Dr Saheed Abiodun Yusuf, the Chief Executive Officer of Gemstone Autos and Gemstone Homes and Properties, has been awarded an Honorary Doctorate by the Institute of Leadership Assessment and Development (ILAD) Nigeria.

He received this prestigious recognition as a Fellow of the institute.

According to the Institute, Dr. Yusuf was recognized for his continual and selfless contributions to the development and his leadership qualities in both the public and private sectors of the economy.

Receiving the award, the Gemstone boss thanks the ILAD Board for finding him worthy and perhaps recognizing his enormous contributions to the development of his immediate communities

He said: ‘’I am pleased, honored, and humbled to accept this award and to join past recipients who I have long admired and respected
‘’A very special thanks to the ILAD Board for selecting me And an enormous salute to all of this year’s nominees each of whom has made incredible contributions to the development process and shown good leadership in their respective communities

‘’Thank you to those who nominated me and supported my nomination.

‘’And, of course, thank you to my extended family and friends for always supporting me and being there for me, especially my beautiful wife

Highlighting his life perspective as a leader and entrepreneur, Dr Yusuf reiterated: * Many years ago. When I was in secondary school I remember so distinctly being in commercial class and learning about public speaking and portraying leadership skills by organizing and making sure my fellow students were being heard and respected. I ended up being an assembly perfect and also the head of the Muslim Student Society (MSS)

‘’Ever since then, it has become my passion and favorite thing to learn, teach, direct coordinate, and make an impact on people around me.

‘’And I know for sure now - that no one will ever tell me I did not clap well or be happy with everyone around me because I always want a Win-Win moment for everybody throughout my life

‘’And what a wonderful moment for me to end this year 2023 with another Honorary Doctorate, it is another feather added to the cap, am so happy and grateful. Thank you. alihamdulilahi 🙏🏽💎😍

Congratulations To Him🎉👏

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Why calling him wicked soul?

The Former Vice Chancellor of Michael Okpara University of Agriculture Umudike and the former Rector of Akanu Ibiam Federal Polytechnic Uwana,Afikpo of Ebonyi State,Prof.Francis Otunta dies in a ghastly accident.

Prof.Otunta was born on 29th April,1958 in Nkpogoro community in Afikpo North Local Government Area,in Ebonyi State.And he died at the age of 63.

He was a Mathematican by profession,and he served as the former Rector of Akanu Ibiam Federal Polytechnic,Uwana Afikpo of Ebonyi within (2006-2014),he also served as the fifth Vice Chancellor of Michael Okpara University of Agriculture umudike prior to his appointment as the 5th Vice Chancellor of Michael Okpara University of Agriculture,Otunta had previously worked as a professor of mathematics at the University of Benin

