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This drama has started in Rivers. No one wins all the time. You loose some and win some.
No one should use violence. Everyone should go to the court . Who wins carry the day.

I want to follow the logic in what you have written about your experience.

1. He confirmed to you he is married.
2. He introduced you to 3 of his family members
3. He never had penetrative sex with you.

Logic 1
Any man could tell you this to put an end to relationship especially after having carnal knowledge of the lady. But in this case, he has not.

Logic 2
Introducing you to his family members means something is actually wrong with the relationship between him and his wife or better still, the family wanted him to marry another wife because his religion allows marrying more than one wife.

Logic 3
Not having penetrative sex with you was not at your refusal (I guess I am correct) because I am of the opinion that you could not have stopped him if he wanted.
Almost every man wants to have carnal knowledge of a lady irrespective of feeling ( love or fantasy). Choosing to be decent speaks volume about his personality.

My Submission
My view on logic 3 over rules logic 1. The submission in logic 2 is possible especially if he has challenge in his marriage. Because of his personality, he is looking for someone that would accept him not minding his marital status.

The plan for your marital life has to come to play. You are the sole person that can decide where you want to be.
My humble advice - Fnd your own man prayerfully because he belongs to someone.

Thank God for the gift of life.
Emma, great guy. We worked together at Minaj.
Chart me up bro - Akindeledaodu@gmail.com

Good morning friends.

I have appraised the events that characterised the #Endsars struggle and I have come to the following conclusion. It is my view that you examine the conclusion and select the best fit for us if all points highlighted will not bring the desired progress dor the Youth.

1. We need to agree as youth how do we chart the course of our beloved country from our present position. Only about 2% of youth are involved actively in decision making.

2. We will not be able to wrestle power from the old folks that have squandered our wealth from the street struggle. They control control all the machinery of Government- Police, Army, Navy and other paramilitary outfits. All these forces will be deployed if we confront them on the street.

3.Passive represention can be achieved in the interim by active engagement and formation of youth group at all levels. Discussion on voter registration for all youth as major subject of discussion.

4. The youth groups can be aggregated to form youth party which can be registered and solely sponsored by the youth. This is achievable as seen in the #Endsars struggle.

Please if you agree or you have suggestion that should be added, kindly share with other groups including this group.

Thank you.

#Youthmovement
#Youtharenotlazy
#YouthshallruleNigeria

Good morning friends.

I have appraised the events that characterised the #Endsars struggle and I have come to the following conclusion. It is my view that you examine the conclusion and select the best fit for us if all points highlighted will not bring the desired progress dor the Youth.

1. We need to agree as youth how do we chart the course of our beloved country from our present position. Only about 2% of youth are involved actively in decision making.

2. We will not be able to wrestle power from the old folks that have squandered our wealth from the street struggle. They control control all the machinery of Government- Police, Army, Navy and other paramilitary outfits. All these forces will be deployed if we confront them on the street.

3.Passive represention can be achieved in the interim by active engagement and formation of youth group at all levels. Discussion on voter registration for all youth as major subject of discussion.

4. The youth groups can be aggregated to form youth party which can be registered and solely sponsored by the youth. This is achievable as seen in the #Endsars struggle.

Please if you agree or you have suggestion that should be added, kindly share with other groups including this group.

Thank you.

#Youthmovement
#Youtharenotlazy
#YouthshallruleNigeria

Hello, The last comment sums it all. Heed to the advice and see the result.
When a lady provides all the comfort a man needs and the man does not reciprocate and ask for marriage after 3years,something is wrong. Except when the man has challenge with getting employment or finance issue.
We can manage this together if you give me opportunity as relationship expert. Mail me on Akindeledaodu@gmail.com.

Could anyone help with information that can guide on me purchase of sienna engine?
My sienna got knocked two weeks after service and it needs replacement.

This is a biased decision. I am in Rivers State so i can tell what is happening. Lagos state has been remarkable. So for me it should be Lagos state.

Great! men should also understand that women are meant to be nurtured.

I dreamt i brought a long truck to a company but i didnt see my self drive the truck there.I asked loaders to load the truck( soft drinks) which they started in the dream. I began to look at how i will drive out the truck.A man appeared which i believed was the owner/driver of the truck and he handed over the the key of the truck to me.Then i woke up.

@Nurey

I agree with you to reasonable extent.
I will check all doors and possibly invite someone to check it for me.
I will give you feed back.I hope to see someone this weekend to check the doors.
Thank you.

nurey:
This is how the central lock works, to activate from drivers side with key, you need to turn the key to the right hand side twice all the doors will unlock, from the passenger side or boot, it is once to the left for all to lock and unlock.

If your door is opened and you lock all doors with central lock, immediately all will open (applicable to front driver and passenger doors) ie if you don't close the driver side doors well it will unlock immediately if you use the central lock button you. (Especially when the key is in the ignition)

If your window is down and you locked the car with keys and you use the central lock button it won't respond at all you have to manually drag the lock/unlock lever to unlock the doors (I guess this is a good security feature)

If there is any digression from this just explain it here. Separately (if i start the car and move, the central lock opens all doors by itself without touching it) I don't understand the statement in bracket.

thanks for you response.

