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Career › Re: Mutale Winfridah: Zambian Female Banker Suspended For Sleeping With 200 Men by AlomoReloaded: 5:35pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
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Phones › Re: How Much To Sell My Phone by AlomoReloaded: 1:04pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
phemiee1810: Good Morning guys ive got a lil issh and i would be needing your advise i have a redmi note7pro the 3/32 GB RAM/ROM got it two months ago still new got the accesories the issh is i want to sell it but im confused on how much to sell it i got it for 58k i would appreciate you kind contributions Leave it at 55k... You can finally sell at 50k, minimum. |
Autos › Re: What Are Frequent Problems Of Volvo V40 (2009)? by AlomoReloaded: 7:02pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
ibomike: Kindly list the frequent challenges associated with Volvo V40. I'm considering it for a first car. You may advice as well. Thanks in anticipation of your sincere response. Copy to Valarinz |
Christianity Etc › Re: 41-Day Fasting Lands Ebonyi Student In Hospitalised by AlomoReloaded: 11:07am On Sep 07, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: IPOB Wait In New Jersey To Give Ugwuanyi And Utazi The Ekweremadu Treatment(pic) by AlomoReloaded: 11:00am On Sep 03, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: FBI Arrests Another Batch Of Nigerians For Alleged Credit Card Scam by AlomoReloaded: 3:19pm On Aug 30, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Gov. Ikpeazu Receives Abia Born Football Legend, Kanu Nwankwo(photos) by AlomoReloaded: 11:43am On Aug 29, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Gov. Ikpeazu Receives Abia Born Football Legend, Kanu Nwankwo(photos) by AlomoReloaded: 9:24am On Aug 29, 2019 |
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Car Talk › Re: This One-off BMW X6 In Vantablack Finish Is The Darkest Car In The World by AlomoReloaded: 6:53pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Dawda Jawara Is Dead! The Gambia's Founding President Dies Aged 95 by AlomoReloaded: 10:19am On Aug 28, 2019 |
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Fashion › Re: 8 Fashion Brands We All Know By Name But Haven't Seen The Faces Behind Them by AlomoReloaded: 8:27pm On Aug 27, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: As Anambra Clocks 28 Years Today, See Aerial View Of State Capital, Awka (Photo) by AlomoReloaded: 8:11pm On Aug 27, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Accident Happened At Edo/abuja Express Way by AlomoReloaded: 3:29pm On Aug 27, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: BREAKING: Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Arrested by AlomoReloaded: 10:28am On Aug 27, 2019 |
If only buhari will live up to expectations instead of being a deadbeat mofo |
Politics › Re: Oil Discovered In Lagos Water Wells by AlomoReloaded: 7:03pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
Jobac: This is not a good news to Ibo people. They will rush in now 1 2 3...some of them won't sleep tonight. God has always been on our sides, and he will never leave all Yoruba sons and daughters. We are blessed with everything that is why Ibo people are envious. God bless all Omo Oodua!
PS: crude oil or no crude oil, we are blessed. Just negodu odírí mmadú iberiibe nke a.... I tire for some people reasoning shaa.... Ndí úchú |
Crime › Re: 23 Nigerians To Be Executed In Saudi Arabia (Names, Full List) by AlomoReloaded: 7:52pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
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Car Talk › Re: Is Innoson IVM G80 A Rebadged Chinese-Made BAIC BJ80 SUV? See The Similarities by AlomoReloaded: 3:34pm On Aug 19, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Soldiers Enjoy Their Meat In Sambisa Forest (photos) by AlomoReloaded: 7:21pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
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Autos › Re: Ad Renewed by AlomoReloaded: 1:55pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
What happened to the passenger airbag . What are the major faults with the car? Can you please enlighten us(me) |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Army Issues ‘red Alert’ To Soldiers Dealing With Nigeria Police(photos) by AlomoReloaded: 10:36am On Aug 12, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by AlomoReloaded: 10:14am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Shadbay: I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.
Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup. I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.
I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.
I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.
The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.
I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.
I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.
I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.
Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".
I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you. Heediot!!!!! Others dey get depressed because money wey we dey expect, no gree land, this pvssy dey get depressed, because woman leave am!!!! You deserve to be flogged!!! Nonsense!!!!!!  |
Crime › Re: Soldiers Storm Jakande Detaining Policemen Over Death Of Lagos Trader by AlomoReloaded: 8:39pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Man Beaten Blue And Black In Warri For Burglary (Video) by AlomoReloaded: 10:33am On Aug 09, 2019 |
Them no beat am well naa... See as him face still fresh .... I wish buhari and other politicians can be beaten this way or even more for all the hardship they caused us. |
Phones › Re: Samsung Galaxy Note 10 And Note 10 Plus - Things You Should Know by AlomoReloaded: 8:45am On Aug 08, 2019 |
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Programming › Re: Basil Okpara Jr, Biography, Age, Nigerian Programmer Who Built 30 Mobile Games by AlomoReloaded: 11:30am On Aug 07, 2019 |
johnmartus: You should be ashamed of yourself There's nothing to be proud of being igbo . Many of friends don't want to be address as igbo Ezzi ófía!!!!!!! |
Crime › Re: Man Steals Senator Araraume Bag At The Airport Got Caught by AlomoReloaded: 10:05am On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Car Talk › Re: Honda E’s Dual Touchscreen Dashboard Featured In Video Demonstration by AlomoReloaded: 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2019 |
Cute car... Innoson go reach there soon |
Romance › Re: Signs His Not Just That Into You by AlomoReloaded: 7:28am On Jul 31, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Troops Repel Terrorist's Attack In Baga, Kill 10 (PHOTO) by AlomoReloaded: 10:49am On Jul 30, 2019 |
Correct.... Gallant soldiers... May God protect you guys. |
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