Romance › Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 12:45pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 12:17pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Oem18: Ma'am don't listen to them it's a simple question do you love him and does he love you. Resolve that and the rest will fall in place. eggxactly |
Romance › Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 12:13pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent: Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.
You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.
Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.
Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?
I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.
Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.
I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.
NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:
You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!
Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.
You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?
A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.
To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.
If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.
Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.
Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.
Please break up with him. I have no option for peace.
Sorry, I don't mince words. Have a nice century. 1stly, What if marrying him then would have cut the guy success. Now the guy is balanced, if there was love(if anything like that word as a word) between them, he wouldn't reason that she wants to use him. 2ndly, my 1st paragraph was based on your comment narrating the guy was in Nigeria with her before travelling. As clearly as that is not the case (from OPs post, probably you didn't read by lines). 3 months, is it not too short to meet and know a person to the extent of accepting forever? And most likely, they weren't together the 3 months, he must have travelled back after xmas. For him it could just be to have and keep her as one of his quick sure calls whenever in Nigeria ( asking for marriage has never been a guarantee to the actual marriage, some break up after years). Knowing he had no actual plan of marriage, the girl repeatedly asking about marriage will be a serious disturbance to him and couldn't hide it anymore. 3rdly, OP repeatedly asking for marriage does a girl no good, you'll only appear desperate or after something (as in your case). Except it's a guy who actually shows that it's his intention too but needs a little pushing ( a little pushing, don't pester him or change attitude coz of it, that might be the red flag on you that'll spoil things). There are ways to hint a guy that he's taking too long. ( e.g so so person came and is asking me to be his gf/wife, a known friend is wedding soon, can you imagine/believe etc). Make i ask sha, shey he don chop your kpomo? |
Romance › Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 11:50am On Jul 14, 2022 |
siofra: Before are they swimming in riches you first throw the punch is what I'm showing you |
Romance › Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 11:45am On Jul 14, 2022 |
siofra: Show me where I insulted you guys in my first mention i am not for anybody, but you said they were drowning in poverty |
Business To Business › Sold by Alfabest07(op): 1:34pm On Jul 13, 2022*. Modified: 6:25pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Sold |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 12:28pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Ibenny: No, I even had to call them to confirm but they advised I open a dollar account with them and get a dollar card. But I didn't.
Now, I'm using Payoneer virtual card and it has been going swiftly. Have not experienced any issues with them yet. At what rate? The payoneer |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Alfabest07(m): 10:53am On Jul 13, 2022 |
olamilarks: are you joking? Your budget can only afford a face me I slap you room in the areas you prefer bro. 200k for total package or annual rent only? |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Alfabest07(m): 12:44pm On Jul 10, 2022*. Modified: 2:15pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Qlink Champion 200cc 2021 (dispatch bike) personal used Engine never tampered Few months of usage, not up to 5. Little replacements to make (e.g foot rest, trafficator pointers) Some papers not expired
Price: 230k (slightly negotiable)
Location: Oshodi, lagos. Contact in signature below
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Alfabest07(m): 11:41am On Jul 09, 2022 |
iamkingdaniel: Good day Everone, If you are moving out of your apartment or you know of an apartment within 150k or ready to merge so we rent one and split the bill, please quote me. I tried so hard to save up 150k for this, Agency and commission no gree me pay for house, Help a Brother please. Thank you. In which country? |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Alfabest07(m): 1:12pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
I have some clippers for sale
PHILLIPS 10k Rarely used
Original CHAOBA 7K barely used (both was personal)
Pick both for 15k
Universal Mifi 8k Battery lasts for really long
Location.. Oshodi, Lagos. Contact in signature below...
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Alfabest07(m): 9:56am On Jul 05, 2022 |
Holyness123: no do so oga, you don take am run dispatch business for long abi.....i go still do repairs na... consider me oga i have a Qlink champion 2021, about 3-4months used. Quote me if you'd be interested, I'll send you pics 300k (slightly negotiable) There's box & papers (few to be renewed) |
Phones › Re: Subscriber Options for UNLIMITED Internet - WORTH IT? by Alfabest07(m): 12:12pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
georgee: I am a living witness.. Pls run away from Tizeti
But go ahead if you wish to waste money
All the best Okay, will make my extra research, could be better in my area, i see lots of it around. Thanks |
Phones › Re: Subscriber Options for UNLIMITED Internet - WORTH IT? by Alfabest07(m): 6:08pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
georgee: Run away from Tizeti oo why do you say so please? |
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by Alfabest07(m): 9:43am On Jun 29, 2022 |
just2endowed: I buy dead redmi 9t or redmi note 10/s or MI 9t as scrap.