When ignition is on and i lock with the button on driver's side, all the doors lock and open immediately even after locking the door properly. But when ignition is off and i remove key from ignition, the same button locks all doors and the doors dont open again.
I am suspecting that the machanism responsible for door lock is sensing that one of the doors is not locked so the central lock is sensing samething.On dashboard,the door light shows and non of the doors is not properly locked.

nurey:
your query is not clear, does the central lock work when key is used from outside, or it doesnt work when the central lock button is used both from the driver and passenger side you need to explain also there is a button beside the central lock at the driver side which acts as a disable button, check to make sure it is not depressed.

@Nurey
Thanks for you response.
Whenever i am driving and i activate the central lock button from driver's side,it locks and opens all doors immediately.when i stop the car and remove key from ignition and lock,all the doors lock and they do not open.if i start the car and move, the central lock opens all doors by itself without touching it.

Siena 2000 Central lock does not work when ignition is on.it unlocks by itself when ignition is on but works well when ignition is off.please advise on what to do

Dear Inspired,Please help confirm the history of this car with Vin nos 4T3ZF19C4YU2000282.

[quote author=macanu post=28633780][/quote]Did you change the engine? Or what do you mean by new engine

@ebankole

sir, my wife dreamt she wanted to buy egg and she was at where to buy the egg.She wanted big eggs and the one she saw was big, but it has spot.She kept on looking for spotless big egg until she woke up.
What could this mean?I pray God gives you deep understanding of this dream.

ebankole:
The lord said you shouldn't kill any marriage,meaning don't ever try to interfere in any marriage or couple issue,be it in your family or anywhere so as not to implicated yourself or find yourself in a very complicated matter.

No matter how little or minor the case might appear flee from interfering please.
Bless you

Thank you sir.God shall continue to strenthen you.

ebankole:
The lord said you shouldn't kill any marriage,meaning don't ever try to interfere in any marriage or couple issue,be it in your family or anywhere so as not to implicated yourself or find yourself in a very complicated matter.

No matter how little or minor the case might appear flee from interfering please.
Bless you

Thank you sir.God shall continue to stengthen you.

Hello sir,
I pray God gives deep undersatanding of this dream.
I dreamt that a couple(husband and wife) hired me to investigate something and they paid me 10k naira. After the investigation,i got to know that a woman is behind the issue so the husband paid me 100 thosand pounds to eliminate the woman.After leaving them,i took bike to main road and i could not pay complete money for bike bacause i only had the 100k pound sterling and 80naira.i paid 80naira for the bike after taking me near main road then i woke up.

jaxxy:
Take

will 700k exchange for this ride? Very serioius buyer.drop a line for me on 08085177829 if its a deal.

My budget is 750k. Can i get Toyota Sienna 2001 Tokunbo or clean nigeria used with this budget.

ebankole:
Akino

This is the time u must cry out to your God" Somethin wrong has been happenin to u as such time/hour which God want to call ur attention to.

2,My brother,physicaly:pple wil say u are in mess.
Now,spiritually,its means,setback,lack of prgress,porverty,none will wnt to help u or support u at all.
U nId serious DELIVERANCE.

@Ebankole
Thank you very much sir.

Please help out with these dreams-

I saw a hand strapped with wristwatch and the time on the watch says 10mins to four o'clock

I found myself in a filled up pit toilet with uncomfortable odour.Maggots from the toilet were on my clothes which were also on the floor of the toilet.

My experience was a nasty one but God saw me through. All through the pregnancy of my first child, my wife would get angry at everything even when you asked her simple question.I had to always calm down and i promised her and myself that i would never get angry whenever she was angry.Instead of her to always tell me how she felt she prefered to yell at me at slightest provocation.I chose to be a responsible a responsible husband and help her work on this during the second pregnancy.

@Johnwell;
But wait a minute, the owners of the pool, how were they? What kind of people were there that they have to authorize you to pollute their pool with excreta?

They didnt object to pouring the waste in the water but directed me.They are adult young men. An OLD WOMAN GAVE ME THE WASTE, STOOD AFAR but NOT in the water and asked me to go pour the waste.

Please Johnwell, look at the bold words for clearer meaning to help in directing my prayer.

If you are blessed with the gift of interpretation please help out with this dream- Phase one - I was walking comfortably in large pool of fresh water that was around my ankle level with a potty containing human waste. When i got to certain point, based on advice of people that owns certain portion of the pool of water,i threw the waste in the water and turned back. Seceond phase- In the pool of water, i saw extremely big cat fish and was wondering the cat fish could contain deposits of gold.The cat fish stopped swimming close to me but slightly covered in water and very visiible.

Pls how much are these model of siena buses - 1999 and 2002
duty inclusive

Thanks to all my friends for the advice. Please, if we place Toyota picnic and sienna side by side can you rate them on fuel consumption, durability, ease and cost of maintenance/spare parts availability and which of them has better second hand value? Thanks for your response

Please i need advice from experienced Nairalanders on what type, model of of mini van or SUV to buy.I need the car for family use and to support my wife's business - buying goods mainly household items in bulk from market.
Budget - 650k

@Johnson . Pls how much is the duty on camry 2001 and sienna 2001. What is the landing cost excluding duty.

Akindeledaodu@yahoo.com

It is amazing that most pple do not understand the challenges of our time.The powers of darkness in this generation have assumed unimaginable level of wickedness and pple are comfortable with 'ceremonial prayer'. Concentration in prayer is achieved by getting all parts of your body invoved. If you have been challenged on what rightly belongs to you,you will never be gentle with your enemy.Don't just comment but test the the spirit to know if it is of the Lord.