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Politics / Re: Soldiers Enjoy Their Meat In Sambisa Forest (photos) by AlomoReloaded: 7:21pm On Aug 15, 2019
These people are really suffering o.... I don't see how this kinda meat should make me feel excited..... May God see them through and bring back a sense of proper reasoning into them, so that they'll stop making us hate them more and more. undecided undecided undecided

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Autos / Re: Ad Renewed by AlomoReloaded: 1:55pm On Aug 15, 2019
What happened to the passenger airbag . What are the major faults with the car? Can you please enlighten us(me)
Politics / Re: Nigerian Army Issues ‘red Alert’ To Soldiers Dealing With Nigeria Police(photos) by AlomoReloaded: 10:36am On Aug 12, 2019
Old Trafford, theatre of dreams.... God bless Man U... Nigeria, theatre of jokes.. who curse Nigeria, abeg?? undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Romance / Re: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by AlomoReloaded: 10:14am On Aug 12, 2019
Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.



Heediot!!!!! Others dey get depressed because money wey we dey expect, no gree land, this pvssy dey get depressed, because woman leave am!!!! You deserve to be flogged!!! Nonsense!!!!!! angry angry angry angry

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Crime / Re: Soldiers Storm Jakande Detaining Policemen Over Death Of Lagos Trader by AlomoReloaded: 8:39pm On Aug 10, 2019
If to say na Aba, those policeman smoke for don dey go up as burnt offering by now... angry angry angry angry

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Crime / Re: Man Beaten Blue And Black In Warri For Burglary (Video) by AlomoReloaded: 10:33am On Aug 09, 2019
Them no beat am well naa... See as him face still fresh .... I wish buhari and other politicians can be beaten this way or even more for all the hardship they caused us.
Phones / Re: Samsung Galaxy Note 10 And Note 10 Plus - Things You Should Know by AlomoReloaded: 8:45am On Aug 08, 2019
No thanks... Still rocking my RN7... Ain't no phone that's gonna take the place of that phone....ever. wink wink wink
Programming / Re: Basil Okpara Jr, Biography, Age, Nigerian Programmer Who Built 30 Mobile Games by AlomoReloaded: 11:30am On Aug 07, 2019
johnmartus:
You should be ashamed of yourself There's nothing to be proud of being igbo . Many of friends don't want to be address as igbo
Ezzi ófía!!!!!!!

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Crime / Re: Man Steals Senator Araraume Bag At The Airport Got Caught by AlomoReloaded: 10:05am On Aug 06, 2019
Did anybody see the part of the wristwatch each costing 12000$? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Car Talk / Re: Honda E’s Dual Touchscreen Dashboard Featured In Video Demonstration by AlomoReloaded: 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2019
Cute car... Innoson go reach there soon

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Romance / Re: Signs His Not Just That Into You by AlomoReloaded: 7:28am On Jul 31, 2019
2011 post in 2019 angry angry angry
What dafuq is wrong with nairaland, biko nú?? angry angry angry angry angry
Crime / Re: Troops Repel Terrorist's Attack In Baga, Kill 10 (PHOTO) by AlomoReloaded: 10:49am On Jul 30, 2019
Correct.... Gallant soldiers... May God protect you guys.

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Politics / Re: Strange Events /signs Of The End Time by AlomoReloaded: 4:56am On Jul 27, 2019
You don't know that Indonesia is a Muslim country, op
Politics / Re: Nkechi Okorocha’s Estate Sealed By EFCC (Photo, Video) by AlomoReloaded: 4:41am On Jul 27, 2019
Bragalane:
When will this foolish man do a video of all the estate of former n present PDP governors wives n relatives ? I am a living witness there is no former PDP governors wives that do not own more than 3 of such estate. Patience Ebele estate is nearly an entire LGA in Abuja n Bayelsa.