Dele and Shayo (not real names) have
been married for a few years. Shayo is a
housewife, taking care of the kids, while
Dele goes to work every day. Dele came
back from work one fine evening,
expecting to get “something light” from
his wife after dinner, only for her to say
“Dele I have already masturbated a few
hours ago, so I am not really in the
mood right now”.
This was the fifth time Shayo was telling
him this in three weeks, so obviously
she had replaced “Dele” with her
“fingers,” using her newly purchased
vibrator hidden away somewhere in the
house. Dele was so angry at being
deprived of his right. Being a Christian,
he didn’t believe in cheating on his wife,
and he didn’t want to be put in that
situation so he wanted her to stop using
that “evil” vibrator right away. Out of
fear, she threw it away, but couldn’t
overcome the urge soon and started
using her fingers to please herself, Dele
couldn’t take it anymore when he
discovered and that was the beginning
to the end.
This story is same or slightly different
with many other experiences of couples
in various homes. Some partners accept
it because they feel it’s much better
than “adultery”, while some see it as a
slap on the face. The interesting part is
men rarely talk about it amongst
themselves. Women are more open in
discussing it with each other, while
couples don’t even want to mention it at
all. Really interesting, isn’t it?
Couples should be open about their
sexual wants and desires, as well as
their dislikes. 85 % of men and 45 % of
women who live with their spouses are
said to have masturbated. Vibrators,
sex machines, intimacy gadgets and even sex
dolls are steadily replacing human
contact and encouraging masturbation
addiction. Many people would argue
that this is more common with men,
than women, well that is not our debate
for today, but on how it affects both
genders and its aftermath in a
relationship. Masturbation is derived
from a Latin word “manstuprare,”
meaning “to defile one’s self by hand”.
Many couples I have counselled or
spoken to say that masturbation is a
very uncomfortable topic to broach.
Imagine walking in on your partner
masturbating? So many questions will
be running through your head at once.
Apart from immediately casting and
binding the devil, there are several
thoughts that rush through your mind,
number one being who or what is my
partner thinking about while at it? Some
couples may wonder if masturbation
can ruin their relationship. Other couples
don’t even want to discuss it.
Masturbation often carries a stigma.
Some religious, cultural and spiritual
traditions associate masturbation with
immorality or sin.
But the truth is masturbation can
become an addiction which can cause
harm to your relationship with several
signals stated below.
When you get to a point where you
inflict self-injury on yourself due to this
habit, it can lead to other challenges in
your relationship.
If your spouse uses masturbation to
cope when they are under stress,
especially when work pressure increases
and next step is to quickly get a private
place to “handle” themselves, then this
is a big issue because apart from
leading your partner to other stress
management behaviour it can quickly
escalate into a big problem, imagine
having to get to the toilet anytime you
are under duress.
This can create a feeling of rejection if
one’s partner finds solace in
masturbating rather than sexually
connecting with their partner. If your
partner finds it very easy to replace
physical contact with you, even when
you are available.
We operate in a religious environment.
The weight of guilt that presents itself
with this act, especially in connection to
our religious and spiritual beliefs (if you
have any) will lead to secrecy or in
some cases creating and maintaining a
double life around your sexual lifestyle.
One of the criteria for addictive
behaviour is frequency of the act,
sometimes partners who want to stop
and are unable to do so, sometimes
unconsciously increase after trying to
make effort to stop due to the helpless
feeling it gives.
Putting religion or cultural beliefs aside,
it is an unhealthy habit with emphasis
on the word habit, not only as an
individual but for couples. Masturbation
is very common among adults, yet it
remains a challenging and
uncomfortable topic
It causes feeling of inadequacy,
especially when the partner discovers
about it, they tend to blame themselves,
assuming that their spouse or partner is
bored or unhappy with them.
Masturbation is a problem that
interferes with day-to-day life, especially
when it is used to substitute real
intimacy with another person.
Your partner may feel that his or her
partner has been keeping secrets. What
couples should understand is that
couples have different viewpoints.
People who masturbate may do so in
different amounts. There is nothing like
an acceptable number or not acceptable
number. where we can establish you
have a problem with masturbation is
when you can’t achieve orgasm with
your partner through intercourse, the
best is to seek help from a therapist.
They can work with you and your partner
to iron out major concerns affecting your
relationship, or smaller issues you are
struggling with.
So many couples if they can be sincere
struggle with masturbation. It all
depends on if you feel you should tell
your spouse that you masturbate. But
you shouldn’t allow the feeling of
inadequacy over take you if you discover
your partner masturbates, as long as
you can maintain a healthy relationship
where both individuals communicate
effectively to understand each other and
know exactly when to come in. Adult
individuals are entitled to their own
thoughts, even what our society might
deem repugnant. Basically what should
be your priority which is my major rule
for relationships is that all your sex,
including fantasies, should be with each
other.
Is it possible to stop masturbation,
especially when it is affecting your
relationship? I would say yes! Definitely,
you can stop it.
Instead of trying to restrict your
partner’s behaviour for instance
because restriction with words like “you
must stop this habit at once’ will only
aggravate issues. It is a matter of
discipline and acceptance to try and
stop, once there is a will there is a way.
If you desire to help your partner to stop,
then the best method is to
Talk to them about the habit.
Find out what triggers it (for instance
work pressure).
Ask them how you can help them stop
it.
Give mental and moral support; don’t
make them feel ashamed.
Try to turn their attention to something
else, so that they get to use their time
constructively.
Do it slowly, change cannot happen
overnight.
Know when to seek professional help.
Learning to stop masturbating is a
process and this process takes time. To
overcome this behaviour you’ve
practised for months and sometimes
even years, you personally need several
coping strategies in order to save your
relationship and cause less damage to
show them you really want to stop.
Keeping a full schedule will cut down on
the opportunities you have for
masturbation. Find activities that are
self-soothing, engaging, or exciting. I
personally recommend joining a gym,
start running or jogging, exert yourself
physically.
You will also need a healthy diet for your
body, caring for yourself may reduce
urges or provide motivation to resist. It
can also provide a new focus for your
energy and efforts. You also need to be
accountable to someone you trust, if
you can find a support group. That
would be excellent and a right path to
recovery. It can also help you develop
new behaviour. You need to limit your
lone time, wear extra clothes at night to
cover everywhere as much as possible,
make it difficult for the temptation to be
successful. Stop everything that triggers
the urge, like porn, sex magazines and
so on, and most of all, be patient with
yourself while healing yourself. Good

luck!





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Valentine is a Catholic Feast,
In the church,where it was originated from,it is not Day of Obligation neither is it a Solemnity day!
The Church do use the Valentine to show Love, through charity work, Generosity and giving of alms to the poor and the needy, preaching to humans to be in peace with others......
The Church also use the day to preach to married men and women to be steadfast to their Love!
Valentine is very Far from immorality,
Love is not Lust
Love is not Sex
#Peace

LMS1:
Guy Na Wahala U Dey Find So O

lol

mcjohny:

Some people still think this confra colour stuff still dey rain. if u stop me based on colour wey i fly u go see ur self 4 d nearest area command

Nasooo

mcjohny:
Guy man. Mehn that level no get level again nah

lol

Jerryherd:
Yellow beret ,SUG Exco if you know you know

she no belong oooo

Maj196:
Ugly

u no carry ur eyes come oooo

Kingluqman:
This one na even Alora


Unionism don cast for Nigeria

hmm

cchub:
Barney is a tested finegirl

Lol

Olabode971:
Well done young lady...