Chat me up Redmi 9t.. How much? |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 7:48pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Olaoptech: Debit. A domiciliary account has no rate in as much you're spending in the same currency you opened it with ok sir |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 12:49pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Mfunkynation: the card works flawlessly on AE how do you get money into the card? Coz I've received the card years ago but couldn't fund coz they said the account is only for receiving payments. |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 12:45pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
WaytoGo: Hmmm. Me, that I have already deleted their apps after 15 days of waiting.
Na wetin sef! I should wait for 2 weeks just to open and operate an account when banks are looking for customers everywhere? Loll i believe there's a perk to it, if worth the wait, why not? |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 12:43pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Ibenny: Please who has used Payoneer virtual card to order from AliExpress?
I wanted to use Access bank naira visa card but they said their limit is $50 limit. Is there any better alternative please? were you able to fund your card though? |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 12:40pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Olaoptech: Mine took 17days before it was sorted. But the ATM took only 5days. And it was delivered to my doorstep credit or debit card? What's their rate if you know? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Church Member Becomes Mentally Deranged After Burning Her Village Shrine by Alfabest07(m): 1:42pm On Jun 02, 2022 |
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Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 9:56pm On May 30, 2022 |
Ampsolve1: Guys where is 4px office in Nigeria. My package is with them since yesterday. And they are saying delivery failed when they did not even call me your item is at nipost, expect thier call anytime tomorrow or next |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 1:32pm On May 26, 2022 |
roughneck: I was at first bank to complain about declined card on my AliExpress transactions and I was told CBN had directed that they all stop international transactions with naira cards be it visa, master or whatever service provider. First bank's monthly limit for dollar transaction was 50 dollars before this development. is all this directiv3 by cbn to strengthen naira or to what aim please? |
Crime › Re: NDLEA Arrests 7 Drug Dealers, Records Largest Cocaine Seizure At Rivers Airport by Alfabest07(m): 4:15pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
MC Oluomo is working.. |
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Alfabest07(m): 10:22am On Mar 24, 2022 |
AmandaLuv: Hello xiaomi lovers. Please I was updating my phone the other day and I do not know how this came about nor what it is. Is it OK for me to delete it cos its taking up space in my phone. Tnx its the update file downloaded. If you're done updating, its safe to delete. |
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by Alfabest07(m): 7:20am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Bmuhd4smile: I want one 2... but ali na long thing for me its to order and chill.. E suppose enter in about a month |
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by Alfabest07(m): 10:06pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
Bmuhd4smile: Hi,
Who have honor band 6 for sale I'm looking to buy this from Aliexpress this promo period, no seller has it here. |
Phones › Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Alfabest07(m): 6:30pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
oluadex99: Pls what's d solution to this redmi 9t deadboot issue my fone still in coma you didn't take it to Raya? Abi you have void warranty |
Technology Market › Re: This Thread Is Only For Aliexpress Shopper by Alfabest07(m): 8:38pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Ifeanyi4491: Even access bank customers care are not even sure of their cards limit.. check the time on each of the posts, they update as they make change to the limit |
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by Alfabest07(m): 8:28pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
OMYKROIN: You don use your other moniker to reply me, you think you are doing me ba?  they dey try bring you up, you dey bring yourself down |
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by Alfabest07(m): 8:26pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
Mfunkynation: does it work with data from sme data reseller? nope it doesn't.. I purchased 10gb from a reseller this week after my double data sub exhausted |
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by Alfabest07(m): 8:22pm On Mar 19, 2022 |
jboixxx: [color=#0000ff] Deceit? Hian. Ask and you'll be informed by those who know better.
I was enjoying MTN 121 double data until about 2 weeks ago that my line was not eligible. I contacted Chido and he did what he had to do for N700. I got 6 months eligibility message. Does that look like deceit?
Also, MTN x2 data offer is limited: only when automatically selected and when you are, you have only 1 or 2 data sub options but with own Chido's, even if you sub for 10MB, you'll get double.
Don't forget, his responsibility is just to make a line eligible for a charge of N700. I sub my sub via normal USSD code.
No issues, just getting you informed. [/color] is him feeling like the smartest in the room for me..  |