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i havnt , stopped picking her calls, or replying her texts

lmao, is that not your junior bro lying on the floor??....lol

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Op Oyo is ur case......are these guys your younger ones?








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how it started and how it will end, lmao

sometimes i just ask myself, why me?

thank you for your advice guys

i appreciate bro

i am very grateful to you all for your concern and advice, but those thinking its a madeup story it's not, really it isnt....

What made them issue me a query at work was because i planted myself at home for 3days, without going to work and even without any prior notice to my employees about my unforseen absence..

She was still in the compound all along for 4days,"Sunday evening till Wednesday" she left Wednesday evening, under my watchfull eyes, without her noticing.

she has been calling me all along till now, but i cant pick her calls or reply her messages..

Till now i feel my whole world has crashed...

i would go straight to the point without beating around the bush.

I am so sad as i am writing this article, because i dont know if i can ever trust a woman ever in my life or fall in love again...

i have a gf whom i love so so so much, i show her how much i love her with every single opportunity i have...we both finished serving this year April to be precise and since then we have been job hunting, we finished from the same school, and since then any chance we had to hookup we would and have a great time and try to recover the time that had divided us..

After service, i stayed in Lag and she stayed with her parents in Delta state, on the long run after hussling i finally got a job in Abuja nyanya precisely, i relocated to abuja thankfully i had a friend who lives close to where i got employment so im temporarily staying with him...

So my gf had been in Delta all this while with her parents, job hunting also, one reason why i love this girl so much is because she is a go getter, she isnt like any other girl that depend on her bf or someone else to get her basic needs, she doesnt mind to work to get what she wants. she is intelligent and Hardworking, infact a wife material.

All along i have been applying online for her also to see if we can be lucky to get her a job also, but none has been forthcoming so far.

Now, she called me last week that she got an appointment with someone that said he was gonna give her a job in a bank here in abuja, somewhere in maitama, i was happy for her and she gave me the arrangements on when she would be coming to abuja and i was happy that finally i would see the woman of my dreams...

She came to Abuja last week friday 4th, i was still at work when she touched down abuja, she called me and i told her we would see after the whole interview was done, God how happy i was then...

3pm that same friday she called me and said that she is leaving back to Delta, i was shocked and asked her why, what could be the problem, she said the interview didnt go well as she planned and she had another interview in delta the next day, and her flight was 4:30pm, i was sad, but what could i do, i wished her journey mercies back to delta...

We talked throught on saturday

Now this is where i am shattered.....

On Sunday evening 6th, i was in the kitchen preparing something for dinner for me and my guy, then one of the compound children opened the gate for a car to come in, the compound i stay has tenants and its usually filled during the weekends, so i looked through the kitchen window and looked outside to see my neighbour enter the compound with his car, i was still looking because i saw that he came back with a girl this time around. lucky him i said in my mind..

He parked the car, and came out, then the second door opened and the lady came out, to God who made me i wish i wasnt born to withness this kind of heartbreaking scene, My gf came out of the car, and the man held her and both of them went to the man's apartment....

i was still in the kitchen, i couldnt move or speak, my eyes were filled with tears this is a girl i had made up my mind to marry..

i didnt know what to do , so i just summoned up the courage i had and dialled her phone. she picked i asked her where she was she said she was at home in her room, listening to music, the music coming out of the man's room was the same i was hearing coming out of the phone..

i still could believe it, so i showed my friend her picture on my phone and asked him to go to the man's house to just greet him and familiarize abit and confirm if the girl on my phone was the same in the man;s house...

He came back and confirmed it said she was the one...

Till now i still dont know if i can recover from this....

i hardly eat , i am not facing my new job as i should because they have already issued me my first query...

i need your advice and if you have been in this kind of situation before how did you come out of it.,,.... please help a brother out



im sorry for the long writeup

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Moral of the story, always Fight to to stay where u know u belong, no Matter the weather...

Be like the professor #ArseneWenger

and in 2014

2013

Then in 2012

This was way back in 2011..