Allison Madukwe built twin tower bigger than Trump Towers in Banana Island but I guess that is not greed according cursed & foolish PDP sycophants


Your reasoning is so immature shaa.... That the opposing party is also doing it doesn't mean we shouldn't condemn it... Everything mustn't be about political parties... Let's use our common sense. Do you know the pains that imolites went through in the hands of Rochas and his avaricious wife Bros, fear God and call evil by its name!!!! angry angry angry angry

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Crime / Re: Two Men Docked For Engaging Girl, 13, In Sex Romp by AlomoReloaded: 8:26am On Jul 16, 2019
Nigeria just dey finish more and more... Na to kuku castrate the two bastards.... But that girl don professional porn starlet.... Hammering party at ordinary 13yrs... God have mercy!!! undecided undecided undecided undecided
Politics / Re: Insecurity: I ‘ll Continue To Prioritise Military Training – Buhari by AlomoReloaded: 12:02pm On Jul 14, 2019
How's it working out? With boko haramú using the soldiers to play birdshooting game.... Abegi... Sack your useless service chiefs.. They are as useless as a used menstrual pad. angry angry angry

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Phones / Re: Please Choose A Phone For Me by AlomoReloaded: 10:07am On Jul 14, 2019
steryj:
Thanks a lot for recommending this superb phone for me. Redni note 7. It's wonderful.
You are most welcome bro. That phone is the bomb... No disadvantage at all... I can boldly say it with fear of equivocation... You'll surely enjoy the phone

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Politics / Re: The Crime Of The Igbo's By Akubueze by AlomoReloaded: 8:11am On Jul 14, 2019
Infinityk:
Lol I see this fake news everyday on fb
Go to Facebook
Another person will write Yorubas
Another one Hausa
Hmm these ppl and fake news
They always look for an avenue to boast
Empty barrels make d loudest noise
Sore loosers
Before you come and rant like a he goat being frustrated by a she-goat, tell us if there's any falsehood in the post... Point it out and give your proof, and I'll pay you any amount you want.

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Health / Re: CiSHAN Reacts As Rivers Nurse Talks About HIV Patients At Her Hospital by AlomoReloaded: 11:15am On Jul 13, 2019
Gistformant:
The Civil Society for HIV/AIDS in Nigeria (CiSHAN), has started off an investigation and a petition to relevant authorities against the nurse who exposed the identites of HIV patients at the hospital she works with in Rivers State.

CiSHAN condemned the act which they say will not only encourage other people to stigmatize and discriminate against people living with HIV/AIDS in Nigeria, but will also increase the already high stigma index in the country. It also revealed that preliminary investigation revealed that the nurse's name is Deborah Chinasa Anaba, and not Ejimbe Lilian as claimed in her Facebook handle.

The statement reads in full;




See more here; http://gistmore.com/cishan-reacts-after-nurse-exposed-identity-of-hiv-patients-at-her-hospital
Her busy body stupidity has landed her into trouble. I hope other loud mouthed nurses learn lesson from this stvpid nurse.

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Crime / Re: Depressed EBSU Student Rescued In The Nick Of Time by AlomoReloaded: 11:05am On Jul 13, 2019
Why him no die naa... Una for let am die!!!!! Nonsense and Ruga!!!! angry angry angry angry
Crime / Re: ‘our Native Doctor Asked Us To Get Skulls Of People We Know For Money Rituals’ - by AlomoReloaded: 10:57am On Jul 13, 2019
Okay... Awon skull miners... Na them shaa... I knew before opening the thread....
But this combo is highly confusing, to the gods.... undecided undecided undecided undecided
Let the law take it's course
Politics / Re: More Nigerians Are Poorer Than Decade Before 2017 by AlomoReloaded: 3:18pm On Jul 12, 2019
We now av more cows, than the previous millennium... More
Poverty among the people and more affluence & influence among the cattle.
All thanks to m.buhari undecided undecided undecided
Politics / Re: Don't Carry Drugs To The Holy Land, Dabiri Warns Pilgrims by AlomoReloaded: 4:46pm On Jul 11, 2019
rentAcock:
These people just don't want Nigerians to spread their culture. How can you ban kolanut, one of the most symbolic aspect of our culture? When did kolanut become a narcotic or controlled substance? Same way they banned indomie and gala into America. I was lucky enough to travel to New York on a business trip, I took Arik. Upon exiting the airport, the airport agents had set up two big dustbins. They started asking us if we had gala or indomie we should say so. Everyone who were honest enough to tell the truth had their indomie and gala thrown away.