But the tin weh pain me pass be say; Those Useless Animals called Fulani don't mind to cut Vibrant Pipu's life anytime..



A Child not well cared and catered for Will surely disturbed the Child well cared and catered for..


#And it pained me say I be Nigerian..

How I wish one can choose country he/she wish to come before coming to this world.

e pain u Ah Swear

Caprie:
Nice one Justina.

If you are a graduate waiting to go for your NYSC, check my profile for good news.

Thanks

Rursh:
. You see well bro. May GP be with you

if GP no Ride,BP go rise nah

Telegram234:
Where is the beauty?

U no dey see am?

Drizzy5001:
SUG for my school na scam, e no dey function... Mtcheeew

Wahala dey like Church Project

marshalcarter:
Okay...good for her...she's beautiful indeed




BelieveMe

Nice

paschalj4:
am still single so i don't have any marriage to invest on and the word polyuwana i will love to know the meaning.

Polyuwana is gotten from a Latin word “PolyfreeDna"which means No DNA Needed

paschalj4:
my statement don't imply that i am in search of her personal contact, am just complimenting her looks. Thats all, nothing more.

Lol
Invest Your Marriage for Polyuwana,no need of DNA

straight Winning

LMS1:
She Is Better Than That Nairaland Lady Who Is Always On Frontpage Calling Men Redpillers. I Nor Mention Name O
But Op Why The Coke Nor Cool?

Abeg oooo make una help me push am to Front-page

longetivity:
why she come dey advertise closeup

lol for where?

paschalj4:
she is indeed beautiful.

u need her contact?

Best SUG official of the year in Akanu ibiam federal polytechnic unwana. Ebonyi State. (MAYA)




The Director of Information, Students Union Government Akanu ibiam federal Polytechnic Unwana, Ebonyi State. Im the person of Comr. Kalu Justina Oti has been awarded the best SUG official of the Year by the chief Judge of the 16th Judiciary council Students Union Government today. 5th February, 2021

In a statement released to the press, the Award was given to her due to her selfless services in the polytechnic. she took it as a personal burden, to make sure that all necessary information is made available to the reach all studentsin the polytechnic community, on time and the accurate one

KALU JUSTINA OTI is a final year student of Business Administration and Management, School of Business. Maya hail from Abia State in Arochukwu LGA.she is the first female DIRECTOR OF INFORMATION Student Union Government (AIFPU) since the establishment of the institution Thirty Seven (39) years ago. 

she was elected Director of Information of the school's union on 11th October, 2019. Officially took over the office on 17th of October, 2019. will be handling over the office next month been march 2021

She was once the students judicial council representative during her national diploma in the department of business administration, continue Education. She is hardworking in all


am so grateful serving as the director of information Sug 2019/2020 session.This award will always be dear to me. It will always be a reminder of the hard work that we all have put into life. Moreover, this award will only motivate me to achieve more success in the future.

all thanks to the Students of AIFPU and the management as a whole. am grateful. God bless his Lordship igwe Philip the current chief judge student union government



she wrote: Receiving an award for one’s hard work is indeed one of the most deeply joyful moments that one can ever get in one’s life. However, we all know how hard it can be if someone comes to you and asks you for you to recommend them for an award nomination. 
am so grateful serving as the director of information Sug 2019/2020 session.This award will always be dear to me. It will always be a reminder of the hard work that we all have put into life. Moreover, this award will only motivate me to achieve more success in the future.

all thanks to the Students of AIFPU and the management as a whole. am grateful. God bless his Lordship igwe Philip the current chief judge student union government.

Congrats Nna Anyị Bishop

Member representing Afikpo South/North Federal consistency Hon.Idu Igeriwey donated a solar powered Borehole to the school hostel of Akanu Ibiam Federal Polytechnic Uwana Afikpo Ebonyi State,Then get award from the School SUG PRESIDENT Comr.Smart Chima Okoro
The Lawmaker took to his Official Facebook Page to post it,he posted “Today I had the honour of commisioning
a solar powered borehole at Akanu
Ibiam Federal Polytechnic Unwana. This
project is part of our continuous
contribution to education.
I am also honoured to have received an
award of honor from the Student Union
Government led by the president Chima
Smart Okoro.
Of course this project was made
possible by the cordial disposition of the
school management led by the Rector
Ven. Ogbonnia Ibe Enwo. This project
will birth more projects and interventions
in the near future."
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Then let him resign nah

The Presidential Spokesman Femi Adesina reported a a visit of A Foreign Minister a year after the visit,the visit which happened on 5th January 2020 was made public by the Spokesman
Adesina reported this on his Official Facebook Page,he posted “President Buhari receives in Audience Wang Yi,State Councilor of the People's Republic of China in State House on 5th January,2020
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He also reported an official briefing by the Vice President of Nigeria,His Excellency Yemi Osibanjo to President Muhammad Buhari Which happened on 5th of January,2020 on today also
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