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EducationRe: Aminat Tajudeen, Ilorin Student Slumps, Dies During Lecture by Allardyce: 9:39am On Apr 14, 2023
See how the Muslim moderator is deleting comments on frontpage.
PoliticsRe: You Can’t Drag Igbo Into Another War, Ohanaeze Tells Ekpa by Allardyce: 4:03pm On Apr 13, 2023
Slurity:
Stop that nonsense. MC Oluomo is here in the country eventhogh he made some senseless statements in the last election which are not acceptable, but to put him in same class with Simon is just too ridiculous. How many people has died due to Mc Oluomo statements? Common! Stop this hatred and bias
Only a fool will see my comment as hate filled
PoliticsRe: You Can’t Drag Igbo Into Another War, Ohanaeze Tells Ekpa by Allardyce: 9:53am On Apr 13, 2023
This miscreant needs to be arrested.
He is just like MC Oluomo of the S/East.
PoliticsRe: Politics Section Moderator Wanted by Allardyce: 9:16am On Apr 12, 2023
Dear Seun,

I humbly apply for the job.

PoliticsRe: Why Tinubu Forfeited $460,000 In US — APC Tells Court by Allardyce: 7:55am On Apr 12, 2023
OgaSeun:
Mumu, it has never been denied
See how you're insulting your father this morning
PoliticsRe: Why Tinubu Forfeited $460,000 In US — APC Tells Court by Allardyce: 6:36pm On Apr 11, 2023
They are admitting that he forfeited that huge sum.
Good, dem go hear am grin
FamilyRe: Marriage Has Failed Me! by Allardyce: 4:55pm On Apr 11, 2023
BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.
Did you hurt someone in the past that you can recall?

Let's start from there
Music/RadioRe: Rema: Calm Down/Holiday - The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon by Allardyce: 11:52am On Apr 11, 2023
Holiday, my favorite. grin

Rema is good
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 11:21am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
All the yeye and silly that I've been calling them since are what? Mtcheww this one is high grin . Don't worry I'll host any repentant obidients during Asiwaju's swearing in. But the unrepentant ones will be served hot.
Keep shedding tears 🤣
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 11:06am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
Have you ever seen me complain about ban? Definitely NO but do it justly and it's fine. I want it to be justified this time around that's why I'm giving them enough justifiable reasons this time.
Go and insult them or anyone and see 😂
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 11:02am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
I swear the tears are for you. You attach so much to this ban of a thing. If I give a damn I won't be daring you and the silly moderators. They should act fast please.
This ban pain you wallahi

PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:58am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
Keep being her slave till eternity. Are your moderators sleeping? grin grin grin or they've gone numb. Haven't I dared them enough?
Why are you so eager to be disgrace?
grin
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:55am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
I swear seun no reach, seun o ni apology is mighty for your likes and definitely not someone like me. Most of you here that rant don't even have that guts to approach me outside here. Bkos I dy follow una play? Enjoy the internet privilege.
Don't stop crying 😂😂😂
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:55am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
The old Iyaebe sold your foremothers and father's into slavery and enriched herself and her dynasty, conquered territories, so who are you ? Abeg shift.
I am the one that she spent the money on for handling her Kpekus well. grin
CrimeRe: Suspected Murderer Of Khadi Adeshina Olayinka In Police Custody by Allardyce: 10:54am On Apr 11, 2023
Jennyclay:
God will soon expose you too.

Nonsense!!
Check your dad records before you call God.

Nonsense.
CrimeRe: Suspected Murderer Of Khadi Adeshina Olayinka In Police Custody by Allardyce: 10:49am On Apr 11, 2023
Jennyclay:
were you there when the incident happened? Do you really know what transpired?

Nigerian men are so wicked and evil. The man successfully carried out his wicked agenda then ran away, only for him to report to the police himself so that people would think he's innocent
Stale.
Find a new creative hate campaign towards Nigerian men.
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:48am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
So you can be this silly with an alternate grin grin grin wonders shall never end. Haven't I dared the moderators enough, what are they still waiting for? grin grin grin do you have prick to disvirgin anyone? Silly thing.
The old Iyaebe enjoyed it thoroughly. grin
CrimeRe: Suspected Murderer Of Khadi Adeshina Olayinka In Police Custody by Allardyce: 10:43am On Apr 11, 2023
Jennyclay:
The man is a rapist and a Murderer.

The man raped and murdered the lady in cold blood.

Why are Nigerian men so evil and heartless huh undecided
Stale already.
PoliticsRe: FLASHBACK: How Tinubu Was Arrested Twice In America Over Drug, Money Laundering by Allardyce: 10:38am On Apr 11, 2023
Give FFK food and he will insult his father. grin
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:34am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
call nlfpmod and the rest. They should do quick and stop being silly. Na you Dy fear ban like your life depends on it. Yeye
Stop crying 😂😂😂😂
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:33am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
I'm deactivating that monika but with one last post that will shake the forum. The seun o ni apology aka the obidients puppet should carry on with their very biased silly ways. cheesy
Lol, stop crying 😂😂😂😂
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:28am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
No, it's the witch hunt else why will you be roaming freely till this time when you are long overdue for a life ban? Tell them I said they are very silly and incompetent. Oya be gone
If you come out from ban, better behave yourself. Enjoy your ban grin
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:26am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
I pity the person that seun o ni apology is in relationship or married to. Obi diots puppet he is. Oya don't you ever mention me again. Main man ko main man ni
You can't even walk in the same path Seun's girlfriend is walking.
Mgbeke feeling funky. grin
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:16am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
Oya quit mentioning me, I didn't know of your existence here before. I'm suspecting you are one of those silly moderators using this alternate account. I don't indulge small boys and please stay on your lane
Oh, I am now a moderator? This ban pain you walahi grin
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:15am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
If I really want to be silly here I'll ask my boy to create multiple emails down for me so I can keep multiple accounts but it's not worth it. I have some packages for you all obi diots come may 29th. Watch out for it. Rubbish
Seun our main man will attend to you. grin
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 10:12am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
Please stop mentioning that seun o ni apology on my mentions. You see you have no proof. The truth is I always have contrary opinions and as an expressive person I'll just comment but silly people like you and the incompetent moderators won't act in a civil way by minding your business abi did my mother asked any of you to help her train me? Mtcheww
Your tears are flowing. grin
CrimeRe: Suspected Murderer Of Khadi Adeshina Olayinka In Police Custody by Allardyce: 9:41am On Apr 11, 2023
For him to present himself voluntarily to the police and the staff who gave a little details of the situation shows that there's more to this case.

Some people are just walking corpse, that's why I don't allow any friend most especially girls spend more than 4hrs in my house.
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 9:32am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
Oya show me where I'm first to throw insults? I'm waiting for this
Comment that has been taken down by our Oga Seun? grin
PoliticsRe: All You Need To Know About Tinubu’s Alleged $460k Forfeiture Over Cocaine Links by Allardyce: 9:31am On Apr 11, 2023
Esortigress:
You are silly sissy , small boy like you wants to carry overload. I'm not used to calling moderators sef on anyone till you and your numerous Monika's and moderators started you rubbish. May 29th is here, get ready for peppering. I shall be keeping this monika for that purpose solely.
Anything else? grin

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