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I love Nigeria and love being a Nigerian.
See reason here
https://joelalade.home.blog/2022/03/21/gratitudechallenge-why-i-love-nigeria/

Don’t be amazed that I said, heaven’s scholarship.

Does heaven gives scholarship?

Yes it does and The God of heaven gave me that gift of free education right from grade 1 till I acquired my first degree.

I am from a middle class family – neither poor or rich but we make ends meet yet God provided for my parents to fund my basic education with NGN600 per term (as at 1996) which is $1 today �. A big money then.

Yahweh Nissi didn’t stop there. His scholarship covered my secondary education on the same tenor of divine provision for 6 good years.

In addition to that, the heaven’s scholarship also funded my degree education at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, Ogbomoso with nothing less than $1,033 over 5 years covering tuition and textbooks.

Furthermore, the Lord of provision did not just provide the capital for the project, He also provided energy and wisdom for the project.

I called the funding, Heaven’s scholarship, because no debt was incurred to accomplish it. My parents were indebted as of then but not toward my schooling.

With all these benefits and many more, I reverence the name of the Lord with this song:

Yahweh,
Your name is Yahweh,
You are the miracle working God,
Your name is Yahweh.
Today’s task for you: what is the name of the university you attend or is attending?

ÈKURU is a yoruba food made with beans

https://youtu.be/mgt2lwX-qVg

People has started downloading the book

NEW BOOK ALERT.

Have you ever been offered breakfast before?

Do you cry, moan or shout?

If yes, no problem, your next Courtship should be tearless.

Or

You have never 'chop' breakfast in your life? Thank God and you don't have to experience tearful relationship.

Therefore for the two groups, I put this ebook together titled[b] A TEARLESS COURTSHIP.
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Topics include:

- What is Courtship? Bet I can bet it with you that Christian Courtship did not start when he asks you, 'will you marry'

- Who is involved in Courtship?

- Stages of Courtship

- What do we do in Courtship?

Download the free Ebook via

http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/03/03/gratitudechallenge-the-gifts-of-relations

Welcome to day 2 of #GratitudeChallenge. It is just an avenue to praise the Lord for 40 days.

Being saved is incredible and having good relationships is great too.

I won’t underestimate these gifts of relationships because after my salvation, what next is my relationships and God has wonderfully blessed me with amazing ones which have recommended me for jobs, submitted my CV, gave me a wife, encouraged me, visited my blog, read my articles, prayed for me, helped me and corrected me.

Read on at www.joelalade.home.blog

Lent is commencing today and it will last for 40 days, I want to show gratitude to Almighty God for what He has been doing for me, What He has done, what He will do and what He will not do in His infinite wisdom.

Please join me www.joelaladehome.blog to appreciate our Maker.

Day 1 starts with utmost gratitude to my Saviour for delivering me from the power of self and sin.

If not for Jesus, I can just imagine where I would have been but His compassion redeemed me during the first Reinhard Bonnke Crusade to my hometown in 2016.

Oh what a memorable day for me because from that day onwards the Spirit Himself testifies that I am a child of God!

Despite the challenges, God has stood faithful. He has been! Hallelujah!

I also admire Jehovah for my justification (past salvation), sanctification (present salvation) and my glorification (future salvation). May His name be praised.

Now, lemme end day 1 with this song

Thank you for saving me, thank you my Lord/2x.

Today’s task for you: When did you come to be born again?

HOW TO PREVENT SPOUSAL REJECTION.

This post is not for those that court for trial and error. It is for those that have marriage in mind for every courtship they are in.

Prevention is better than cure.

I remembered the first person I officially introduced to my parents which happen to be my last date was subtly disapproved by my parents. Infact by everyone in my family.

Although, I disagreed with them and was adamant that I am gonna marry her until the whole thing crashed. All thanks to my family's prayers.

Because, I could vividly remembered that I was told to be left alone, that the relationship won't lead anywhere.

What was I driving? By third month of our relationship, she has known everyone that is to be known as far as my marital choice is concerned plus my stance till the law of natural selection take place.

My first date was even instant rejection by her mom from the moment she said, 'mo tigbó, mo tigbà.'

One of the best way to prevent or maximize or detect spousal rejection is to introduce him or her early.

Before love deepens,

Before sense is doing you fiam fiam,

Before you see each other pants (which you shouldn't even see premarital even if they approve). Parental approval is not Marriage ooo.

