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Did you seriously post this?

But for real, you need to value yourself a little more than that. Do not let him make decisions for you. Become a woman and take charge of your life. This man is useless, and here you are letting him use you. Have more self esteem honey. everyone gets their hearts broken, you just have to dust yourself off and try again. NEVER GO AFTER A MARRIED MAN, that is stupid. And those dumb ass friends of yours, dump them.

Dreswa20 or whatever, you are a stupid ass bitch, you really are. And if you call his wife, it aint him you gotta worry about killing you.

very funny. Wise kids!

It takes commitment on both parts
Love and Understanding
Trust
Financial Stability
Sacrifice
Time and patience
You have to marry for the right reasons.
Age doesn't matter.
and many more i cannot think of at the moment,

A good lawyer.

Do not EVER marry anyone, if your gut instinct is telling you not to. I don't believe he is serious, I mean look at the way he is acting toward the woman he "claims" to love. Hes aggressive, rude, and inconsiderate of your feelings. Tell me how you all got to the point of marriage if he has been behaving like this? Are you thinking he will somehow change? Like sistawoman said, you will only be deceiving yourself if you think that. So please, think twice about all of this and please do not do anything that you will regret. Because the way hes acting, he seems like he is holding on to you but will dump you if his ex gives him the slightest indication that she wants him back. Again do not be deceived.

I dont think she sent it all at once, and i think she meant WU and MO through PO, I guess.

What da hell? Will someone lock this useless thread?

Lol, yeah she was real desperate.

why are you reading more into what he said? just answer the Q.

Hmm and the saga continues, she is a dumb ass, John Thomas, that should have raised red flags, I mean come on now. And why give money to someone on the internet, thats dumb.

Tell him oh.

lol

And who are these women havin sex with? MEN, duh, so if you zip up then there would be more virgins. What, does a girl not deserve a virgin too? And what is with all this virginity shit?

huh?

right.

When I saw that I couldn't help but laugh out loud. You really got me going. Lol.

Well, marry her then. Or, if you dont love her. leave her.

Well some men never listen either. But i have to agree that she knows where her heart is, but refuses to admit it. Its too bad on her part.

Totally agree with Riskie. Some women never learn, even when they see it over and over again, sad really.

Please check to see if this topic exists before you post again.

Well only you know him better than we do. But going from what you said. I say forget about the second one. He seems very selfish and irresponsible. Never marry anyone out of pity. please go with your heart on this one. Because marriage is a lifetime thing, not something to take lightly.

They are both to blame. Just plain stupid on both their parts.

Lol.

How sad.

You all might want to sit down and have a very serious heart to heart conversation about your relationship and where its really going. Do not marry out of pity. Get married because you want to get married. And i probably would also recommend pre-marriage counseling. Because you never want to go into marriage with the attitude of "I want a divorce after 6 years." Its better that you two hash out your problems as much as possible before that step.

Like I said, if you cannot put your wife first, you need not to get married. Your mother and father have eachother to look after PHEMOUR, so you need to look after yours. Bottom line.

Hmm, If you take your extended family over your wife, you need not to get married.