At least I used condom what of you that have sex with your olosho girlfriend thinking she is clean

Bluezy13:

See this mumu...
So you expected me to give you an advice on HIV
You don kick stone be that.

You had the mind to have sex with a prostitute with an abdominal sore on your body...
The prostitute didn't even mind (after all she is after money and sometimes her business demands she sleeps with a pig like you) and you are not grateful for that.
She should be the one scared instead.

By the way, you must be very dirty and unkept to have such boil and still think of sex.
Have your bath regularly, clean your body and wash your clothes always.
Keep your house and body clean.
maintain good hygiene.
I don't even think you had your bath after the sex.
Always wash your boxers if you don't have money to buy new ones for a change.

Take care.

As usual expected a dumb ass to reply, I asked a question that reasonable humans should respond to but a jobless individual with nothing to respond to responded, run along little boy and read your books

Bluezy13:



Exactly my thought

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Your thought is as dumb as buhari dysfunctional ear

positivevibez:
You must have given her HIV through the boil she should go for test

Ignoramus as if you have not gotten a boil in your entire life

sanemind2:
but how come the vagina fluid cum enter ur boil,abi ur own stuff dey very close to ur abdomen

I used my hand that I used to remove the condom to clean the boil

ProudBoy:
Lol. No fear. Very low or No risk. Read this

https://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=67464.0

Wow thanks

SUPERPACK:
5 minutes pleasure = 6 months of sleepless nights. Is it worth the stress?

If you read very well, I used protection throughout

Blu03:


She saw the sore and still had sex with you?
Back to your question, go for a test. Are we doctors? Most of us here are unemployed and hustling to get a job.
Meet someone who is qualified to diagnose you.

It is not a sore, it is a boil with pus

Mrs holy Dan though, you do not have what to say so keep quiet, na people like you dey Bleep for one sachet of indomie

donstan18:
Mumu

I travelled to imo state where I stayed at any hotel, I asked the receptionist to get a girl for me to spend the night, during the night we engaged in sex and used condom throughout after sex I discovered that I had a small boil that has burst on my abdomen.

My issue is that vagina fluid came in contact with my boil that has burst on my abdomen, is there any risk of having hiv, I am presently taking truvada but the side effects are much, note that the condom did not burst, am I at risk or just unnecessary worried

Ginaz:


Don’t mind the man. Look at his poor excuse to cheat on her . She doesn’t call . What stops him from going to meet her in school to ask what’s wrong with her? Or try solving the problem?

Instead he went to take one gold digger like that. O.p na thunder go fire you and that gold digger .

Tomorrow get belle no forget.

She is like most Nigerian girls who feel that showing a man too much love isn't good and that a man must show greater love in a relationship

FromZeroToHero:
Marry because you love her and not because you want to pity her.

I will not marry out of pity, the problem is that she is not very romantic

Peterosky:
My brother no need to be confused. The good thing is that you already told her you have a girl you will like to marry. Do not abandon the one that was with you when the road was rough, cause you may leave to regret in future. As for your new girl friend, don't worry, cause she will always be there for you even after you are married.If she accepted you while dating another girl. Trust me she will continue to play the role of a side chick even after you are married. You can see it's a win win situation for you. But if you marry the second one, you will automatically loss the first one. Another thing is that never trust any girl's love when you are doing well.The best love from a girl is when you are nothing. The second girl maybe doing all what she is doing to overtake your future wife. Please be wise.

That is what I want to avoid. I don't want to go into marriage in this confused state

Tela101:


Why didn't you say all this in the initial post...

You are only looking for reasons to justify what you are about to do.

You have already made up your mind to dump your first girlfriend, so just do it already and free the poor girl.

Don't marry her if your heart and soul is no longer with her.

When you call her, don't she pick your calls?

She picks my call but i felt so frustrated when I was the only one making efforts, but the other girl showed me love i never knew existed but when there is money I won't consider it as true love. I will stick to my first love cos she suffered with me and will try to mold her to what I want

MedicH:


You're right.