Before wu wu not take it, introduce your LOML early to them so that they can do all
- the disagreement
- agreement
- know your stance
- and for natural law of what will be will be to take it place.

By introducing them early, if they disagreed, you have some time to convince them or to check next door.

If they agreed with you, you can let the natural law of WWBWB to take effect.

Because it is insane after dating and courting for 2 - 3 years and rejecting many other eligible suitors and boom ,there is rejection!

Think about the time that may likely be wasted before finding another person or convincing family.

Think about the resources and data you both have shared.

Think about the the pains, advantages and disadvantages of rejection, unhappiness and felling of hatred from both parties peradventure you proceed.

I met my wife's parents within two weeks of our courtship simply because I don't what to be part of the stats after 3 years.

Yours may not be two weeks but I will recommend 3 months so that you will know whether to fire on joyfully or to restrategize.

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February with a bang, swags and too much fire on www.joelalade.home.blog.

First of all, do you think you know me. Check here http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/01/20-facts-about-me/

Shebi we are in season of love? Remember too that we are commanded to love our enemies but how? Read how at http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/02/how-to-treat-you-enemy/

Our God that we serve is a specialist in dealing with enemies. If she/he won't rescind, God promises to deal with him/her.
See how here �� [url[http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/03/how-god-will-treat-your-enemy/[/url]


This is a shared post courtesy YouVersion on how to fight for your marriage
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/06/how-to-fight-for-your-marriage/

February 14 is gone and gone for good, you still don't have a lover. Well, hmmmmm. I won't say much but reading the article via http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/11/6-things-to-do-if-you-are-single-on-valentines-day/ will tell you what to do before February 14, 2023.

Moving forward, there are 3 Stages in Courtship. Check your present level with your LOML here http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/12/3-stages-of-romantic-subscription/

Sister Dupe, have mercy on Bro., Habakkuk naw. It has been six months, the innocent bro proposed but no answer is forthcoming from you.
Bro zerubabel, is not that I don't want to give my answer but I don't know what to do. I'm confused.

Ma so mooo, oya read this http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/13/how-to-handle-marriage-proposal-rightly/ and thank God after your Marriage joo.

Bro Joseph, I know you seriously what to settle down with sister Proverbs 31but there is scarcity of good men and women out there. This write-up tells you how, where and when to find her http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/14/scarcity-of-good-men-and-womenand-what-you-can-do-about-it-mrs-modupe-ehirim/

Breakfast na your mate ��. I remembered when I was served my own bitter breakfast. I was downcasted, partially down, hated and blamed myself for the failed dating not until I take to a bro and a sister advised me. But here I am today and here is 7 ways I dealt with heartbreak http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/15/how-to-cope-with-heartbreak/

7 Ways to cope with Heartbreak.

To be candid, heartbreak hurts. It stinks. It pains to the inner mind particularly when you knew for a fact that you dot all the ‘i’s and crossed all the ‘t’s in a biblical way yet you are being ‘punished’ for love.


Source: shutterstock.
I said it again it isn’t palatable. I knew what it implies to be heartbroken but you can deal with the agony triumphantly.


In addition to that, heartbreak is inevitable. As long as a human will be your father, mother, kid, spouse, boss, etc, you got to respect their fallibilities.


Now deal with heartbreak like these:


1.CRY.
Even our Lord Jesus Christ was heartbroken at His people’ unbeliefs and wept. Cry! You have not sinned. Talk to people about your pains. Crying relieves pain.


2. THANK GOD.
It was a human being that broke your heart, not Yahweh, so praise ummhangeable Promise Keeper.

Two, if it is a romantic breakup, dance away! There are many saves that God is doing for us that we have no inkling about. Maybe you are saved from a potentially damaging relationship and lastly, the bible said, ‘in everything, give thanks.’

3. FORGIVE AND TAKE THE FIRST STEP OF RECONCILIATION.
Yeah! You didn’t misread me! You have to forgive your heartbreaker whether the person realises his/her mistakes or not, after all, we have done worse for Jesus and He forgave us.

Don’t just forgive, take the first step of reconciliation by calling, emailing, DMing the offender to normalise the relationship after all Christ didn’t wait for us to repent before dying for us.


You say, ‘it is not easy and unfair.’ who said it will be? But that is Christ’s teaching and Christ Himself is the one that will grace to do His will. Remember, blessed are the peacemakers.

http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/15/how-to-cope-with-heartbreak/

#singleslife

SCARCITY OF GOOD MEN AND WOMEN...AND WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT

In the course of my work as a Marriage Educator and Counselor, I meet many people who desire to marry.

