This is dangerous. You want an employee that will double up as a booty call. That is a toxic mix.

It is all in your head

I think this will save him a lot of time and hassle.imagine if he has to talk to 200 girls before finding his spec, that is if he was even lucky. This way, only the qualified will contact him

This is unrealistic. You are obviously not ready for marriage. If you can't foot the household bill 100 percent you have no right to claim a woman. Imagine if she gets pregnant and you still want her to keep working and spending on the family.

Never! They are the most racist and disdainful and ungrateful people I have ever met

This long introduction as if he found the cure for cancer and HIV

does anyone believe this?

She was decidedly one of the stupidest persons I've ever met. She was Zimbabwean and couldn't distinguish between slavery and colonialism. And even worse, she was of the opinion that white people in Zimbabwe should keep the lands they stole from Africans since, according to her, their forefathers stole the land and were therefore blameless. A bit petty of me but I just couldn't stomach that kind of historical insouciance and revisionism