnant. What is she smoking? still wear your condom.

I don't know about lagos, or anywhere. But if she's in America, he wouldn't have gotten away with that. Thats bullshit.

Thats no excuse. He violated someones human right. You don't do that to anyone. He is completely wrong and she should press charges.

Huh??

People like who blims?

I dont mind a virgin guy, I think of people being more than just a virginity status.

Well it might have not been your baby.

If you all promised one another marriage, why all the abortions? Use protection if you dont want kids.

Gaby the dudes on ur profile,

poster, yeah it happens at times, and i just feel a little uncomfortable, because he sounds too sure, I let him fantasize about it but i hardly chime in.

yeah, what she said

Yes, why not? relationships are not all about sex.