The young women lament that they can’t find good men.

The young men too lament that they can’t find good women.

I find this somewhat perplexing because many young men and women that I meet have great characteristics. It seems to me that both men and women do not know how and where to meet prospective partners who fit them.

In The Right Fit Marriage Academy we asked married people to tell us how they met the persons they married. Here are some responses we got:

"I met my fiance in our campus fellowship. He was my discipler��. He was an executive in the fellowship, one of those spiritual brothers we look up to in the fellowship. Through our discipleship class, we became friends and friends became intimate friends and from there it happened ��” T. A.

“I had graduated from school but visited UNN for some other reason and noticed her but never spoke to her at all..so after many years I got a recommendation from a good friend of mine and when I asked for details..her name popped up. I searched my Facebook friends list. Luckily she was there and her number was also there. I took her number from there and started calling..and she finally agreed to take the ride of life with me. Best pal ever.” I. N.

“My husband met me at his colleague's wedding. The mother of his colleague is my church mum. I had to drag myself to the wedding. Hubby was just taking pictures of us with the bride as we danced with her. According to him, he was just taking a random picture and later I came to stand close to him and he took another picture of me. He was just scrolling through the pictures he took and he was like this lady's complexion is captivating (I'm dark skinned and he told God he wanted omo dudu.lol). When the colleague came back from honeymoon, he asked her for my number. She had to ask her mum for my number. Her mum questioned and questioned and called me before releasing my number. I was a bit skeptical at first but I agreed to meet him. And days turned to weeks and I met him officially two months after we began talking. We’re now married.” O. A.

These responses show that meeting with a prospective marriage partner happens as you go about your regular activities. However, you have to be present and intentional in order to recognise the opportunity when it presents itself.

What should a person who is eager to find a suitable partner do? If you are that person, what should you do?

Here are seven steps that will help you to overcome the “scarcity problem”.

1. Avoid Pity Parties

Your attitude and mindset play a significant role succeeding in any aspect of life including finding the person you will marry. Avoid feeding discouragement and bitterness because you have not yet met a good partner. If you have a cheerful and optimistic attitude and outlook, you’ll be much more attractive to a prospective spouse.

2. Look beyond your immediate community.

Be open to the idea that a prospective partner that fits you may currently live in a place that is far away from where you currently live. Long distance relationships have their own problems, true. The problem is not the distance. If you know and practice courtship principles that work for a long distance relationship.

3. Keep your eyes open with people you already know.

There may be a person that you have known for a long time without having any romantic ideas about them. If you pay attention, you may suddenly see such a person with fresh eyes and see in them a possibility of a relationship with them. At times, your friends may see the possibility of that person being suitable for you and nudge you towards them.

4. Accept assistance from GOOD matchmakers - Family, friends, professionals.

One Marriage and Relationship ex[ert stated the dramatic finding that 63% of married couples were first introduced to each other by family or friends. Be open to suggestions and advice from RELIABLE family members and friends. In our careers and businesses, you and I appreciate the value of networking. We are open to using our networks to make beneficial connections. Why not let the same networks work for you in your search for a prospective marriage partner?

5. Use the Online Space - Social Media, Dating apps.

You, like many people, may find the online space scary. Yet it is a great platform for meeting new people who share similar interests with you. What you need is to carefully choose the online spaces that have developed a solid reputation and where people of similar age, background, beliefs and interests gather. While interacting with people in the online spaces that you choose, exercise discernment. Today, you can find out a lot about people you meet online even without asking them any questions.

6. Go to places and events where people who are like-minded are.

If you want to catch a fish, you go to where you think the most fish are. If you want to make a sales contact, you attend meetings with the likelihood of finding potential clients. If you want to find a prospective marriage partner, it makes sense to go to locations and events where you know that the kind of partner you are looking for is likely to be. Meetings, conferences, training programs.

7. Seize your moments of opportunity.

If marriage is one of your life’s priorities, then you should be intentional about the activities that will make it happen. If you are not intentional, you may actually miss good opportunities for connecting with someone who could be a great match for you.


Do you have additional tips to add to this list? Share with us.

Written by Mrs. Modupe Ehirim via https://m./TheRightFitMarriageAcademy/permalink/2089756887808808/

Valentine is in few days!