This is pure madness, we cannot export our food but they can bring in anything into nigeria without restrictions.
What you are eating in Nigeria is bullshït.... Not food. You can't export bullshït to a reasonable country that eats "Food."

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs South Africa: AFCON Quarter Final (2 - 1) Full Time by AlomoReloaded: 12:33pm On Jul 10, 2019
robosky02:
AFCON Quater Final

Nigeria vs South Africa:

Wed 10 july

Time: 8pm

Venue: Cairo International Stadium.



Nigeria will take on South Africa in the quarter-final of this year’s Africa Cup of Nations.

The Super Eagles eliminated defending champions Cameroon in their Round of 16 clash on Saturday.

Gernot Rohr’s men won 3-2, despite losing 2-1 at the break.

Bafana Bafana shocked hosts Egypt later in the day.

Stuart Baxter’s men were not given a chance against the Pharoahs, but produced a fine display of counter-attacking football to win 1-0.

Thembinkosi Lorch grabbed the winner with five minutes left.

Nigeria vs South Africa will be played on July 10 at the Cairo International Stadium.

Kick off is 8pm West African time.


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/sports/football/339309-breaking-nigeria-beat-cameroon-in-five-goal-thriller-qualify-for-afcon-quarter-final.html
Dunno whyi have this feeling, but Nigeria is surely going to lose to South Africa.... Nigeria will certainly loose.

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Car Talk / Re: Breaking: UNN Produces Electric Car by AlomoReloaded: 11:19am On Jul 09, 2019
Good one... If only Nigeria is United enough to improve on these potentials, that Nigerians keep manifesting daily, we'll be catching up with countries like China.... But no... We prefer to place cattle affairs over human affairs and cattle sense over common sense.... Running a government of the cows by the cows and for the cows....taking Nigeria less than even the least African country.... May God save us, with the regressive mindset of the region ruling us now.

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Travel / Re: This Is Washington DC USA Flood: Not Nigeria, Not Lagos And Definitely Not Lekki by AlomoReloaded: 6:24am On Jul 09, 2019
NgeneUkwenu:
I blame Buhari for this..
I'll throw a celebration...a big party, the very day you'll exhibit sense... Wallahi. undecided undecided undecided

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Sports / Re: Breaking: UEFA Deny Reports That Argentina Will Play In UEFA Nations League by AlomoReloaded: 2:44pm On Jul 08, 2019
Chai... Make Messi kuku retire o... Soon he'll fizzle out like Rooney.... Let him retire now that he's started rubbishing himself indirectly by what's popping with Argentine team

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Crime / Re: Woman Kicked Out Of Plane After Passengers Complained Of Her "indecent" Dressing by AlomoReloaded: 12:09pm On Jul 08, 2019
Abkreizi:
Stc
So fvcking what?? angry angry angry angry
Autos / Re: Lagos: Brandnew 2013 Mercedes Benz Viano @ 37m by AlomoReloaded: 8:19am On Jul 08, 2019
More picture and videos of the bullet proof with testing video showing OP inside the vehicle while being shot at with abaala made gun.

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Car Talk / Re: Coscharis Motor To Start Producing Renault Cars In Nigeria by AlomoReloaded: 12:49pm On Jul 07, 2019
Infinityk:
They are going to assemble
Will people die if they tell the truth
Why are you embittered?? Why are you an enemy of progress Whether they assemble or even service, what's your headache?? Is it in your father's house?? Efforts are being made to take this country higher and reduce unemployment brought about by your god backward buhari that your people hoisted upon this country, yet you children of hate will never applaud any good deed as long as it's done by an Igbo.... Keep wallowing in self hate, while Igbos do things that will help them to progress!!! Ndí úchú ndí úchú

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