₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
The fear is good, it would help you to be more cautious.

Don't pray to 'overcome' the fear, get to the root cause and address it.

I like that you admitted that you did not know your husband before marrying him:

One of your take aways is 'you need to KNOW' your prospective husband.

Review why the marriage failed and it helps you determine what you don't want or can't tolerate in a husband. Also go on a journey of self-discovery to help you know what you want /what qualities of a man would complement you and be on the lookout for them.

Thank you

I was married 4yrs back without knowing the man is mentally ill, everything happened just in a rush from our first meeting to the marriage its self just happens in 2months time and we just meet once face to face, the 2nd was during wedding time (it's my qadr and I accept it wholeheartedly)
I was treated very badly by him I was beaten up many times he slap me in any misunderstanding I suffered alot in those 8months, before my parents got me separated from him after learning he is mentally unstable from his family, though he didn't divorce me untill after I spent another 8months in my parents house saying he loves me he will not divorce me, my uncle threaten him of going to court before he handed the divorce paper to me.
now I really want to get married, but am very afraid of been married again I use to feel why would I go back to that terrible life but deep down I feel I want my own home, my own family, I want to see my own children
how can I overcome this please

ephi123:
Na wa. Oga Johnny Walker.

Your house is on fire and yet you are travelling up and down. What exactly is lost that Buhari is looking for all about?

you again

and then will say respect women

and then will say respect women

08033911534

gudbadgyal:
Oh please, don't abort. I love kids damn much. Wish I could get one right now. But mum says kids are only after marriage. Mhen can't wait any long

u can't wait any long.ok oooh

point of correction.not everyone maybe is you and ur so call christians friends

hi I'ven following ur post.an I most is very intersected the way help pple here.

let me make my short.we meet 2days ago.and we exchange no.we i talk to her the very day she reply.and wen i come across your dis ur post.an decided to sy some funny things i see here to her.guess what? her reply was if i didn't mind my word she'll block me.

pls is what do I do now?

if care not taking.then will still open fire for us here nairaland.bro kuku mind ur word ooh

cktheluckyman:
Enough of these infantile threats!! While the burning of the mosque is condemable these threats are becomming annoying!! Churches have been burnt and southerners killed in the north before and heavens did not fall.

The east is presently charged up and any killing of igbos anywhere in the north will be met with vicious reprisals and will lead to unctrollable violence across the entire northern and eastern region.!!! No one has a monopoly of violence!! It is only a tree that won't fight back if it is been cut down.

see who is taking.have you even been in north.
or can u tell me where are where northern burn churches like u say just like that.

cktheluckyman:
Enough of these infantile threats!! While the burning of the mosque is condemable these threats are becomming annoying!! Churches have been burnt and southerners killed in the north before and heavens did not fall.

The east is presently charged up and any killing of igbos anywhere in the north will be met with vicious reprisals and will lead to unctrollable violence across the entire northern and eastern region.!!! No one has a monopoly of violence!! It is only a tree that won't fight back if it is been cut down.

see who is taking.have you even been in north.
or can u tell me where are where northern burn churches like u say just like that.

ishiamu:
Yes sir

no I don't think u`r. why don't u go back n Edit DT nonsense u write up their maybe we will talk.
beko

ishiamu:
Lawd have mercy, buhari are you not tired of killing your brothers and innocent souls?

Nawa ooo Trully fulani people are heartless

are u sure u`r ok

i am taping dis with full of joy in my heart.i mean my heart is bleeding in joy.that's all we want let jonathan start packing. SAI BABA SAI BUHARI

no be small tin ooh :'

idupaul:
Too many Mad people in Nigeria

Wlh u can say dat again.

chidanzy:
How pls I need data like crazeeey show meee the way oh jare

call diz no.08033911534.

ireneony:
God forbid bad thing I can never be so desperate for marriage like this.
Since she is the one the propose, then she will be the one to pay bride price and better still pay for the arrangement of the wedding
.....she don become man like that

u see!