A day unofficially dedicated to celebration of love throughout the whole world, even though, we have limited this love to boyfriend and girlfriend.

Now, if you got no partner, I wish to tell you that Valentine is also for you but how you will celebrate it differs.

Here are six things to do if do you not have partner:

1. Take yourself to a nice place.

Nice places like Church, restaurant, cinema, public library, spa, photo studios, zoo, orphanage, parents' house, etc to relax and reflect on the greatness of the Lord to you.
You might even meet your future val during your outings.

2. Log out of all social media apps.

Lovey-dovey pictures from lovers will fill our social media spaces on Val's. No doubt about that. There will be tensions here and there. Intimidations left and right �� . Oppression up and down. �‍❤️‍��‍❤️‍�
Now to avoid you saying and questioning God with, 'God when,' take a 48 hours break from your social media pages. One, to really relax and reflect and two, it doesn't kill to stay off for a while.

3. Go out with your single friends

You are not the first, neither will you be the only and last person to be without a Val on Valentine. So instead of pitying yourself inside, go and party with your fellows and enjoy yourselves.

There is probability that someone may notice you in your clique for a serious relationship.

For the remaining, visit http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/02/11/6-things-to-do-if-you-are-single-on-valentines-day/

For your weekend
Hot hot topics on Moments with Jo (www.joelalade.home.blog) for January
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1. Let's us pray

http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/01/lets-us-pray/

2. You have Valentine but no Val, check this out
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/02/somebodys-child-will-love-you/

3. This is how to find Val
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/03/somebodys-child-will-find-you/

4. If you do not get somebody to call you own after reading, then ....
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/04/how-somebodys-child-can-find-you/

5. No marriage is heaven but the word of God is settled in heaven and on Earth.
How then can you read His word? This article outlines 4 steps to it

http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/07/how-to-study-the-bible-consistently-4-hacks-from-youversion/

6. This is an excerpt from my incoming book titled Paths to Sexual Purity. It tells you how to behave in Romantic relationship responsibly as Christian. Read, enjoy and apply
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/10/how-to-have-no-sex-till-marriage-relationship/

7. Conflicts are inevitable but my wife and I resolved our using this 24 time tested and trusted tools via
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/17/17-tools-to-resolve-conflict-in-a-christian-home/

8. What's success in real sense of its definition

Check it out here
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/18/lord-give-me-success-today-youversion/

10. Remember also that I launched my YouTube channel.
Subscribe to enjoy Relationship contents from Christian angle
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11. Are you facing difficult situations right now? I bet you there are something you must drop to overcome the situation but don't stop doing these four things

http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/22/four-things-that-you-should-continue-to-do-during-difficult-times/

12. This post clear misconception about WORSHIP
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/24/how-to-worship-god/

13. Learn how to make okro via

http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/27/new-video-alert-how-to-cook-nigerian-okro-in-one-minute/

14. Should we have friends? I don't know your answer but I gave my answers here on why we should have friends
http://joelalade.home.blog/2022/01/27/should-we-have-friends/

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Gamers, please recommend a football game app that doesn't need internet for my techno pop 4.

I have tried Dream League, it did not install.
Real Football is total rubbish

This article is to answer an OP who is seeking for tips on how to have a No Sex Relationship as demanded by his new found girlfriend as somebody who not only marry as virgin at 32 and my significant other at 29 without touching ourselves till our wedding nite and it will be appreciated if pushed to front page.
This the link to the earlier thread https://www.nairaland.com/6922751/give-me-tips-how-hold

Although, most commenters are saying that the man shouldn't agreed that it is not possible, some are saying only if she is a virgin but lemme tell you 4 facts about abstainance:

1. We abstain from Premarital sex not because one's partner says so, we don't want pregnancy or are afraid of venerable diseases but because we want to GLORIFY AND WORSHIP GOD

2. It is 100% possible to do No Sex till Marriage relationship in the sex-crazed world. I repeat, highly possible. My significant other and I did it and didn't regret doing it.

3. Forget social media noise, many people are abstaining - you won't be the first to do it and neither will you be the last. Many more will do it.

4. [b]You lose nothing be abstaining from Premarital sex and gain many things be abstaining

Now, to [i]TIPS ON PRACTISE NO SEX RELATIONSHIP[/i]

1. Pray: we live in a world that is in so much loved with sex. You see sex and it's related stuff everywhere, even the church is not spared but prayers can help safeguard you from all temptations.