Thanks for the insult I understand, but when she goes to school, she hardly calls me, i call almost everytime, it got to the point where I was in a relationship but felt so lonely, so do not be quick to judge
The problem with Nigerian girls is that if you shower them with too much love, they begin to feel as if the world revolves around them, u send them money and still they complain of no credit to call you

Ginaz:


I soooooo hate ungrateful men like the o.p. This is someone who stuck with you for GOODNESS sake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You’re not even remorseful, not sober about what you did. You’re spewing nonsense about not being able to leave the second girl .

The only crime the first girl committed was to go to school and that prick of a man couldn’t hold himself. Shame on his bald empty head!!!

She was with you through it all. your so called full of life gold digger should have done that so we can compare notes.

Thanks for the insult I understand, but when she goes to school, she hardly calls me, i call almost everytime, it got to the point where I was in a relationship but felt so lonely, so do not be quick to judge

Ginaz:


F***k you!!!!

You can be no 3 but your bad character and massive hatred disqualified you

serosa:



Beauty is not about everything.
And besides romance can't be everyday or every hour.

The truth be told when you reach a point in marriage you will want that motherly figure in your home.

A woman you can talk too. That gives you so much advice like your mum.
Romance you say, everyone can be romantic just depends on how you communicate.

People change.
Give them a trial like.
Act like something got wrong.
Cut them off for a week.
Before you cut them off get into a messy fight.
Then after one week of the distance from them.
Don't still call them.
Wait for the one that will call you.
Or ask your friends about the one that was soo bothered about you.
If none.
Call and try hit back on them and apologize the one that forgives you first is obviously the one that if you break her left hand she will actually use her right hand to cuddle you.

Thank you very much for the advice

serosa:
Just go for the one your heart wants.

But you should know that the heart can still fail.

When dating you use your heart. But when getting married use your brain.

Simple!

Test the both of them.
And see who fails.

you are right, my girlfriend has been with me from when I had nothing that is why I cannot even think of leaving her, this one came in period of abundance and I am not sure she would be with me without the money, but the problem is that her beauty and romantic nature is what confuses me, her beauty is out of this world
My girlfriend is not that romantic but she is a very good cook and has that motherly nature, my sister I am confused

vickyhow:
You made it a lot easier for you!

It's good U told her u have a qirlfriend, just casually tell her you nd ur woman would be qetting married soon! watch her Reaction

Treat her like a friend, let her know you quys are just friends, unless if u've been f**kinq her! (which miqht be FWB*friends with benefits* relationship)
Which takes nothinq away from it!

If u cannot heed to my piece of advice above, don't joke with this one!

Since u have fallen for her, it's best u avoid her like plague, force yourself to do it!
it's the only you would kill that spark subconciously !, and do well to give her the impression it's a casual friendship so u don't quilt yourself Afterwards!

Xoxo !

My brother thank you, and the problem is that both of them are extremely beautiful

cerpvad:
What is happening to you is called divided emotions. You are billed for a bigger trouble if you go into marriage with divided emotions. Cut off one of the girls now or else you end up with a messier situation

that is the problem

elmagnifico411:
Which kain Man U be sef? That’s not supposed to be a problem now. Go ahead with your plans , and keep the other girl by the side. You’ll need her some day. If only she wants out, then free her, let her go on with her life. You can’t be eating whisk everyday. Sometimes u gotta top it up with oha or vegetable.

she still calls me everyday and keeps me company and very fun to be with

My brother I wish it was that easy

clive2u:
Your case needs special hands. Just marry the two of them and ur problem is half solved

I have been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years but she went to school for 3 years in imo last year out of boredom I met another girl and we started dating, before we started I told her I had a girlfriend and that I would take care of her and provide for her, the problem now is that my girlfriend is rounding up next year febuary and we are planning on getting married, but the problem is that I have gotten used to the other girl, she is funny and full of life and the thought of not hearing from her when I am married scares me, but I cannot let my girlfriend down because she stood with me when I had nothing and we are already preparing for marriage March next year
I cannot even sleep at night because of what i caused myself, I just wanted a little fling but fell into this, sometimes I just feel depressed thinking of it
When the other one is around, i think of the other one, and when I am around the second one I think of my girlfriend
Please help a brother, please do not insult me no human is perfect