I hate gossipers,
I believe those that do so ain't happy with there life

Only you said what I just needed to hear

Konquest:

Hi!

From the description you have of your retiree dad, I suspect he may be experiencing early to mid stages of Parkinson's or some other neurological disorder.

What I mean is that his constant fighting or quarrels with folks in the village (due to irritability), the sale of his house without information you his children, your inability to locate your late mother's properties kept in the original house that he sold, fourth your father's ABRUPT plan to relocate back to the city after a lot has been spent of the village house, fifth, the CONSTANT revealing of family secrets by your father to people which have led to the alleged disrespect for your father by folks are some of the things you and your siblings have to become aware of. Sixth, his inability to keep or spend large amounts of money judiciously.

Read up on Parkinson's symptoms (there are over 30 symptoms or side effects) to get a hang of what I'm saying here. Get him to see a professional neurologist for major checkups to determine what is wrong with him... and primary watch if he has tremors in his hands. Forgetfulness is another major symptom.

CBD oil is a potent patented medication that helps to relieve the neurological symptoms.

There are drugs or medications to stabilize a patient, but under normal conditions, the damage to the brain nerves and stem cells are irreversible. Research is still going on though to find a lasting cure for Parkinson's which can strike from about the age of 35 years and above.

I must commend you for looking out for your dad... That is very noble of you. In the process, you will also learn about yourself and how to give love and vice versa. Now that you know these, please be patient with him from here on out because it's much deeper, though it can be annoyingly and embarrassing when a loved one doesn't keep secrets, missplaces things, and is forgetfulness atimes. These are classic symptoms of Parkinson's disease.

A lot of folks have given brilliant advice here and I also do not subscribe to you renting a house for him. At his age, he should be in his own house and not have to start paying rent to a landlord. Last but not least, in the absence of stock market investments or mutual funds, the recommended investment for retirees is in the field of agronomy as that would bring in sustainable income and they can also feed themselves instead of depending exclusively on others.

They can have hybrid economic trees planted such as avocado and others which yearly produce fruits, hybrid tomatoes and red/yellow peppers, pineapples, etc. these can sustain them and the excess can be sold at a farmers market.

Hope this helps.

Cheers!

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I'm so sorry about what you are going through, but living with anyone going through a mental disorder. It's one of the most nerve racking situation you can ever imagine. It's better imagined than experienced
Please treat your mom with the last love you have, because she has no idea what she does. Laziness is also a symptom of most mental disorder. manipulation or lies she tells is because she has no idea when she does that. She might have a beautiful soul but I'm sorry to let you know that maybe she never started her treatment on time, which led to a chronic stage. Due to this she ain't responding to treatment. Please treat you mum very well because she might not stay for long and parents her like God on earth.The issue is you don't understand what she is going through. I don't wish a mental disorder for my enemies. Because it's the worst ailment that can happen to anyone . To me I see the individuals living with it as people lost but still lalive, till their maker calls them home, they are always source of embarrassment to themselves and family. She knows she is not okay I can bet it with you she also cries before she go to bed and ask God to take it away. But it is what it is.

Love your mom regardless so that you won't regret it and wish to turn back the hands of time.

Thank God you said majority not all.

I hate to admit it. But your 💯

humilitypays:
How many people on earth do things by considering if it hurts others or not? Does your President, Governors, Senators, Reps, The Dangote's of this world, the Banks of this world, the governments of this world; which of them cared about how their actions affect others?



For your information, life is selfish, and to succeed in life you must be selfish in many things, it is the bitter truth.


People who follow the rules like you are portraying usually end up at the bottom of the ladder of life, that's fact.

What happened to you

SonOfaRichman:
I watched that video last night on Twitter and I shook my head.

In all you do, never forget to pray
I mean those radical prayer points. The mfm type of prayer. Those fire for fire prayer.

If I begin talk my own!
For the past five years!
Well God has taken over, but yiu see those household enemies?

They are more dangerous than the average kidnapper or Nigerian police, those household enemies would never stop till they render you useless like a used female pad. And guess what, it takes the grace of God before you realize what has actually happened to you.
Some don't until they eventually die.

Its a sad sad world.

The average black man is filled with wickedness and jealousy, they won't succeed and they don't want to see you succeed either. That includes some members of your family.
God help us all.

There is high probability you have social anxiety disorder

Clowns