2. Have fear of God: that He meant well when He told you to abstain and that He has your best interest at heart for giving the command.

3. Guard what you see, hear and read : unless, you want to deceive yourself, you can't be listening to shedibalabala,touch my bum bum, lemme touch your bress music, videos and articles up and down and expect to keep yourself.
How then do you guard yourself? Start away from any sex inducing acts, blogs, environment, situations, etc., Any appreance of evils should be done with.

4. Replace negativity with positivity : As you are shunning negativity, make you replace it positive habits like Bible reading, reading edifying books, watching motivational videos and blogs, being busy, attending church services, volunteering, etc. All these activities will naturally make you think less of sex.

5. Be busy[/] : As a normal human being, you will fell Hot but productive busyiness can deescalate horniness. Once you notice that you body is beginning to act as a human being, take a walk around the neighborhood, mop the floor, write your thoughts, take a book and read, visit your friends and family, go to church, go on evagelism, etc.

6. [b]Don't tempt Satan : Lead us not into temptations is better than deliver us from evils. Most of us dey deceive ourselves, unna say you wan do abstainance, you pack go your boyfriend's house, shebi him be wood. Uncle, shebi na you tell us say you wan keep yourself, why the kissing and plate licking?
Tempting Satan is sleeping overnight in your fiance's abode and saying that nothing will happen, many things will happen.

Tempting Satan is always staying indoors with opposite sex .

Tempting Satan is doing foreplays like passionate kissing, smooching, licking, carousing, Mouth Gig and thinking sex won't happen, you will be highly decieved. You can mock God, what a man sow, he will reap.

8. Be determined like Lion [/] that come what may this No Sex before Marriage will be done by me through the help of Holy Spirit.

9. [b]Double date : don't be surprised that I say you should double date. Before you castigated, check the meaning of double Dating first.

Having two partners simultaneously is not double Dating, it's called unfaithfulness. Double dating means to go on a date with other courting couples.

This double Dating (or even triple dating) of a thing will serve as charepon for you and your intending spouse. Caveat here, double date with couples who are also No sex before marriage practisoners.

Thanks for reading and stay sexually pure.

For more tips, visit www.joelalade.jome.blog

This article is to answer an OP who is seeking for tips on how to have a No Sex Relationship as demanded by his new found girlfriend as somebody who not only marry as virgin at 32 and my significant other at 29 without touching ourselves till our wedding nite and it will be appreciated if pushed to front page.
This the link to the earlier thread https://www.nairaland.com/6922751/give-me-tips-how-hold

Although, most commenters are saying that the man shouldn't agreed that it is not possible, some are saying only if she is a virgin but lemme tell you 4 facts about abstainance:

1. We abstain from Premarital sex not because one's partner says so, we don't want pregnancy or are afraid of venerable diseases but because we want to GLORIFY AND WORSHIP GOD

2. It is 100% possible to do No Sex till Marriage relationship in the sex-crazed world. I repeat, highly possible. My significant other and I did it and didn't regret doing it.

3. Forget social media noise, many people are abstaining - you won't be the first to do it and neither will you be the last. Many more will do it.

4. [b]You lose nothing be abstaining from Premarital sex and gain many things be abstaining

Now, to [i]TIPS ON PRACTISE NO SEX RELATIONSHIP[/i]

1. Pray: we live in a world that is in so much loved with sex. You see sex and it's related stuff everywhere, even the church is not spared but prayers can help safeguard you from all temptations.

2. Have fear of God: that He meant well when He told you to abstain and that He has your best interest at heart for giving the command.

3. Guard what you see, hear and read : unless, you want to deceive yourself, you can't be listening to shedibalabala,touch my bum bum, lemme touch your bress music, videos and articles up and down and expect to keep yourself.
How then do you guard yourself? Start away from any sex inducing acts, blogs, environment, situations, etc., Any appreance of evils should be done with.

4. Replace negativity with positivity : As you are shunning negativity, make you replace it positive habits like Bible reading, reading edifying books, watching motivational videos and blogs, being busy, attending church services, volunteering, etc. All these activities will naturally make you think less of sex.

5. Be busy[/] : As a normal human being, you will fell Hot but productive busyiness can deescalate horniness. Once you notice that you body is beginning to act as a human being, take a walk around the neighborhood, mop the floor, write your thoughts, take a book and read, visit your friends and family, go to church, go on evagelism, etc.

