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cornbread. That burger looks delicious.

Yeah I really don't understand that. Why are you thanking the elders if they didnt cook the meal?

Nice or Bad? Listen poster, just be yourself. Some women or should I say girls do not know what they really want in a relationship or out of life. You should not try to conform yourself or stoop to that level. If you know what you want and you are a "nice guy" then stay that way, there will be plenty of women that will like you for who you are. It makes no sense to be something that you are not. In fact, most people will be able to see right through the act and see that you are pretending, and I will tell you, people will not appreciate that. So your best bet is to be yourself.

The posters have spoken, a word is enough for the wise. Good luck though.

Nothing at all because you can never hit your wifey.

Make your own topic and stop diverting this OPs Posts.
OP, you really have to think about what this will do to the girl you want to date and the girl you are currently dating. You have no time to be selfish. You have to think of other peoples feelings beside your own. And this new girl, how do you even know she is really an "angel" ?
You don't. You have a woman, why not try to be contended with what you have? If you no longer are feeling your girlfriend that lives far from you, then please let her know. But please don't break any ones hearts because I know if that happened to you, you will be crying.

I don't think it has anything to do with it. I think hes trying to say he wants a girl that is not a liability to him. Someone that will contribute something to his life and not just use him.

Cast the first stone? I didnt get that, I was not casting any stone Iceland, and this has nothing to do with me. I just didnt see a reason why anyone was defending him. What he did was inhumane, and the smiles at the end shows he never learned humility. What he needs to do now instead of worrying about his sawry ass, is these kids that are caught in the middle of this.

Keep us updated.

Lol brash!. But its the best advice we had so far. Word topup.

How unfortunate. But the man should never blame his wife for this, it wasn't her fault. Jut be there for her and stick by her. And they should both go for counseling.

advice for what now? You want advice but you don't tell the story? Look, stop your daydreaming and get real.

Oh, she is dead? Sorry o. Well pray for her and your mother, and try to concentrate on your exams. May the Lord be with you and your family always.

Wasn't the past this is present. She is currently sleeping with this other man, so. Poster, I don't understand what u want help with. You don't have to tell him anything, but if he asks, don't lie. The truth will come to light someday. So you need to be on your toes.

Im lost. Is your 2 month old sister dead or missing?

Looks like you are the one that is going to have to talk to your parents. Make them understand that you love this man and he loves you. Also let them know, with or without their consent, you love him and will marry him. Don't get pregnant yet, it will be too much trouble. Just try and convince your parents. PLus you are 27 and not a child, you are an adult so you have to make decisions for yourself.

Thank you Siena, I really don understand why people are defending this poster. I do not understand that. And for na2day?, just because hes not American born and has a different culture, when you move to another culture, obtain a citizenship, live or have a green card, in his case. You will be judge under the laws of that country, bottom line. Especially here in America, we do not take frauds and immigrant fraud lightly, we deport. So stop defending this looser. Like I said, karma is a bitch, and it seems to be catching up with him.

Lol. I'm not a lawyer . OK, He can get deported from the USA because he is married to two wives. USA is not Nigeria. He maybe able to get away with it in Nigeria. But here in America its not possible. Remember he got a green card because of his second wife. I want the guy punished for what he did. He used everyone to obtain greener pastures. These kinds of people will get their rewards. And right now he is getting it. I really do not have any sympathy for him.

Uhhh toooo freakin long please summerise.

You all missed the point. The guy married the finnland woman first. Then his nigerian woman when he fled. So tracking that man down, they ended up in the USA. Under false prentences. The second wife (nigerian) married the man not knowing that the man was married already. Won the visa lottery to the USA and she added his name like they were married so he would obtain citizenship. They found out he was illegally married to a second woman. Finnland woman wants revenge. I don't see the woman as crazy. I fault the man for his misfortunes and he can go to hell for using people. And the sufferers happen to be all of his children. So last two posters, read the story again before you say the Fin woman can go to hell. You think that it is proper to use people? Think again. Karma is a bitch and people like him will pay 10 fold.

Thank you ayo and haniball. I see all these holier than though people yelling at this woman and chastising her for having sex with a man she loved and was going to marry. Like these people never ever had sex before marriage, and possibly gotten pregnant themselves or gotten someone pregnant, you know yourselves. Please people stop all the fronting.

Poster, right now is the time to worry about you and yours, you cannot be concerned about what he does in Nigeria. If he marries the girl, fine, his loss. Move on and bring up your baby the best way that you can. And yes, Karma is a bitch.

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