6. [b]Don't tempt Satan : Lead us not into temptations is better than deliver us from evils. Most of us dey deceive ourselves, unna say you wan do abstainance, you pack go your boyfriend's house, shebi him be wood. Uncle, shebi na you tell us say you wan keep yourself, why the kissing and plate licking?
Tempting Satan is sleeping overnight in your fiance's abode and saying that nothing will happen, many things will happen.

Tempting Satan is always staying indoors with opposite sex .

Tempting Satan is doing foreplays like passionate kissing, smooching, licking, carousing, Mouth Gig and thinking sex won't happen, you will be highly decieved. You can mock God, what a man sow, he will reap.

8. Be determined like Lion [/] that come what may this No Sex before Marriage will be done by me through the help of Holy Spirit.

9. [b]Double date : don't be surprised that I say you should double date. Before you castigated, check the meaning of double Dating first.

Having two partners simultaneously is not double Dating, it's called unfaithfulness. Double dating means to go on a date with other courting couples.

This double Dating (or even triple dating) of a thing will serve as charepon for you and your intending spouse. Caveat here, double date with couples who are also No sex before marriage practisoners.

Thanks for reading and stay sexually pure.

For more tips, visit www.joelalade.jome.blog

My question is this; why are our veteran Yoruba actors and actresses dying miserably despite all the monies made in their glory day.

Don't they invest?

See

PotatoSalad:
Ok. If you don't know your sexual compatibility now, you'll see shege during your marriage.
No use "no sex" gamble with your peace of mind.
Sex is the ultimate. Don't mind whatever anyone tells you cos they won't be there to help you when sexual incompatibility comes up in your marriage.



It's a very big deal. When you're not compatible sexually, you'll no longer find each other attractive. Love, care and affection dwindles. Trust becomes nonexistent. The house becomes cold. Only time you become chatty is when you're in the midst of other people. You insult and fight everyday (daily entertainment for your street people). You become less focused at work. You start eating outside. You start admiring the waiter that serves you everyday.
Your wife finds comfort in your neighbor who will be penising her in time.

ALL BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T DO WHAT IT DO BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED.

So to you now, sexual compatibility is about size of the genitals and can you please tell the whole house of how fornicators have faired well in their Marriage?

Lemme tell you marriage is not built and maintain on sex but love, discipline and self control.

To the OP, You lose nothing by staying off premarital sex not because your girl said let keep ourselves but because you want to please God, your creator. I once dated a lady like that who we said we will abstain and she was getting it elsewhere. When I discovered, I left her with dignity.

Whether she is a virgin or not, the decision she has made is a good one and if you are responsible man, respect it or leave her to go and find her man.

Now to do it.

Be busy.

Stay away from any sex inducing acts, music, videos, books, environment, etc.

Fill your thoughts with the word of God.

With your girl, avoid any indoor meetings between only two of you.

Be prayerful.

iwaeda:
Makinde can not change decision of kingmakers

The final approval lies with the governor. He can approve or not the Olubadan elect.

The new year is the season where there is so much fun in the air and it could be a perfect time for you to find another woman’s son to find you or to look for another man’s daughter for friendship and marital settlement in 2022.

If you are game, primed and ready to roll then follow this guide to find or to be found (as the case may be):

1. Open your social media DM

Who knows maybe your significant other has been waiting for you for two years. Love can happen anywhere including your DM.

Do you reply to every message in there?
Absolutely no! Carefully select anyone with the sensible message while ignoring all ‘hello angles.’


2. Start sharing values on your social media page.

Where there is a carcass, there the vultures gather.

By starting to offer values on your social page, group, blog or weblink, you will eventually attract a crowd. Maybe your future spouse may come with the healing to your singleness in his/her wing. Who knows.

Read the story of Ayosolas below on Couples of Zuckerville’s Facebook page.

3. Be a commenter.

First of all, make sure you comment your marital status and contact info in the comment section if you are ready to mingle and settle this year.

Apart from commenting here, don’t just be a values sharer, be a value encourager by commenting, liking and sharing other social value givers’ and content creators’ creative works.

You can even tailor your comments to the person that you are developing feelings for provided the ‘feelee‘ values aligned with godly principles. I bet it with you, people can be known through what they read, write and say.

Facebook posts are the written form of our thoughts, beliefs and ideologies.

The caveat here, don’t just comment casually, comment intelligently and argue respectfully. Maybe the person that will find you is also a fellow commenter.

Did you know why I hammered so much on your social media? Because it is the easiest means for baby boomers, millennials and Gen Zs to find love.

4. Owambe is a goldmine.

If you are seriously considering marriage this year or the year after, do not joke with parties and any avenues that put you amid opposite sexes.

Such parties include wedding parties, burial parties, chieftaincy ceremony and various festivities.

Even if you are not invited to one make sure you volunteer to attend one or look for one to attend in the neighbourhood. All that you need is boldness, a good phone to exchange contact, neat clothes preferably native wears and perf so that you can appear nice to your would-be suitors.

You can’t attend five in a row without seeing love.

5. Now, let’s go to church.

If you have been skipping church before, this ain’t the best time to do so.

This is the time to make church and churchy activities serious and be serious with them for life because there is joy in the presence of God.

There are thousands of single men and women in the faith but they don’t go to clubhouses, you can only find them in the choir, youth meetings, camp meetings, church volunteer groups, etc., plus the fact that some of them are not active on social media and you know what, they are serving God sincerely.

If you don’t marry from the church, where will you?

6. Listen to recommendations.

Like I said yesterday, somebody knows someone that he/she thinks can make a good spouse to you. If you got that opportunity please don’t belittle it. Check the recommended person out first.

After all, there is nothing sinful about matchmaking.

7. Prayer is the master key.

Let’s sing this song:

Prayer is the key,
Prayer is the key,
Prayer is the master key,
Jesus started with prayer,
And end it with prayer,
Prayer is the master.

The whole process of searching, looking and finding should start with prayer and continue in prayer.

Why prayer? People can be wicked and fake what they are not. So you will need prayer to separate the chaff from the wheat.

Praying means you are saying to God, ‘my father I can’t do this in my power but you can help me.’

This, we are sure of, He never fails.

Finally, do you want to settle down this year? Drop your contact info in the comment section

Christmas is around the corner and the commemoration is how our heavenly Father gifts us His Son – Jesus Christ for the salvation of humanity.


In addition, Bible urges us to be Christlike and one of His characters is benevolence.

If He did, we should do it especially in this season of love towards our earthly fathers as we have done for our mothers, sisters, girlfriends, etc., some day ago.

If your dad is a Nigerian or you have a friend whose dad is a Nigerian and or a father figure who is a Nigerian, you can think of blessing them with the following items:

1. Visit.

2. Perfumes/ Body sprays.

3. Rechargeable torchlight.

4. Ties.

5. A couple of Cufflinks.

6. Polo shirts/ shorts/ sewn clothes.

7. Wines

8. Wristwatches.

9. Shaving kits

10. Beloved club jersey.

11. Favorite Artiste’s CDs ( maybe old albums that you knew he loves listening to when you are growing up).

12. Writing materials.

13. Travel kits.

14. Finance a night out with long time buddies.

15. Money.

16. Sport kits.

17. MP3 player.

18. Cinema outings.

19. Sponsored honeymoon with his wife.

20. Cable TV subscription.

Remember that most of these fathers can afford these suggested gifts but it is not the price of the gifts that matter but the heart of the giver.

To accurately get the memo, ask his wife for suggestions on what he needs.

Thank you for day 10 of 2021 Blogmas themed miracle so extraordinary!

I love you and I really want to hear your suggestions in the comment section.

To read about good gifts for your boyfriend follow this link
http://joelalade.home.blog/2021/12/17/a-gift-for-him-this-christmas/

Vyolet:
I hope Oyemade Oyewunmi would be the next Soun of Ogbomosho.
He was he headboy in my secondary school then.

Never.

The kingship goes to the another ruling house.

bjt:
I heard the Ijapa died some years back, is it true?

Yes

Welcome to day 5 of 2021 Blogmas. I hope you are have a blast?

Today, I will be speaking on the topic why is Christmas also called Xmas?

Many Christians have alleged secular media of trying to erase Christ from Christmas by using Xmas instead of Christmas.

There is nothing farther from truth as nobody can remove Christ’s name from Christmas.

The truth is, Xmas is a common abbreviation of the word Christmas which originated as handwriting abbreviations.

The “X” comes from the Greek letter Chi, which is the first letter of the Greek word Christós (Greek: Χριστός), which became Christ in English. The suffix -mas is from the Old English word for Mass which means celebration.

Its uses date back to 19th century.

So rest, it is still the same Christmas by writing Xmas but don’t pronounce it as ex-mas.



For more click
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When FFK and his ex-wife were feeding themselves Oha soup all over social media and writing long romantic essays.

You are here commenting 'awwww'

'God when'

'Am I a spoon?'

Am I this? Am I that? Am I gbogbolo cigar?

But now dey say Booda bridge builder cannot can not (sorry for break in transmission).

Moral: your life is far more better than most of the social media yeyebrities you are hailing.

It’s another wonderful moment again on the journey highlighting the greatness of Christmas �.

Today is blogmas day 3 and I wish to appreciate you for your likings, comments and followings. It’s fantabulous!


Today, I will be writing on CHRISTIANS AND CHRISTMAS as to why we Christians keep Christmas despite not a single mention in the Bible commanding its celebration.


Firstly, who is a Christian? Simply put, a Christian is any person who has accepted Jesus Christ as his/her Lord and Savior.

Furthermore, what is Christmas? Christmas is a combination of two Greek terms; Christ which means Anointed One and Mass which means Celebration. Therefore Christmas is the celebration of the Anointed One – Jesus.

Because Jesus our Lord and Savior is the Anointed One, that is one of the reasons we celebrated Him.

Read more http://joelalade.home.blog/2021/12/07/christians-and-christmas/

The boy tried but all these political promises are fake. Shebi he is Nigerian?

Which speech our politicians haven't given us yet?

Las las, forget about the claps, the boy may lose the election glarindly. Those claps are nairalanders and twitterians of Nigeria elections, most of them just hail and stan politician without PVC.

Niger republic ��

Hiiii, brothers and sisters.

Thanks for the follows, likes and comments and welcome to the second day of my 2021 Blogmas.


Today I will be writing on 5 Christmas Hymns that can be sung for the season.


Caveat, my chosen hymns may not be ‘christmastic’ in nature.

That gotten, let’s go

1.Great is Thy faithfulness.
I choose this hymn first because if not the great faithfulness of God, why will Jesus came to this world to die. Ponder of the first verse of the song.

Great is thy faithfulness, O God my Father,
there is no shadow of turning with thee.
Thou changest not, thy compassions, they fail not;
as thou hast been, thou forever wilt be.
Refrain:
Great is thy faithfulness!
Great is thy faithfulness!
Morning by morning new mercies I see;
all I have needed thy hand hath provided.
Great is thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!
http://joelalade.home.blog/2021/12/06/5-christmas-hymns/

Helllllo brothers and sisters.

Christmas is here and we gotta celebrate it in big way decently

To make our 2021 Christmas awesome, I will be doing Blogmas (Blogging + Christmas) for 20 fantastic days starting from today on my website www.joelalade.home.blog.

Topics under discussion include:
1. Why is Christmas called Yuletide?
2. Christians and Christmas
3. Christmas or Xmas?
4. 10 Christmas traditions.
5. 5 Christmas hymns.

Remember to check my website at www.joelalade.home.blog every 9am to read, comment and like.

6. My Christmas story.
7. 25 Gifts ideas for your Mum for Christmas.
8. 25 Gifts ideas for your Dad for Christmas.
9. 25 Gifts ideas for Your Girlfriend for Christmas.
10. 25 Gifts ideas for Your Boyfriend for Christmas.

Website: www.joelalade.home.blog.

11. My wishlist
12. Christmas in the Old Testament.
13. Christmas in the New Testament.
14. My Christmas Playlist.
15. 5 Nigerian Dishes for Christmas.
16. 10 Super fun activities for Christmas.
17. What of if there is no Christmas?
18. Climatic change
19. 10 Christmas prayer.
20. 2022, here I come!

Remember to visit my blog at www.joelalade.home.blog and let's have a time of refreshing together.

I love you.

Merry Christmas.
#20DaysBlogMas.
#MiracleExtraordinaire.
#MerryChristmas

Though I am happily married.

But one thing seems to bother me as single and even now as married because it is still happening among singles.

What is the idea behind marriage proposal?
Why did our female folks go gaga when their boyfriends of 2-3 years go down on bended knees to ask them, 'will you marry me?'

As in you have been dating, going places together, sowing aso-ebí, get known to both parents, friends and families fighting, praying,planning, etc for up to 2 - 3 years?

Why are doing all these if not for marriage?
Why will you be unhappy and highly bothered that he has go on bended knees to pop the questions when you know he isn't double dealing?
And why are you surprised that your boyfriend of 2 years even 'proposed'? Are you not together to marry?